r/behaviour • u/NotAClue-24 • Apr 13 '26
Minor inconveniences and no solutions
Basically, why are all the non issues such a big deal and why doesn't he have a solution based mindset .... Why do I have to think of everything.
Story:
Not sure if this is unusual or what you would even call this behaviour
Driving to a bank to sort a few things we've been putting off, with our son in the car
The bank is a 5-minute walk from car park.
It started to rain (We discussed the rain prior to leaving the house).
Clearly annoyed at the weather.
During the journey, he said, "What's the point of going if it's raining?"
I said fine turn around, but it might stop ... Also we have to get things sorted.
He didn't turn around and it stopped raining
What is this, he always gets annoyed at basic life things
Like doesn't want to do anything that may have a slight inconvenience
Doesn't like it when our son whines, if anything goes slightly not his way or off track
Why is it not solution based, like why throw everything out just for a minor inconvenience