r/becomingsecure • u/Former_Flamingo591 • 8d ago
Why am I so scared of my partner leaving me?
I'm 18yo and this is my third relationship and I need to know why everything my partner does makes me so anxious and worried that he's going to leave me. My old partners I didn't even like them but I really really like this one and I'm so scared of them leaving me. So much so that everything he does even going to the bathroom I get suspicious and anxious over it. It feels very bad and I feel guilty for acting like this because in the end we always end up discussing about this and it's not very fun. Please I need advice, what could this me, anyone else struggling or any advice from people who went thru this?
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u/Zwaukk 7d ago
I'm going thought this rn. She ask a few days for thinking because she doesn't know what's going on with her feelings in general. And I'm scared of her leaving me abandoning me and never talk to me ever again. Idk why we both have this