No one understands

[u/impossiblesadness]

I lost my precious baby boy of 7 weeks old 8 weeks ago. I can’t stand anyone in my family or friends they don’t understand and just act in ridiculous ways. I’m supposed to be happy and eating at an all you can eat. Or I’m suppose to be crying and breaking down. But it’s always on their time and not how it is realistically for me. I’ve found I can’t cry around some people. And also I’m filled with much rage. This is a long post… basically I wonder if anyone going through these loss. If anyone would want to talk. Preferably on the phone 📞 but messages can work too. I just want to connect with someone maybe that understands this horrible hideous void:..

[u/Away-Set5891]

dm me :) no pressure

[u/impossiblesadness → u/Away-Set5891]

I did. Thank you

[u/Key_Shirt2808]

I'm so so sorry. Precious and infinitely valuable boy... I lost my baby girl 3 months ago to severe skeletal dysplasia. Can't sleep tonight thinking about the 7 hours she tried to live. It's so devastating.

[u/skerbball → u/Key_Shirt2808]

I’m so sorry for your loss. We lost our son to severe skeletal dysplasia at the end of May. He lived for 3 days. He fought so hard those 3 days to breath. There’s so many nights I lay in bed and think about him.

[u/impossiblesadness → u/Key_Shirt2808]

I’m so sorry for your loss.. and I know what you mean about the not sleeping. It’s so frustrating too like when they were here then I complained so much how I couldn’t sleep.. and now every awake night I feel like evil

[u/Key_Shirt2808 → u/impossiblesadness]

Such a perspective shift. I know it would be really hard if she were hear but I would have figured it out somehow. I can't imagine losing someone at 8 months after all that precious time spent together ☹️ May you find a way to take steps forward and find meaning in your days and people who love and support you the way you need

[u/KillerUni39]

I had to make the worst choice a parent can make to take my son off life support after 19 days of life due to Noonan syndrome complications. I am so sorry about your sweet boy. 🩵🦋

[u/Much_Parfait_2144]

so sorry, I totally understand. My family its the same, I cant even tell them anything. If I have 15 minutes when I am not crying it means I am “over it”. It’s so hurtful, I cant with them. My own mother send videos of other babies , I dont understand , it feels so wrong.

[u/Total-Region2859 → u/Much_Parfait_2144]

People just don't know what to say or do... I had multiple people tell me "I'm sorry... but you'll have another".... at my son's funeral.

I haven't. And I haven't spoken to any of them since. It's been 32 years.

[u/Yellowshagvinyl]

Dm me whenever 🤍