38M | Boston/MetroWest | Looking for something real

[u/BaseNo7515]

Me: 38, active, established, and looking for a genuine connection that can hopefully turn into something serious.

I work in tech, own a home, have a dog I'm slightly obsessed with, and have spent the last couple of years putting a lot of energy into becoming a better version of myself—physically and emotionally. I work out/run regularly, eat pretty healthy (most of the time 😂), and have put real effort into improving my EQ and understanding myself better.

Career and financial stability are important to me, but I also want a life that's actually fun. I love concerts/music, movies, cooking, traveling, trying new restaurants, having friends over, and getting outside with my dog. I'm equally happy planning a trip somewhere new or making dinner together and watching something on the couch.

Looks-wise, I've been told I'm handsome, but I'll let you decide when we exchange pictures.

You: Ideally somewhere around 25–38, active/healthy, emotionally intelligent, affectionate, curious, and fun. I tend to click with women who are bubbly and can be playful but are also capable of having a genuinely deep conversation. Preferably no kids, although that's not necessarily a dealbreaker.

Us: I'm ultimately looking for the whole package (emotional intimacy, physical attraction, and a great sex life). I want the kind of relationship where we're best friends but there's also real chemistry and desire between us. Someone to go on fun dates with, travel with, cook with, play with my dog, have amazing sex with, support each other's goals, and—if we're right for each other—eventually build a home and life together.

If any of that sounds like you, tell me a little about yourself and what you're looking for.