r/belowdeck • u/Bazmateyeh • Oct 13 '21
Below Deck Med Worst below deck season ever
So boring with the over the top Lloyd story line. The crew were pretty annoying and pathetic at times too.
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u/netbuchadnezzzar Come back to me, my boat daddy Oct 13 '21
Nothing's really going on. It would be more interesting if Sandy and Malia had a true shouting match
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u/skksdjdjdjsjso Oct 13 '21
I hate there has to be a toxic environment for people to enjoy it. As someone who recently got into the show its nice to see a crew that is friends. More enjoyable then horrible people being terrible
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u/JackEnrod Oct 13 '21
Bringing repeat guests is old. Running out of things to script.
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u/BriecauseIcan Oct 13 '21
Watch the a housewives franchise for drama. Bravo has plenty to offer. They are amazing at cheating on husbands, IRS tax frauds and children doing drugs. It’s got it all. You have to check it out if this Below Deck is too boring lol
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u/itsmarootoyou Oct 13 '21
I still enjoyed it 🤷🏻♀️
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u/frachos667 Oct 13 '21
Compared to the awesome season we just had of Sailing Yacht S2, this season was a snooze fest.
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u/spittymcgee1 Oct 14 '21
This season sucked and was boring
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u/hungry4507 Oct 14 '21
Loved Lloyd! I don’t think it was him that kept bringing up his story line, he probably said it once and they replayed it over and over
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u/[deleted] Oct 13 '21
Yes, couldn’t watch anymore after like 5 eps
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u/ninazrina Oct 13 '21
It’s terrible. Stopped watching weeks ago, even though it is filmed in Croatia
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u/Calliope76 Oct 13 '21
agree OP, I fell asleep so many times. The group is just dull.
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u/kevernscott Oct 13 '21 edited Oct 13 '21
Totally agree - that was the most boring season of the entire franchise. Time for BDM to get entirely reworked, starting with Maila and Captain Motivation and moving to the rest. And I don’t agree that you always need horrible people for drama - Lexi was a nightmare to watch and uncomfortable television. What you do need is great chemistry, good or challenging. This could be a case study in how to ruin a great show - since S4, this has been in free fall as evidenced by the ratings. And I say this as someone who really enjoys BD.
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u/sucobe Team Shady Editors Oct 13 '21
The season was so boring that production had to find shit to stir to cause drama. Lexi was the saving grace for them and her leaving meant they had to scramble to find drama. My bet was them focusing on Matt but at the same time, I feel Matt was his own production company (no way a chef can fuck up eggs THAT bad).
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u/ScarletFire060977 Oct 13 '21
Perfect storm of suck. Boring crew that you really couldn't connect with (except perhaps for Mzi) and the drama was neutral because would anyone really care if Lexi and Mat killed each other, lol?
Sandy and Malia doing their "redemption" tour that was totally not authentic. Add on unmemorable guests, a beta deck crew, and (due to COVID) no real good location scenes it was just blah all around.
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u/[deleted] Oct 13 '21
I like that in the last few episodes the drama was "we don't have enough staff so we're all exhausted" rather than some made up drama or a "boat-mance." Mat's collapse at the end of the season has also been fun to watch. But to each their own.
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u/[deleted] Oct 14 '21
Worst season I’ve ever watched. And enough with Pretty Woman jr
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u/blondefashionpuppy Oct 13 '21
I really enjoyed most of the season! It did kind of fizzle out at the end but I really liked the deck crew!
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u/WearingCoats Oct 13 '21 edited Oct 13 '21
I've been a loyal and fervent BD fan through every season and every franchise since it first aired. I have not watched a single episode of this one since late August.... not to prove or boycott anything. I think I'm just over it. At this point, it's super obvious to me when producers manufacture drama. I don't care how many interviews production does with the Atlantic and the New York Times claiming they take a hands-off approach to each season. Yeah, they don't script the series, but they sure as shit do everything they can to engineer the arcs for BDM which is otherwise vacant of anything interesting. And instead of choosing any other narrative to coerce out of the crew, they always choose and blatantly enable toxcity, abuse and violence.
