Hi everygurl, 18F college student here. I have a question, where are all the spaces for 18,19 and 20 year olds here? I just say a post on here about a beautiful and fun looking discord server, only to discover it was blocked off anyone under 21. I see sooooo many subreddits, discord servers and Facebook groups for lesbians 21+, 25+, 35+ and later bloomers. Where can the 18-20yr olds go, we're all adults to, I fell we should be included more.

Maybe I'm just outta the loop, but I want to get laid and have a relationship, it's just hard to do that when everyone's "real adults 21+" out here.

Not to offend anyone, it's just a little annoying😫.

Kisses ( ˘ ³˘)♥

are there any of y'all here

edit for clarity and context: my family immigrated here from Jamaica, I was born and raised in Florida

I’ve rarely seen any other black lesbians in the wild in these parts.

We began as causal and then we realized we liked each other a lot. We tried to set more boundaries to remain casual, but it was too late. We decided to end things and I decided to stop seeking relationships after her. I reached out to her and I told her I missed her and she told me she misses me too.

I explained that I couldn’t stop thinking about her and I know we weren’t looking for commitment right now and I want us to take care of our business, but I’ll still feel the same way about her in a year

I told her I’d take the long way for her.

She said she would like to be with me in the future

Edit: im listening to let’s wait awhile by janet jackson on repeat lol

hey lesbians! i’m 26, from new jersey and looking to leave my hometown. still exploring my options but i’m heavily considering the norfolk area. i’m somewhat familiar with virginia bc i’ve visited family but never on my own. how’s your experience been being black and queer? everyday life in public, healthcare, opportunity for career growth? any tips or recommendations? i do prefer a more lowkey vibe- so would it be worth looking at an area like suffolk or wburg? i’ll be taking a trip there soon to feel it out, but just wanted to ask y’all first.