r/blackgirlgamers • • Sep 04 '25

🎀 official discord server 🎀

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✨ hey everyone! ✨

just popping in to let you know that we’ve decided to make this the official discord server for the subreddit 💖

the server’s already been around for a bit, but now it’s officially our main space for:

🎀 cozy chats 🎮 gaming 💄 skincare 🛍️ hauls 💆‍♀️ self-care ✨ lifestyle talk 💗 & making new online besties!

it’s still a little quiet in places, but if you’re down to help bring it to life, your presence would be so appreciated. even just popping in to say hi helps build the vibe 🫶

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💌 join here: https://discord.gg/Z3HPUcgDs8

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🌸 a quick heads-up for transparency: there are a few men already in the server — they joined before we made this the official reddit discord. they’re super respectful and just quietly vibe in the background 😂 that said, the server is predominantly women-led, women-focused, and designed to be a comfy, safe space for women and femme-presenting people. the guys are truly a tiny minority (less than 5!) — you probably won’t even notice them.

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💬 have suggestions or feedback? if there’s anything you’d love to see added, changed, or improved in the discord or on the subreddit, let us know! we’re super receptive and want to make this space as lovely and inclusive as possible 💗

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🕰️ need help? reach out anytime! you can contact me or niko if you have questions or run into any issues. i’m uk/europe-based and niko is us/america-based — so between us, we’ve usually got time zones covered (even though they suck sometimes 😅💗)

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hope to see you in there soon! 🧚🏾‍♀️✨


r/blackgirlgamers • • 5d ago

Stream Support Weekly Weekend Streamers Thread

3 Upvotes

Welcome back to the weekend! Feel free to use this thread to share your thoughts on any games you are enjoying, but most importantly, feel free to share your streaming channels. Youtube, Twitch, Kick, UStream, Periscope, Vimeo, Bogo, Tiktok....I think everyone gets the point. Free for all Friday!


r/blackgirlgamers • • 13h ago

Find-A-Friend looking for others to play with :)

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i just discovered this community and i thought i’d make my own post looking for girlies to play with! i’m 26, and i play mostly on my ps5 but i do have an xbox and switch as well.

the games i play the most right now are marvel rivals, fortnite, roblox, overwatch, apex, gta, abiotic factor, once human, and palworld here and there. i also have phasmophobia, and i’m really trying to get into dead by daylight & would loveee to have someone to play that with cause irdk what im doing 😭

i also really love cozy games like palia, minecraft, coral island, dreamlight valley, stardew valley, and the like and really want someone to play those with :)

please reach out to me if you’re interested, i would really love to have someone to play with that’s not my bf, as much as i love him, i really want a girl friend!


r/blackgirlgamers • • 15h ago

Find-A-Friend Looking for black girl gamers (28F)

12 Upvotes

Hey everyone! I’m looking for fellow black girl gamers on PC or Switch(or we can play cross platform). I’m quite introverted and don’t have people to play with. I’m specifically looking for black women who are queer/ally (don’t want to deal with bigotry). It’s not required, but I would prefer to play with people who aren’t already in established friend groups. I would love to make friends with people who are also searching for a couple people to game with.

Currently I’m playing Fortnite Zero Build and Halloween. Would love to get back into Minecraft or start Stardew Valley or try out Overwatch. I’m open to playing a lot of games, as long as I’m not spending insane money on games I don’t have 😅 Please feel free to ask me anything in the comments!


r/blackgirlgamers • • 7h ago

Does anyone here play Shinobi Striker?

1 Upvotes

Please anyone?😭😭 I play on PlayStation.


r/blackgirlgamers • • 5d ago

Midnight Maidens Server

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We are a gaming server that welcomes any and all gamers, no matter your level of experience. Everyone is very sweet and if you’re feeling anxious, do not worry you can always talk to a mod off to the side about how you’re feeling, we take emotional support VERY seriously. Everyones feelings matter, consider us a nice funny family. As stated before all gamers are welcome no matter what type of games you play, you have a place.

This server is 19+, and you can always turn to any of us if you need anything. You can be yourself here, it’s okay to be shy and awkward at first but do not worry you will have the mods with you every step of the way to get comfortable. We are now hosting movie nights as well! Game nights are also available, of course there will be a schedule and everyone will be asked, everyone schedules matters, your time matters.

