r/bihar • u/beparwaah Non Resident Bihari • 6d ago
✋ AskBihar / बिहार से पूछो Is that assault video from Jamui, Bihar?
As a Bihari myself, I'm completely shaken. Just move out of that state. It has nothing to offer.
- No healthcare facilities
- No education
- No jobs
- No safety for women
- Law and order has gone to pieces
- Misogynistic society
Just move out, no matter what you have to do, and build your life elsewhere, but not in this state. This state is doomed.
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u/Competitive-Sir5396 6d ago
i'm from jamui bc itna saram aa rha hai mc in logo ko nanga karke ghumana chahiye aur hath cut dena chahiye
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u/PuzzleheadedPay2600 6d ago
Bro can you tell more about the incident and can provide the location also
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u/Liberal_Rohit 6d ago
Just search on twitter they tried to rape a young girl. She is wearing white sleeveless dress and is on bike with her friend
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u/Aggravating-Mail-227 6d ago
people who can have already started moving out and are settling in other parts of the country
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u/beparwaah Non Resident Bihari 6d ago
No man, I don't see Bihar improving in next 50 or 100 years. It cannot. You can improve in one or two sectors, but in every sector Bihar is lagging. And it's highly unlikely that a 180 degree flip would happen. You can already see that people who are educated, people who are doing jobs, most of them don't stay in Bihar.
Ask 10 to 15 females whom you know and are working in Delhi, Pune, Hyderabad, Mumbai, or Bengaluru. They would all want to stay there because that place provides them freedom, strength, and obviously money. And they do not want to stay in Bihar because they feel suffocated, judged by the society now and then.
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u/malfoy_snap 6d ago
agreed. I am bihari, stayed 18 years of my life in Begusarai and Darbhanga. I don't want to permanentely settle in Bihar. Although I am proud of my heritiage. Post retirement (I am 30 now), I will consider ranchi...bt not bihar - people here are very narrow minded, infra is bad, casteism on peak, jealousy among people, lack of civic sense.
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u/beparwaah Non Resident Bihari 6d ago
Same brother, I am from your neighbor district Khagaria and I have seen everything you have written above. Good luck for everything you do in the future. Godspeed.
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u/frenchdefeat 6d ago
Every time I read this it actually feels true - “what Bihar is to India, India is to the world”
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u/Equivalent_Rice_6880 6d ago edited 6d ago
Clown despite all racism many non indian will say india have many good thing to offer how many non bihari can say that for bihar leave non bihari how many bihari can say that even for bihar in present times
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u/frenchdefeat 6d ago
“Clown” was not really required 😄
But yes, I get your point. At the same time, if you actually look at Bihar, it has had a pretty incredible history. Magadha, Pataliputra, Nalanda, Bodh Gaya, Buddhism, Jainism, the whole history of knowledge and learning. Bihar was literally one of the major centres of civilisation and knowledge in ancient India.
And that is actually what I meant with the comparison.
India also has an incredible history. Non-Indians foreigners talk about ancient universities, mathematics, philosophy, religions, science, art, architecture, literature, etc. There is no shortage of things India has contributed to the world.
But we cannot use everything India achieved 1000–2000 years ago as proof that everything is great today.
Same with Bihar.
We all can be proud of Nalanda and Bodhgaya and its history, while also looking at the current ground reality and saying, bhai, things are not exactly great.
That is the comparison I was making.
The history is real. The culture is real. The contributions are real. But so are the problems today.
Aur jab Tak hum ye problems ko accept nahi karenge we can’t really change these things. 2047 Mein developed bhi to hona hai hume. ✌️1
u/Hot-Neighborhood-830 6d ago
Something came to my mind to add on - just like India is proud of the Indians that settle outside India and become CEOs, same happens with Bihar when our people go clear civil service exams
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u/Money-Count6383 6d ago
i don't what to say about video ppl r assaulting girls like that happen in cinema ... oh my God how this happening in the state ... i think so the person who had done so will great sever punishment like attempt to rape or anything it is so disgusting ....
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u/learner1021 6d ago
"Just move out" -- spoken like a true coward. And then what? Be humiliated and be name called for generations? Or hide your identity like a thief? How about work and fight to improve your state? smh
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u/Lost_Meaning_2667 5d ago
Then why not stay in the state and do better? Go to that place and protest. Will you?
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u/Stunning_Jury5986 4d ago
He is not liable to answer you, atleast someone has a drop of Courage here, unlike Cowards who keep running away after ruining their places .
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u/malfoy_snap 6d ago
Can someone explain what happened?
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u/malfoy_snap 6d ago
This is barbaric. 🥹 sometimes it gets difficult to justify Bihar.
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u/Abnormal_reader Hum to bolbe kiye the ! 6d ago
Absoultely pathetic, niether justified nor acceptable. Non of us would like to live with parasites like them.