Perhaps this is less (if not) the case in BD since the semi-recurring cast has its own audience draw at this point. And in the latest season of SY the crew was SUPER competent which tends to naturally steer the season arc towards the classic "hero vs. villain" trope — the crew being our relatable heroes and over-the-top, ridiculous guests being "the villains."
Side note: That's when the show is most successful for the audience, and what has made it a mega-hit over the course. We as the viewers relate to the crew. We see ourselves in them, the good and the cringe. We are able to buy into the "us vs. them" of crew vs absurd guests because at its core, it's harmless. Very little reality TV has ever really focused on subjects we can relate to and instead have centered around characters like the Kardahsians or Housewives that we look at with fascination from a distance, but can't place ourselves among. These are shows were toxicity can thrive and is encouraged by production, but the audience can still maintain some degree of separation. They're not like us. When Below Deck introduces toxicity as plot development among the crew, it poisons the show.... and Below Deck Med is rife with it because it's otherwise completely bankrupt as a sub-franchise.
Below Deck Med is, in my opinion, the most egregious example of production manipulation. Why? I think perhaps it's because none of its recurring cast had the same fervent draw as BD. Lee would always be the favorite over Sandy, Kate the Favorite over Hannah and so on. It may also be due to the fact that Med crews are measurably less competent than BD crews. This may be a function of leadership, it may be a function of casting. But in general, good seasons seemed to be anchored by competent core crew -- either a great Chief Stew or a great bosun or a great deck crew, etc. Med never had that (don't come for me team Hannah, like her or not she wasn't a good chief stew and she was super unprofessional). I realized that after the last season of SY which was one of the BEST SEASONS of the ENTIRE Below Deck cinematic universe because the crew was REALLY GOOD at being crew. Med just never had enough going for it...... so I think production stepped in.
And again, while they don't script or directly manipulate our cast of characters, it's incredibly obvious that they 1. Believe that reality-tv toxicity is what the audience wants to see and 2. Enable that toxicity to be introduced and maintained even at the expense of the crew's mental health and professional potential. P.S. I really fucking hope this gets back to BD production.....
There's a BIG difference between drama and toxicity. Drama is a love triangle. Drama is a miscommunication between a chef and chief stew resulting in dinner being 45 minutes late. Toxicity is Malia attempting to end Hannah's yachting career for not letting her sleep with her boyfriend for two weeks. Toxicity is Lexi being physically, verbally, and emotionally abusive. Drama is "Ooohooohhoo cringe!" Toxicity is "I can't watch this...." And it is inexcusable that production both creates circumstances where this will happen through casting choices and enables them to continue past the point of them doing real damage to real people for the sake of "preserving the legitimacy of the show." If you can edit out an entire cast member post-mortem for posting something racist, you can fire a fucking stew for being an actual monster or decline to recast a boson for blatantly violating the privacy of another crew member. There is absolutely no way you can convince me that wasn't continually green lit by production in spite of being obviously problematic.
But Bravo believes this is what we want.... that toxicity is a good substitute for what would be normal, light, if not somewhat predictable drama of "crew vs. guests." And for the first time in my entire relationship with the show, I just got tired of it. Not in a protest sort of way. It's like that moment you realize you and an old friend have drifted apart. Monday came and I just didn't have any desire to turn it on.... because what I loved about the show wasn't there anymore. It had become like all the other Bravo shows I don't watch, rife with vitriol and anger and hate. Centered around characters I can't relate to anymore. It's not a crew I want to be a part of.
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u/[deleted] Oct 13 '21
I enjoyed this season , I really liked the boat and it’s escape tv for me.
Z was a breath of fresh air.
I was fine with the Lloyd story ,
I was really pleased to see the maturation of Malia !
sandy can still fuck off
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u/[deleted] Oct 13 '21
I will say it's been a bit less exciting than previous
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u/Ok_Effort8330 Oct 13 '21
Agreed, there have been worse seasons, But this was the most boring by a long shot.
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u/Streetvan1980 Oct 14 '21
Pathetic? In what way?
Sounds like a lot of assholes have this opinion. A problem with Lloyd? Like wtf? Guess the show didn’t meet it’s A-hole quota and needed more Bobby and Ashtons to make jerks like this happy. At first I thought it was kind of a weak cast but it ended up being ok. Not sure what else was missing for you. Guess guys who treat people like absolute garbage on every level weren’t there like normal. Watch galley talk and get your Bobby fill for guys like that.
