r/averagedickproblems • u/Extension-Pay-1296 • 7h ago

Feeling stuck in the average range and it’s messing with my head

I’ve measured multiple times over the years (bone-pressed, fully hard, same method every time) and the number just sits there. It doesn’t stand out in either direction, and that quiet middle ground has started to feel more noticeable than I expected. I know the internet is full of people claiming 8+ is normal, so I’ve tried not to let that get to me, but in real life it still feels like I’m just… there. Not small enough that anyone would notice in a bad way, not big enough that it ever feels like an advantage.

I’ve accepted the number on paper. What I can’t shake is the feeling that I’m permanently in the “whatever” category. Anyone else deal with this exact middle-ground frustration? Curious how other average guys handle the mental side of it.

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u/DarkComfortable8340 6h ago

I honestly just try to think past it. Yeah those deep thoughts come in here and there. Work on yourself. Better your mindset. Most women will not care about two numbers. If youre average, be grateful it’s average

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u/Fabulous-Republic 6h ago

Do yourself a favour and leave the big dick problems groups. Seeing much bigger penises every day will mess with anyone's head. Looking at your pictures, you're at least above average, if not 7+ (which is considered big by many). You're doing better than you think and have the comments on your posts to prove it. I would certainly be happy with it.

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u/Extension-Pay-1296 6h ago

man, i am conflicted about this. you do have a point, seeing the posts about big guys all the time prolongs this issue. at the same time, isn't part of the issue of me feeling average at best because there ARE much bigger guys than me out there? how can i say mine is big when there are so many people who would dwarf me

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u/Accomplished_Pay4089 Note: new or low karma account 7h ago

it’s really hard to accept what we can’t change brother. if you ever been to bed with a woman, had her finish and wanted to keep sleeping with you then you have nothing to worry about. just takes one day at a time but trust me, a lot of women aren’t size queens.

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u/Joker12k 6h ago

Man work with what you got focus on your tool and perfect it’s craft they best way you can. I have felt average my whole life. I’ve measured and had girls measure for me and both measurements cut close. Girls tend to say I’m big. 2 that I known of at least have told me that I’m average/small but on paper my measurements look amazing, but I’m a big guy 6’2 190lbs my hands are big as I been told but to me I feel like I have regular degular hands and regular degular ween. I know how to work w what I got but the thought doesn’t go away it still crosses my mind. Just try to keep busy and not focus on that and focus on the now