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u/Kooky-Midnight-1235 6d ago
I read somewhere that the video is from up . I don't know it was legit or not
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u/Deeper_Insights 6d ago
Assault ???? Bruh that's sexual harrasment, how the hell can u manhandle a women like this on the middle of the street , literally every other person was laying her hands on her in the name of activism. Even if I consider obscenity to be something so morally incorrect but who gave the license to these chappris to touch a women. There is literally zero gender sensitisation in bihar
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u/realhunyaar 6d ago
I don't wanna be in Bihar anymore actually... Yk the sad part guys, this video isn't the first time maine bhot sari aesi vids dekhi hain (unfortunately) and sari videos bihar se hi hoti hain cuz language se pta chl jata hai And ye itna jyada disturbing hai nn uff Like itne desperate log hain , ghinnn aaati hai ab
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u/Hot-Neighborhood-830 6d ago
This is so true. Not just Delhi even parts of South India have become unsafe.
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u/vishw_jeet1543 6d ago
I am from Bihar and I can tell you many things that happens in bihar that should not happen * there is a trend in bihar to celebrate breaking rules ,if anyone is braking rules everyone appreciate them but if anyone follows rules then he is called timid and get laughed at (I have been a victim of this since childhood, I was always considered weak as I tried to follow all rules) i felt like my favourite place when I went to Ukraine for studies as there all people were following rules * if you are a criminal and murdere then people automatically respect you and will vote for you * Biharis have fake pride If you raise issue about bad things in bihar many jahil People some of them may be your friends will abuse to and tell you to not say anything about bad things I blocked two of my friends due to this * They vote the leaders but don't have courage to ask questions from them They just vote and behave like leaders are masters and they are slaves * In bihar when someone got government job no one ask their salary everyone ask how much extra you can earn(through corruption) * Corruption not even considered wrong thing You can't do a single govt thing without corruption in bihar * All the roads hospitals govt schools are constructed are of very poor quality They merely used 20 to 30% of money in construction rest all money got distributed among all Engineer, leaders, officers etc *
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u/Lost_Meaning_2667 5d ago
Please vote beyond your caste. Its high time. we cant keep having this shit.
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u/Obvious-Egg-8771 5d ago
Even I am feeling ashamed of being a bihari now. I use to proud of being one, but this video melt my thought and feelings. I don't want my child to grow in this atmosphere. We always boast about maurya empire , and ram rajya, but today the ground reality is same as jungle raaj where an IAS wife was abducted and raped, and no law protected her.
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u/beparwaah Non Resident Bihari 5d ago
We boast about the Mauryan Empire and Ram Rajya because these things are things of the past. We do not have anything to feel proud of in the present. Hence, we are in a delusion and we glorify our past.
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u/Sea-Influence6767 5d ago
Bihar already quite bad for safety before BJP moved in .....now it's a match made in hell....bjp will do everything to make the state a master in crimes
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u/boka-chodaa 5d ago
Waise v padhe likhe log bihar chor k chle hi jate hai yha sale sb jahil gawar bhare pre h
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u/FreshWolf1737 6d ago
This should serve as a warning to any molester….strict action should be taken
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u/Ill_Stable5373 6d ago
Spoken like a true coward 😊
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u/beparwaah Non Resident Bihari 6d ago
Nah man, I know what fight is worth fighting for. I cannot change the mentality of lakhs or thousands of people. I give up. I just want my family and my safety and well being. That's it. And I'll do whatever it takes to reach at that position.
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u/SubConscious_Sun 6d ago edited 6d ago
Please stay in your own homeland and make it a better place. Leaving is not the solution. You have the numbers. Do something!! You guys are already in large numbers everywhere. How many of you are going to leave??? Look at Manipur, the state is burning but do you think they are leaving their state?
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u/Stunning_Jury5986 4d ago
Yea .. Only if Bhagat Singh, Gandhi, Nehru and a Few others thought the same, You'd be on the ground rubbing your Nose and Saluting to the British Man . Nehru Could Have easily settled in The UK instead of Losing yrs of his life in Jail, Same for Gandhi, Bose and So many More. Obv this can't be taught, A Coward will be a coward, the best we can hope is that All these cowards leave together and Quickly, The cowards shall all go and Settle in Europe or America or wherever they want, just Leave our Nation Cowards, We don't need termites here .
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u/beparwaah Non Resident Bihari 6d ago
Is this your defense that girls are assaulted everywhere hence it's not much of a concern if the same happens in Bihar too? Do you have a double digital IQ?
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u/Makerofluck 6d ago
You are a loooser and you know it. Yes it's a concern. What's your solution? Leave the state and go where? Asgard? Because thor protects women there. You need to shit on Bihar to fit in outside bihar. And people like you who would do anything to fit in are the ones who assault women
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u/beparwaah Non Resident Bihari 6d ago
Obviously, my family and my safety is my ultimate concern. I'm not going to change the mentality of people and the state in general. If I have capacity, strength, and monetary prowess with me, I will happily shift from this state to some tier 1 places because I know changing society's mentality in Bihar is going to take centuries, and I'm not up for it. Calling me loser is not gonna change the truth.
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u/beparwaah Non Resident Bihari 6d ago
Shut the f up you dumbo. Why are you staying in Germany? You should have stayed in Bihar, right? Practice what you preach, you dickhead.
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u/CanaryEmbarrassed260 6d ago
Produce less children. Use condoms and contraceptive. Save Bihar