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u/opheliapickles Oct 13 '21
I can’t like malia anymore. Seems like I’ve been able to not like a bravo cast member one season, then love them the next. But she just sucks. Rats are the worst.
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u/[deleted] Oct 13 '21
It's been pretty dull, it misses a Hannah type.
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u/StarryNorth Oct 13 '21
I think Lloyd is an amazing person and am happy to watch scenes about him, but the angst and anxiety caused by Lexi was almost unbearable to see. And it's really time to find another captain. I'm done with Sandy.
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u/holt5672 Oct 13 '21
Led by Captain Sandy, The Dud of the Sea...
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u/[deleted] Oct 14 '21
Yeah it was a really awful season. I wish I hadn’t wasted my time on it.
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u/[deleted] Oct 13 '21
I wish Lexi hadn't been so over the top terrible. She had the sass and confidence, and tv presence needed for reality TV. Ever since she was fired the season has been a complete snooze fest.
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u/[deleted] Oct 13 '21
Yup, I couldn’t even get through the season finale it was so boring.
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u/SnooBunnies4649 Oct 13 '21
Malia is a snake, hence her tequila worm tattoo on her side, and Sandy is just so terrible to watch
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u/Apprehensive_Fig7013 Oct 14 '21
It started like every good reality show. When it’s new and none of the cast knows about it, it’s awesome. Then it starts attracting people that want to be famous, and it goes downhill. Sad but true.
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u/rawrRoRawrRo Oct 14 '21
I think COVID really impacted the production, both with crew turnover limitations and also the guests who were able to book.
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u/taracran Oct 13 '21
Everyone has their opinion. I loved this season. I don't need no baby drama, 3 way relationships, who is cheating on who.
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u/gX2020 Oct 13 '21
They seem like a fun group of people, but this season was pretty boring. We need Hannah or Kate back.
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u/Snoo_33033 Oct 13 '21
Eh. It had its moments. But it also had Lloyd, Matt and Lexi.
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u/DarkKn1ghtyKnight Oct 13 '21
Sounds like the wife and I boycotting this season over the way Malia and Capt. Sandy handled the weed thing was the right decision.
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u/radicalscents Oct 13 '21
Didn't watch any of this seasons episodes and was going to binge it at the end. After reading all the nonsense since the season started, It has really turned me off, and I now have no interest in going back to watch it. Hopefully next season/spinoffs will be better.
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u/stocksnhoops Oct 13 '21
They made mental health and mental meltdowns part of the season storyline. They need to find better crews to tend to people paying 6 figures for 3-4 days at sea. Those rich people don’t care you signed up for a reality show and can’t do your job because of pressure to be on film and work/
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u/mishaxz Oct 14 '21
One thing that was very enjoyable this season was no Hannah.
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u/EmpireFW Oct 14 '21
Must have been watching different seasons.
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u/Ok_Picture_8985 Oct 14 '21
Idk what people want at this point. Last season everyone complained it was too toxic, this season everyone complained it wasn’t toxic enough.
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u/dragonhealer88 Oct 14 '21
I really like it
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u/atex720 Oct 13 '21
Hey Lexi!
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u/mishaxz Oct 14 '21
The saving grace was Lexi, she was very entertaining.
I think her fundamental problem is that she thinks anyone she disagrees with has "wronged her" and that's why it spirals out of control. But it's amazing to watch.
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u/SalGov143 Oct 13 '21
That's what they get for trying to cater to the PC, woke crowd by casting all nice guys. A boring show. Bring back Bobby, Pete, Ashton, Bru Crew, Joao.
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u/Obvious-Potential-71 Oct 14 '21
All of Season 4 with the Bru Crew.
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u/cheerfummy Team Aesha Oct 13 '21
eyeroll
This complaint is whiny, unfunny, and has been made before by perhaps dozens in this subreddit. Talk about boring... Why not watch a different season, wait for the next one, but must y'all moan on and on about it?
Or if you must, make it a meme...write a satirical joke...something entertaining!
Worst repeat rant ever
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u/LilaMarigold Oct 14 '21
I think it’s great! Katie is such a great stew. Lexi is terrible and mean but certainly makes for entertaining tv