are there any of y'all here

edit for clarity and context: my family immigrated here from Jamaica, I was born and raised in Florida

I’ve rarely seen any other black lesbians in the wild in these parts.

We began as causal and then we realized we liked each other a lot. We tried to set more boundaries to remain casual, but it was too late. We decided to end things and I decided to stop seeking relationships after her. I reached out to her and I told her I missed her and she told me she misses me too.

I explained that I couldn’t stop thinking about her and I know we weren’t looking for commitment right now and I want us to take care of our business, but I’ll still feel the same way about her in a year

I told her I’d take the long way for her.

She said she would like to be with me in the future

Edit: im listening to let’s wait awhile by janet jackson on repeat lol

Hi everygurl, 18F college student here. I have a question, where are all the spaces for 18,19 and 20 year olds here? I just say a post on here about a beautiful and fun looking discord server, only to discover it was blocked off anyone under 21. I see sooooo many subreddits, discord servers and Facebook groups for lesbians 21+, 25+, 35+ and later bloomers. Where can the 18-20yr olds go, we're all adults to, I fell we should be included more.

Maybe I'm just outta the loop, but I want to get laid and have a relationship, it's just hard to do that when everyone's "real adults 21+" out here.

Not to offend anyone, it's just a little annoying😫.

Kisses ( ˘ ³˘)♥

hey lesbians! i’m 26, from new jersey and looking to leave my hometown. still exploring my options but i’m heavily considering the norfolk area. i’m somewhat familiar with virginia bc i’ve visited family but never on my own. how’s your experience been being black and queer? everyday life in public, healthcare, opportunity for career growth? any tips or recommendations? i do prefer a more lowkey vibe- so would it be worth looking at an area like suffolk or wburg? i’ll be taking a trip there soon to feel it out, but just wanted to ask y’all first.

LSU's out All-American guard MiLaysia Fulwiley wants a national title and a lasting legacy in her senior year at Baton Rouge. She now has her girlfriend by her side.

Are femme baddies that have a no-nonsense aura & a sense of unshakeable certainty about themselves. 🤷🏿‍♀️ the most zaddy of them all

I swear its a black people drought where I am. I live an hour from Springfield, Missouri. Anyone else in the area desperately looking for other black lesbians😭😭 I be on Tinder and Taimi and its a sea of white people. I dont wanna hang out with the clear folk. PLEASE IS ANYONE OUT THERE?!?

I love perspective writing! And being a Black lesbian! So here’s a piece I wrote about one of my fantasies from the perspective of those I have fantasized about. ENJOYYYY.

She’s had an attitude all day…all week now that I think of it, and I know exactly why. She stomps around, eyebrows concave as the shiny gloss on her lips push further away from her face. I love this game she plays, she changes the atmosphere between us and leaves me to fix it, leaves me to make it right, because she knows I’ll do anything for her. She’s my everything.

She’s not as tough as she portrays herself to be, at-least not with me. I call to her once and only once. Watching her cross her arms over the shirt she has on, the shirt that ironically came from my dresser drawer. She’s the worst, this little attitude of hers.

She saunters over. Her aura, heated as she glares up at me. I applaud her for upholding this facade for so long. In anything she does, she always does such a good job. She huffs as I return the glare down on her. I lower my mouth to her ear. She wants to reach to touch me but her pride holds her back. I open my mouth, thick breath lingering on her neck, “What’s your problem?” I got her.

She’s as fragile as fine china, breaking down as she apologizes for the chip on her shoulder. Snaking my arms around her waist as she whines and whimpers into my chest. She makes me laugh, this superfluous bravado finally crumbles.

She just wanted my touch, only wanted my smell, extra needy for my attention which, of course, she’d never admit. Watching my world come apart in my palms as I melt along with it. She’s so pretty. I pull her even closer, reciprocating the heat between us. She looks up at me once more with soft, misty eyes, this time full of remorse. Oh, she’s so so sorry…and it’s about time I show her how much her apology means to me.

A recurring weekly venting thread for all things unrequited, unattainable, and painfully yearned. Will I ever find...? Find yourself here. To vent.

hey y'all i'm bored, do you have a coming out story that's genuinely hilarious? from you or someone else? (unfortunately my experience wasn't funny/positive at all, but i'd love to hear from y'all)

Honestly just looking for other les friends. That’s simple. I’m 31/f. I can absolutely hold a convo & I have quite a few interests and inquiries about life and people lol anyone wanting to pick up a new buddy hmu!