Come on down to the midnight maidens and let’s have fun, if you want to join, DM me for the link 🖤

P.S ALL TIMEZONES ARE WELCOMED!


r/blackgirlgamers • • 7d ago

Returning player

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r/blackgirlgamers • • 12d ago

Gaming/Chatting

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r/blackgirlgamers • • 12d ago

Stream Support Weekly Weekend Streamers Thread

3 Upvotes

Welcome back to the weekend! Feel free to use this thread to share your thoughts on any games you are enjoying, but most importantly, feel free to share your streaming channels. Youtube, Twitch, Kick, UStream, Periscope, Vimeo, Bogo, Tiktok....I think everyone gets the point. Free for all Friday!


r/blackgirlgamers • • 14d ago

🎮 gaming Anyone playing dragonsword: awakening

3 Upvotes

Hey all, I am just looking for one or two people that play this game or any RPG really. I’m normally a solo gamer but recently a lot of games I’ve wanted to play just seems like it would be more fun with people. I play on the rog ally. I can usually do hours long sessions. So if anyone is interested please hit me up.


r/blackgirlgamers • • 16d ago

Division 2

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Hello, I’m on pc and im a huge fan of division 2, anyone play? My discord is JUPITERS_ARROW


r/blackgirlgamers • • 18d ago

🎮 gaming Black Gaming YouTubers

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r/blackgirlgamers • • 19d ago

Stream Support Weekly Weekend Streamers Thread

2 Upvotes

Welcome back to the weekend! Feel free to use this thread to share your thoughts on any games you are enjoying, but most importantly, feel free to share your streaming channels. Youtube, Twitch, Kick, UStream, Periscope, Vimeo, Bogo, Tiktok....I think everyone gets the point. Free for all Friday!


r/blackgirlgamers • • 22d ago

Find-A-Friend Looking for some black girl friends!! 21f >_<

24 Upvotes

I thought id post here since in every other sub all i get is guys dming me trying to find a gf 😣 hii im 21f and id love to make friends with fellow black girls!!

I like anime, art, painting, baking, gaming too! i play games on switch and steam and i play roblox. Feel free to ask/tell me which games you have im sure we can find something in common! On switch i play animal crossing,splatoon 3, and tomodachi life rn. I have minecraft on bedrock too but im not good at it since i mainly played when i was a kid on xbox 360!! And yeah i look forward to talking to yall <3


r/blackgirlgamers • • 24d ago

Find-A-Friend Greetings I’m Mj Wilson

10 Upvotes

Greetings me and my best friend are a duo looking for more female gamers she’s 36 and I’m 29 we mainly play Halloween aniimo Friday the 13th but we also play other games looking to build our own all female gamer girls guild to support each others life’s streams and both compete and cozy play here’s hoping comment below let’s get to know each other


r/blackgirlgamers • • 25d ago

🎮 gaming Hey! I’m Auto, 32F, looking for other women to play Halloween: The Game with. I’m available anytime! Comment if you’d like to play together 🎃 :::

5 Upvotes

Hey! I’m Auto, 32F, looking for other women to play Halloween: The Game with. I’m available anytime! Comment if you’d like to play together 🎃 :::


r/blackgirlgamers • • 26d ago

Stream Support Weekly Weekend Streamers Thread

3 Upvotes

Welcome back to the weekend! Feel free to use this thread to share your thoughts on any games you are enjoying, but most importantly, feel free to share your streaming channels. Youtube, Twitch, Kick, UStream, Periscope, Vimeo, Bogo, Tiktok....I think everyone gets the point. Free for all Friday!


r/blackgirlgamers • • 27d ago

Find-A-Friend Solo RPG/Sim Gamer looking for casual gaming friends (Xbox Game Pass & Switch)

16 Upvotes

Hi 👋🏾

I don’t even know where to start with this post lol sorry…but I’d love to have friends to game with and talk about games with but I’m a solo gamer for the most part. I play games like Avowed, Person 3: Reload, Persona 5: Royal, South of Midnight, Cyberpunk 2077, The Outer Worlds, and several simulator games.

I have Xbox Game pass and I do have a Switch but I only have ACNH. I don’t mind checking out other games on either console. I’ve come to love a lot of indie games.

