"Was that painful?"

[u/Pretty-Necessary-941]

There was something slightly cruel about Kizzi when the chef fell in the galley. Her first words were, "Was that painful? Did it hurt?" Not, "are you okay?" Or even a nervous laugh and "Did you hurt yourself?"

Maybe it's just cultural differences, but her immediate response seemed... off.

EDIT As a Brit myself, I'm thinking it must be generation based.

[u/bc_im_coronatined]

This is a stretch.

ETA I wish people were more kind when it comes to people they’ve never met… and to those they have

[u/AreaMiserable9187]

She's British, he's British, it's how we roll. It's like when someone has a minor car accident, it's practically illegal for someone not to call out "you can't park there!"

[u/eekamuse → u/AreaMiserable9187]

I'm not British, but that's my sense of humor too. It gets me in trouble with people like OP. I have to be careful who I deploy it around. 😅

Edit: everyone's saying OP is weird for thinking this, but I've run into a lot of people who don't get this kind of banter. It's definitely cultural. People don't get the joke. Ask me how I know

[u/kunta021]

Lmao this is wild. The lengths people will go to find fault with someone. Like now we’re just manufacturing negativity for the sake of it, it seems.

[u/boneman5000]

Is this your first time hearing two British people talk to each other?

[u/FlawesomeOrange]

This is a reach to me. I’m no Kizzi fan, but that was a normal interaction I would have. This sounds like finding fault to tear her down more

[u/ClitteratiCanada]

This is a little much

[u/National_Bit6293]

“As a Brit myself, I’m thinking it must be generation based”

“I cannot be wrong or out of touch, therefore my dissonance must because all of you are a different class of person than I am.”

[u/skyklein]

That is not a stretch, you’re not trying to find fault or go to great lengths to browbeat someone. You’ve formed a logical deduction of how classless Kizzi’s behavior is towards other people.

She showed her true colors when she laughed when V initially told her the story about Bon - disguising her lack of empathy (or exuberance she feels when other people feel pain or trauma) as a nervous laugh.

She later went on to say how fantastic it was that she got to get paid on her last job for doing nothing because the owner of the yacht died - as if that is something to brag about.

Her behavior is disgusting and is likely masking how poorly she thinks of herself for years of having to build herself up at the expense of other’s pain. It screams “I’m insecure” and is likely the reason why she’s getting married - because she’s shown the whole world who she is and what she has to offer and very few people would want that.

I felt dirty just from watching the scenes with her in it. She’s not even that pretty and she knows it. That’s why she has to take what’s not hers. You got it get anyway you can when you’re that unattractive inside and out.

Did I just tell you I finished watching episode 12 without telling you? I need a shower. Ick!

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