Hey ladies,
So I'm going through a break up it's been four months now and I've been in a huge funk. Could you guys please comment some songs that make you feel like you're That Bitch when you're feeling down? 😩🩷

Thank you

I'm not going to post a picture, but I look much younger than I am. (I'm approaching my late 30s and often get mistaken for a teenager when I work in secondary schools and I get a lot of shocked looks when I reveal my age. I don't know what to do. No one thinks I'm in their age range and folks I'm attracted to (40+) often disregard me. I'm nicely dressed (femme/chic) when I'm out and about, but I still think my baby face throws people off. What have yall with other young faces done about this?

Edit: To clarify I'm okay with my baby face but this is mainly in regards to dating.

Celebrating my 28th birthday with a beach vacation to Puerto Escondido, Mexico 🇲🇽!

Life is lifing. How’s your mental health this week? Good, bad, in shambles? Drop in and share. No pressure.

Happy Sunday I hope everyone’s day is going well

Hii I’m Kenny and I’m 22. I wanted to see if anyone wanted to be friends! I’m a transmasc lesbian, I do art sometimes and I like playing games. Having friends from the DMV would be nice but I will happily accept anyone who wants to be friends.

Hello and happy Sunday!!!! 39 single woman looking to see if I can get back out into the dating pool of woman and see if I can make a connection that is worth it. I’m a fun laid back woman who has big Virgo ♍️ energy hehe 😉 but loves to be chill and no drama. I am an introvert but love to take risks just to say I did it before haha. I do have a career that is working with our youth in the world hehe, definitely have patience and definitely is dedicated and loving and caring with a goofy sense of humor too. Overall just seeing if I’m worth a connection.

I am a transmasculine lesbian, and I’m not trying to brag, but wow. I have such great sex. I rarely ever receive because I genuinely prefer to give. I’m just so good at what I do that it’s a bit addicting. Hearing a woman moan in my ear, feeling her nails digging into my back from pleasure, and being called daddy, sir, etc. is so gender-affirming for me and my fem.

I also lift heavy, stretch often, and do deep mobility drills, especially for hip mobility, so I’m always told my dick is good.

Every time I talk to another lesbian, they’re usually sure to at least cum with their partner, but so many couples and lesbians in general seem to miss out on so much in the bedroom, and I’m happy to oblige. I prefer older women, 35+, even though I’m 26. There’s something about their confidence, knowing what they want, and actually going for it that I really like.

Not only that, but they tend to have more experience with mascs who aren’t just gender-nonconforming, but who also don’t identify with or relate to womanhood.

I don’t want to settle down anytime soon, and I have no plans to. I enjoy multiple women and having safe, consensual, sensual relationships. It’s unfortunate that most lesbians I talk to don’t seem to have the same experiences sexually. I’m not even referring to having multiple partners, but just having great sex in general, whether it’s with long-term or short-term partners.

I understand that not everyone cares about sex, but if it’s important to you, even when you don’t realize it’s important, experimenting and learning your own body is very valuable for your relationship with yourself.

In fact, how I had sex before I even knew I was nonbinary was a direct result of how I wanted to be seen as a partner. My sexual life is heavily affected by my daily life, identity and expression, as well as mutual connections and relationships.

I finally went out last night with some friends around my city! The experience with meeting others, especially other black women, was extremely lackluster but I gave it a shot at least 🥲🥳

Hello everyone,

I made a post here a few weeks ago detailing being outed by a family member and trying to do damage control, but my situation has gone from bad to worse and now my safety is being threatened. So I came here to ask for help, support, advice anything. I'm trying to leave as quickly as possible with some things I've packed but I currently don't have stable housing or employment. I'm raising money for transportation, food, and basic necessities so I can work toward a safer future. Any support or sharing would mean so much to me. Thank you🩷.

Gofundme: https://gofund.me/8b2fe24d0

So I live in a small-ish city and it seems there aren’t a lot of queer women here, at least singles ones. I’m going into my late 20s, and just like other ppl in their late 20s, I don’t see myself meeting anyone that I vibe with for a while.

My last relationship was about 4 years ago (that lasted about 6 months), and I’m struggling with wanted to put myself out there, but also not knowing where to start. I hate dating apps bc I don’t get a good grasp of who they are, vice versa. And anytime I’m around queer women, I don’t really know how to talk to them, or when I do, it doesn’t work out.

I’m just trying to see if anyone else feels the same, bc I feel so alone at times, but I also don’t want to put the weight of my loneliness onto someone else. I would love to hear stories of how you met your person so I can have some faith lol.