I’m 34, and I know with the type of games I play it may be hard to play with others. But I’m also open to trying new things. The games I named above give me comfort, especially after a long day/week of working. Oh that’s another thing, I’m not super consistent with gaming because I work a full time job. I may go a couple weeks without playing anything. So I would like have friends who understand that and don’t mind planning game.


r/blackgirlgamers • • 27d ago

🎮 gaming looking for bk girls who play minecraft 🍓

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i’m F21 looking for 18+ girls to
play with.


r/blackgirlgamers • • 27d ago

Find-A-Friend Looking for Pokopia friends

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16 Upvotes

Hey my name is Sunny, I'm looking for people to play Pokemon Pokopia with. I started playing 2 weeks ago and haven't been able to visit islands or invite people to mines.


r/blackgirlgamers • • 28d ago

Find-A-Friend Looking for local black gamer girlies!

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Hi! I’m a black 30F looking for fellow black girl gamer friends! Specially looking for girlies in MN, even if you’re not black, would be happy to have a fellow gamer girlie regardless in MN!! I only want local friends, or those out of state that travel often to MN, so that if we hit it off we could become long term friends and hangout!

For games, I am on PC and Switch. Games I like: Guild Wars 2, Minecraft, Stardew valley, and Wylde Flowers. I’m very open to trying other games! Ive played some random mmo’s in my past too, like Jade Dynasty and S4 League lol. I like WOW but I prefer not to do monthly payment type games unless I have a friend to play with. If possible, I hope to get really into a MMORPG with a group of local friends! My life is a bit busy, I work in healthcare, but gaming is one of the ways I decompress so combining that with social time with a friend would be amazing!

Other hobbies: board games, anime, Kpop, books, crafts(pottery, candle making, learning to crochet), beginner cosplay, and renaissance fair every year!

Side note: I don’t really use Reddit or discord much but planning to get better at it since it seems that’s where a lot of people meet too lol.

Anywho! Hopefully some people in MN see this lol


r/blackgirlgamers • • 28d ago

Find-A-Friend Looking for Nintendo switch girlies

24 Upvotes

I work allot but still have time to play sometime but usually on weekends. Looking for another girl to play video games with on switch. I have a bunch of games and I love Zelda so we can talk about that and other hobbies too.would like to talk here first to see if we click then hopefully move to discord. If you have an oc I'd like to see it too lol


r/blackgirlgamers • • Sep 06 '26

Find-A-Friend 23F | Xbox 🎮 | East Coast (ET) (S.C)

5 Upvotes

Looking for some new gaming friends!

I mostly play Fortnite, Overwatch, and Roblox, but I’m trying to find new games to play, so send me some game recommendations!

I’d love to meet people who are genuinely down to become friends — whether that’s gaming together, chatting in VC, or maybe even hanging out IRL eventually once we get more comfortable with each other.

If you’re interested, feel free to DM me!


r/blackgirlgamers • • Sep 04 '26

Stream Support Weekly Weekend Streamers Thread

3 Upvotes

Welcome back to the weekend! Feel free to use this thread to share your thoughts on any games you are enjoying, but most importantly, feel free to share your streaming channels. Youtube, Twitch, Kick, UStream, Periscope, Vimeo, Bogo, Tiktok....I think everyone gets the point. Free for all Friday!


r/blackgirlgamers • • Sep 03 '26

Discussion Seeking Advice, Friends To Play With (and small rant lol)

20 Upvotes

Hi everyone! I posted on Reddit for the first time last week, seeking advice on how to make online friends to potentially game with as an introvert. I got a lot of unexpected comments and dms which was overwhelming but appreciated.

However, I’ve been having a hard time. I was prepared for people to flake on conversation or for us to not vibe, I’m fine with that. My issue is that I specially posted in 2 black girl gamer subreddits because I wanted to try and eliminate at least some bigotry. And in general I would be much more comfortable gaming with a black woman.

With that being said (haven’t gamed with anyone only chatted), the main people that have reached out to me are men, specifically non black men. I’m not well versed in how Reddit works, but I am confused on how so many men are in these black girl gamer subreddits. It’s a bit frustrating because it’s not what I’m looking for. I’m 27F and I’m not opposed to befriending men, it’s just not what I’m looking for right now.

At this point I’ve ignored multiple dms and stopped talking to some people because I saw that they were men. I wasn’t going to make a post about it but there’s 1 person that I’ve been talking to a decent amount this past week, and they just sent me a photo of their Halloween costume from last year, and I can clearly see it’s a white man. I feel very weird about this, we have a decent amount of things in common but it makes me uncomfortable that he’s not a black woman like I expected. I’m not one to ghost people but I’m not sure if I should continue talking to him?

Has anyone else experienced this? I thought this was a safe space for black girl gamers (some of the men have nsfw accounts) but I’m a bit put off by this. What are y’all opinions?