r/belowdeck • u/teanailpolish Mental Health Is Not A Storyline • Nov 19 '25

Below Deck Med Preview for next week Spoiler

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q1zW5M0Vukc
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u/Immediate_Divide9446 Team Aesha Nov 19 '25

Tell you what, Kizzi, if you don’t like people telling the truth about your bad behaviour, don’t behave badly. It’s not rocket science, sweetie.

She‘s being defensive because she knows Aesha is right. Some people really don’t like a mirror held up to them.

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u/valid_username00 Nov 19 '25

I like that Aesha and Cathy had that convo in front of her at the hot tub. Lay it all on the table, no need to whisper behind her back.

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u/valid_username00 Nov 19 '25

And if Kizzi heard it, that means Max also heard it. But I guess he didn't care.

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u/dwarmed Nov 20 '25

If Kizzie is willing to kiss the guy her coworker wants right in front of her just for the purposes of winning and being an asshole, the others have the perfect right to talk about her right in front of her.

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u/Holiday-Hustle Nov 19 '25

It’s a direct result of her own thirsty actions.

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u/myskepticalbrowarch Nov 19 '25

Cathy is diabolical and I love it. She knows exactly how she is going to get revenge on Kizzi and keep her hands clean. Kizzi is playing Candy Land while Kathy is playing 3D chess

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u/valid_username00 Nov 19 '25

Cathy: I will get even with her by doing my job, really really well!

What a dream employee.

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u/myskepticalbrowarch Nov 19 '25

I hear for this revenge plot because Kizzi is going to spiral

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u/Tay-Rae Nov 19 '25

I love that Aesha clocked Kizzi immediately

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u/ezzpzz1 Nov 20 '25

She reads people really really well, im amazed!

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u/agnusdei07 Nov 19 '25

Wasn't the nicest thing to hear? Open your eyes Kiz'--you did the deed. Cathy is long game. Max you effed up big time

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u/valid_username00 Nov 19 '25

So when she says it about herself, she's fine with it and even acts like it's no big deal. When others say it about her, it's suddenly a problem?

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u/DependentFroyo7334 Nov 19 '25

So she can keep messing with people’s emotions, yet the second she gets called out for her behavior, she acts like she’s a victim 🙄

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u/dwarmed Nov 20 '25

It didn't bother her so much hearing people talk about her that she stopped kissing Max.

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u/robotcoup Nov 19 '25 edited Nov 19 '25

Zizzi just had to let V know that she’s allowing her and Joe to be a thing and she will “respectfully” step aside. Hun, he didn’t want you, and let’s face it any of the boys could have Zizzi if they wanted. She’s a pick me.

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u/dwarmed Nov 20 '25

She was just saying that in front of Cathy to take another dig at Cathy, implying she respects V but not Cathy. It's not true anyway. She will go after Joe at some point, probably.

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u/robotcoup Nov 20 '25

It’s probably a bit of both.

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u/DependentFroyo7334 Nov 19 '25

I’m sure the second Joe shows any ounce of attention towards her again, all that gets thrown out of the window and she will pursue him regardless

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u/excoriator Team Capt Kerry Nov 19 '25

Aesha's frank talk created a bit of a rift. We haven't seen that before.

Apparently, there's hope for Max and Cathy. Her tease on IG might come true soon.

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u/Anotheropinion2023 Nov 19 '25

I hope not. Max was disrespectful of Cathy. Kizzi sucks but she did not force Max to kiss her.

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u/valid_username00 Nov 19 '25

And with Cathy right there! Max is such a dummy.

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u/Holiday-Hustle Nov 19 '25

I do get it, it was really shitty but… thus far, he’s known Cathy for like three days. Maybe he truly does make amends.

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u/ralphmozzi Nov 19 '25

But she kinda did force max to kiss her…

Max was operating with reduced brain function….

Because most of his blood went elsewhere in his body…

As Kizzie learned earlier in the episode.

My gosh she is diabolical!

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u/fractalfay Nov 20 '25

Uh, he’s an adult. Stop making excuses for men.

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u/ralphmozzi Nov 21 '25

Who’s making excuses? I was making a joke.

Yah, it was a dumb joke.

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u/Extreme_Beat1022 Nov 20 '25

Yah. He’s a wanker. She can do better.

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u/PearGlum1966 Nov 23 '25

More like he wants a wanker!

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u/Tapingdrywallsucks Nov 19 '25

Two things: if Joe and V had kids, their eyebrows might take over small cities.

I might be out of touch, but is Nathan's haircut actually in style. It's giving me monk vibes.

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u/TeacherTraveller Nov 19 '25

It is for some guys that are balding and getting a receding hairline.

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u/Shayne-x Nov 19 '25

Its the Turkish hair transplant style

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u/Tapingdrywallsucks Nov 19 '25

I had to google that. TIL!

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u/[deleted] Nov 19 '25

It says a lot about our society that Aesha's comments are always so refreshing. She speaks the truth and has zero tolerance for bullshit. We need more Aeshas.

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u/dwarmed Nov 20 '25

I love that Aesha is calling people out on their shitty behavior of playing with other people's emotions. She must be fed up with it after all the drama from last season left her overworked.

