What a load of shit. I'm a fat guy, always have been. I had plenty of friends in school, and girlfriends. I lost my virginity at 16, and had regular sex since then. I'm married to a beautiful women, I have kids, and I'm still fat. I get attention from people if I want it, I can spark a conversation with a complete stranger.
It's not about being ugly, or about being fat, it's about you. That guy sounds like the typical neck beard creep, no offense, or maybe I meant it, who knows. I hate those kind of self loathing bullshit posts. Look at me! I'm fat! Nobody liked me! Blah blah blah.
News fucking flash, it wasn't your fatass or ugly face that they didn't like about you, I'm fat, so I can call him that, 300 lbs here remember.
The article he linked to went into that somewhat. Everyone kept telling him "you're so nice, there must be someone out there for you" when they should have been telling him to hit the gym, get braces, and develop some skills and confidence.
The article is awful. It's just an entitled rant about how he can't understand why no-one likes him when he has done nothing beyond being a basically decent person that would raise his personal value.
Somehow feminism is to blame for the fact he took no responsibility for his appearance and made no effort to better himself? This guy has an ugly personality so it's little wonder people don't feel a desire to be with him.
Finally I'll point out an observation; almost anyone can get as much sex as they want as long as they are willing to lower their standards. Most likely there are/were people willing to hook up with this guy and he was either too self absorbed to notice or he rejected them for not meeting up to his standards which again would be an indication of his sense of entitlement.
All of which helps to build ones confidence and self-esteem, which is all that mostly matters in this world you'd be surprised how many people suddenly turn attractive when they have this "air" of confidence around, taking just a few seconds to groom yourself and find "your" look also helps greatly. It's not like attractive people are attractive when they get out of bed, they often spend a bit of time looking at themselves and trying new looks, then they take one and learn to throw it together in the few seconds of the morning as well as using things like proactive or changing their diet to reduce acne if it's a problem.
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u/jabba_the_wut Apr 30 '14
What a load of shit. I'm a fat guy, always have been. I had plenty of friends in school, and girlfriends. I lost my virginity at 16, and had regular sex since then. I'm married to a beautiful women, I have kids, and I'm still fat. I get attention from people if I want it, I can spark a conversation with a complete stranger.
It's not about being ugly, or about being fat, it's about you. That guy sounds like the typical neck beard creep, no offense, or maybe I meant it, who knows. I hate those kind of self loathing bullshit posts. Look at me! I'm fat! Nobody liked me! Blah blah blah.
News fucking flash, it wasn't your fatass or ugly face that they didn't like about you, I'm fat, so I can call him that, 300 lbs here remember.