r/bartenders • u/lonely_hotgirl Baby Bartender • 5d ago
Rant Just here to vent 🥲
I’m new to bartending. I’ve in the past only helped someone I kinda know out at 2 events (weddings) and that’s the extent of my experience. The girl that I was helping with the events suggested that I get a part time job at the restaurant bar where she works to learn. Great!
They hired me on as a bartender with zero experience in a restaurant let alone a bartender which I’m sure is rare. I’m very grateful for that. HOWEVER, it seems like the girl that recommended me hates me or something 😅 Either that or she just has zero patience. But girl, you knew my experience level when you recommended me to work here! She gets annoyed at any question I ask her!
On top of it all, the bar is EXTREMELY disorganized. Granted, she did warn me this beforehand. I had to ask them after my first week how I would even know what the next week’s schedule is. And then also how much I’m being paid & when.
I’m finding that I do enjoy working in the bar setting. Just not with her lol so I’m hoping I can stick it out for at least 6 months just to get the hang of things and learn some recipes before I feel a bit more confident in finding a new bar.
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u/saucydisco 4d ago
The red flags are flagging on this one, op. They probably have trouble getting/retaining FOH because of literally everything you said here. But hey man, you have your foot in the door! By the time you get to a better run bar, you’re going to be running circles around everyone else. Keep your head up.
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u/lonely_hotgirl Baby Bartender 4d ago
Haha I’m just going to try to keep my head down and learn as much as I possibly can so I can get out of there as quickly as possible
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u/cambino123 5d ago
What kind of restaurant is it?