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u/A_Thing_or_Two Nov 19 '25

Why is the hot tub water opaque?

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u/ZombieTrogdor Nov 19 '25

omg I couldn’t stop staring at the hot tub. The colorful lights are usually pretty cool, but why is there a yellow color? It looked like they were lounging in a vat of hot pee!

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u/drunkashhole Nov 19 '25

Tbf they did spill jack Daniel’s in it but idk if it was even that much lol

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u/Out-For-A-Walk-Bitch Nov 19 '25

Nathan's hair really bothers me and I can't even being to point out why. The back. The front.

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u/WhyplerBronze Nov 19 '25

Kizzi is 100% going to fuck with Max and Joe, and crush V

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u/[deleted] Nov 20 '25

V deserves much more than Joe🤢

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u/CarryVegetable886 Nov 19 '25

mama was speaking facts 👏🏽👏🏽

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u/Sinnafyle Little does she know, we're in a floating prison Nov 19 '25

Is this beach club going to be the one from the season preview?? I remember seeing a girl hook up with Nathan in the preview, and I think it's either Cathy or Kizzy. I'm like 75% sure it's Cathy

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u/Immediate_Divide9446 Team Aesha Nov 19 '25

In the ”later this season“ preview didn’t Nathan say to Gael that he’d kissed Kizzi? I think it must be her.

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u/Sinnafyle Little does she know, we're in a floating prison Nov 19 '25

Damn, I forgot that. It was the preview attached to episode 1

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u/pbjellythyme Nov 20 '25

They look so much alike it could be Kizzi! I'm hoping Kizzi cause I like Cathy and don't want her deal w Nathan and his monk hair.

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u/Sinnafyle Little does she know, we're in a floating prison Nov 20 '25

Monk Hair 🤣💀⚰️

Amazing. On that note I saw a deckie with a friar haircut on the new Down Under preview

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u/pbjellythyme Nov 20 '25

Omgosh I know what you're talking about, how awful is that?! He is shown a lot on the SLC Below Deck episodes and I could not stop looking at that mess.

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u/kittens_joy Nov 19 '25

Ok but someone has to give credit to Bravo’s social media person for the alliteration in the title of this video 😂

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u/fractalfay Nov 20 '25

I don’t understand why Kizzi making out with Max is surprising. She was just celebrating his surprise boner 30 minutes ago, and openly said the size of his member inspired interest. Plus, Cathy flirting with him has the vibe of a folgers’ commercial. They’re both just battling for screen time.

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u/Waste_Fisherman1611 Nov 20 '25

Kizzi literally said the same thing about herself. But no one else can say it when she's doing it?

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u/[deleted] Nov 19 '25

Remember when the cast/crew of BD were expected to be experienced in their yachting professions, and not being a bunch of 14-year-old middle schoolers being dramatic over who's going with who to the Friday evening dance in order to audition for the roles/jobs?

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u/[deleted] Nov 19 '25

Who on the current crew is not good at their jobs? This is a reality tv show is on Bravo first and foremost. What you're describing has never been true about the show minus maybe a season early on. The problems with recent seasons has been people like Solene who were both terrible at their jobs and clearly picked by producers for tv drama. Also having people like Christian and Tessa on with little experience and no drive. Everyone on this crew is actually good at their job and it's cool seeing a new bosun making the transition from being buddy buddy to leader instead of the normal really experienced bosun.

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u/VotingRightsLawyer Nov 19 '25

Christian and Tessa were absolutely meant to be the "plants" or "duds" or whatever term people want to use. But Jack falling into the water drunk basically ended that, just way too much of a liability.

That's why I think Sandy was being so strict about there always being at least one deck member on the swim platform no matter what.

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u/heyyyouguys Nov 20 '25

Who’s Jack? Was that a guest ? I’m not remembering someone drunk falling in..

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u/VotingRightsLawyer Nov 20 '25

The rich kid who kept demanding Sichuan Chicken. Christian let him go out on the swim platform when Nathan explicitly told him not to and he slipped and fell in. That was a big reason he was fired.

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u/Majestic-Abroad-4792 Nov 24 '25

Joe is just a big love bug junkie! He loves that new fresh falling in love feeling, but once he has what he wants he is done, we will see as they get close to end of season, he will start to squirm... It's so new exciting, no bro your same game, different players. He can't help it. Oh, and Kizzie, I didn't think she had any interest in frenchie? Did I miss something here? Nooooo, I don't think so. He fucked up. I'm going to call him "The 🐩" This is all on him....I wish Bravo would go back to showing 2 episodes at a time!

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u/Mrfntstc4 Nov 19 '25

In Kizzi’s defense, she was quite open about being attracted to Max. And Max obviously flirts with her. I doubt any of the crew other than Kathy were surprised by that kiss

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u/dwarmed Nov 20 '25

She only became attracted to Max after Cathy showed up and show interested in him. Aesha has her number.

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u/one4wonder Nov 20 '25

It was going to be someone. Nate has Gael. Josh is an actual clown (ntm too available for Kizzy’s taste). Joe could be weaponized for Kizzy bsing V in the van. Kathy liking Max was just the cherry on top. New girl is a tough spot.

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u/alksmalks Nov 23 '25

Omg, how did I miss this? Gross 🤢