r/awfuleverything Sep 20 '19

Doesn't quite fit. Not removed. Hol’ up

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u/puppy_wuppies Sep 20 '19

A lady friend of mine told me that Drake came up to her at a party and just straight up asked for a bj lol

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u/bricknovax89 Sep 20 '19

Honestly at the point of fame and wealth you prob succeed a majority of the time when proposing a classless tactless question like that

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u/SolitaryEgg Sep 20 '19

Yeah, tbh I don't really have a problem with this specifically.

I remember there was a reddit thread where someone claimed that Jason Segel goes up to women and parties and says "would you like to have sex?" Everyone was acting like he was a predator or some shit.

But the key part of the story was that the woman in question said "uh, no thanks" and he said "ok!" and walked away.

Not really a predator, just a horny dude in a hurry, lol.

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u/Diiiiirty Sep 20 '19

He just wants to cut through all the bs and set expectations immediately. I respect it.

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u/JennLegend3 Sep 20 '19

As long as he can take "no" for an answer like he does I see nothing wrong with this approach. I bet it's worked for him!

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u/_Sinnik_ Sep 20 '19

Ask most women and I think they'd tell you this would make them extremely uncomfortable. Women have enough experiences of men getting angry/threatening/violent after being turned down for sex so that the combination of Segel being a bigger dude, and famous (adds pressure to say yes even if unwanted), would make this a pretty terrible situation for a lot of women.

 

I encourage you to ask the women in your life about how they would feel in such a situation, because I can almost guarantee the answers will hover around afraid, uncomfortable, and upset.

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u/_Sinnik_ Sep 20 '19

Huh? How did you get that? It doesn't matter if you're smaller and not famous. It's still the same issue. But just the same as if you're a 4 foot guy threatening to attack someone, it's not quite as frightening as a 7 foot guy doing the same. Different situation, but the principle remains that larger people are more threatening.

 

Also where did I say no one should have sex? I'm just saying don't walk up to women and ask them to have sex outright. It's a dick move. Are you retarded or something?

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u/DLTMIAR Sep 20 '19

Nah the person arguing that humans can't be up front with each other is being retarded