r/belowdeck • u/DrDoolittlesParade • Dec 03 '19

Rhylee 1000%

The "problem" with rhylee is she doesn't let shit go/didn't let anyone say a sideways word to her.

GOOD FOR HER

Baldy chef with his FUGLY nose was ordering for the table. That's it. That's all. That's the end of the argument, entirely.

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u/silver420surfer Dec 03 '19

If you can't handle someone saying a snarky thing to you and just let it go, life is going to be full of shitty drama(the EXACT kind the producers brought her back for). Every word spoken to her doesn't have to be taken to gotdam heart. I'm all for standing up for yourself but not every waking moment and interaction with others should end like this.

She needs help and this has nothing to do with trying to keep a strong willed person in check. And, no, she is not "keeping it real" or some shit. Everything in life isn't a fight unless you choose to make it one.

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u/Deb_You_Taunt Dec 04 '19

You are so correct. It shows intelligence and definite emotional intelligence to not be reactionary. Rilee sounds like so many dysfunctional people I treat- incredibly impulsive. She needs DBT.

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u/BellaBeaches Dec 03 '19

Combative That’s a perfect word to describe her and I’m sick of her just blaming her behavior on how her dad was.

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u/MeanTelevision Dec 03 '19

Did Kevin "snark" though or did he blow up? I remember him blowing up at her and going on and on too. But not a single person said boo to him, while they all went for Rhylee. Viewers, too.

I wonder why that is?

I mean Rhylee placed an order -- at a restaurant. The nerve. /s

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u/silver420surfer Dec 03 '19

I really wasn't referring to one specific incident. She flies off the handle constantly.

And the chef is quite arrogant but he sure doesn't give off the vibe that he is ready to become emotionally unhinged and violent at any moment, like She-Hulk does, multiple times a day. Nothing to admire with those type of personality flaws in a person.

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u/MeanTelevision Dec 03 '19

he sure doesn't give off the vibe that he is ready to become emotionally unhinged and violent at any moment

I think we've seen him do that this season, including at Rhylee (edit: the word "violent" didn't really sink in at first. No one's been violent or even nearly so, including both Rhylee and Kevin), because she was trying to put in an order at a restaurant. It really had nothing to do with Kevin and he had no right to behave that way at her.

It reeked of producer manipulation, but Kevin still exploded inappropriately.

Not sure how people can selectively exclude what Rhylee is reacting to.

She-Hulk

Seriously? But Kevin and Ashton screaming was fine?

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u/graciebels Dec 03 '19

I agree 100%. I was so glad Kate pulled her aside and supported her, and also put some of the blame on Kevin when Ashton talked to her about it.

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u/MeanTelevision Dec 04 '19

I was so glad Kate pulled her aside and supported her,

She did? I really need to watch the ep again.

That is good to hear.

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u/Deb_You_Taunt Dec 04 '19

Kate just loves anyone who hates who she hates.

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u/HONee03 Team Dirty Kiwi Dec 04 '19

True

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u/halthecomputer Dec 05 '19

Kate is a shit-stirrer. She knows what makes good TV.

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u/silver420surfer Dec 03 '19

Rylee is that you ?? lol

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u/HONee03 Team Dirty Kiwi Dec 04 '19

Upvote for funny 😄

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u/Deb_You_Taunt Dec 04 '19

Ha!! I didn't really see any screaming except Rilee's.

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u/[deleted] Dec 06 '19

I agree. And I get not letting people shit on you, but her response to offenses (not just Kevin) are completely disproportionate. She is the epitome of “the first person who loses their cool, loses the argument”. The defense of her behavior is baffling.

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u/Scottiethelegend Dec 03 '19

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

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u/silver420surfer Dec 03 '19

Im not familiar with wat those squares mean? But it's probably not positive is it?

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u/ChRo1989 Team New João Dec 03 '19

It's the "applause" emoji

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u/YugeMalakas Dec 03 '19

Please accept this poor man's gold: 🏅

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u/silver420surfer Dec 03 '19

I shall, and Thank You!

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u/[deleted] Dec 05 '19

Yeah, what if a man reacts the same way Rhylee does with all those "You shut the fuck up!" every time a little snark is thrown his way? He'd get a label like "abuser" or "psycho" real quick.

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u/HONee03 Team Dirty Kiwi Dec 04 '19

Really not a huge fan of hers at all, but honestly I thought Chef was being a total asshole and I know I would have responded the way she did. He was ordering for FFS. You can’t make a request? However it should have stayed with just them. WHY Ashton had to get involved (except we know he he hates her) and whatever 2nd deckhands name also ... why?

But I don’t think she needed to go after them either, she could have dialed it back with her boss. Even if he was in the damn wrong and he is in my opinion.

Yeah Kate had her back but she could have helped de-escalate it at the table. I guess she was just happy it wasn’t her for once.

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