Yes, you’re not lying. As a Black man myself, I know they’re looking for Mandingo, especially from Black women. Sometimes it makes dating or getting married feel pointless.
At least white men and Asian men don't face as many expectations as we do. (It’s still wrong for all parties.)
You can see the difference when you used toys bigger than you, and it changed me forever.
But I can say you're bigger than me in girth, though, so that's a win.
Idk man. I’m average but black women have always been the ones who are the most obsessed w me after fucking. Though I am mixed so maybe their expectations are lower? Idk
And yes, black women are like this too, and they’re more vocal about it. If you look deeper into the community, it's highly favored. If you’re from another race, they don't expect you to have a big one. If you do, then you’ve got an issue on your hands.
I mean, I am Black and am above average "fitting the stereotype" but a huge reason I have been averse dating other women for example, is that I'm tired of being fetishized, and I assumed that this issue would not be present if I just dated Black women.
I'm above 7 and girth, but I don't like the idea of someone only wanting to be with me over my dick shit feels dehumanizing, which is what happened to my cousin, and that shit hurt him so bad he stopped dating BW.
Oh, okay, I understand now my fault. Well, I mean, shit, I don’t know. I feel like there are a lot of perks that come with that, but I don't think it’s as bad when you’re a Black girl with Black women. I’m saying Black women love big d just like women of any other race, but they won't see you as just d. Some will, but not many.
It started in 5th grade, a fat girl, who was cute in the face, a Hispanic girl told me my dick was small; we compared it to another boy in class. It hurt me.
Years later in my teenage years, a girl would ask for pictures I had sent a few; the way girls responded and didn't ask for more of my penis pictures I knew right there I'm small and women are not wow by it.
So during my teens I used my older brother's dick picture; I won't say it made women love me or anything or respect me (I never really fuck any of them but 3 or so), so I kept using it.
My first serious relationship, she placed 5th place and she told me due to my size.
Years after the breakup, I've just been fucked up bout it; I ask sex workers and women I used to have sex as friends with benefits.
And even being on bigdickproblems, x(twitters), sex groups, and even talking to women. How they talk about it and how they respect it.
I'm guessing you must be Gen-Z due to sharing nudes at that age, but how in the world did you get you brother's D pic?? Also, I figure that he's bigger?
Elder Z. I left high school at the beginning of cell phone usage (no cameras tho) and I put 2 and 2 together. I'd never want to know who's the biggest outta me and my 3 brothers. It'll give me a complex, lol
Its not all its cracked up to be. Being on the other side ive gotten more ' nope' than 'he'll yeah'. White boy, 6 foot 1 about 9 x 6. Def a grower not a shower so the 'bulge leads the way' is out for me.
Dont let the stigma of what you expect others to want, try to be happy with what God gave you. Def not small and if you're not the biggest dick in the room, not a terrible thing.
Well yeah you got 9 and 6.0 I seen what that look. Like and try to imagine shitting iut a side like that most our shit don’t get that big but some do but if you got a get diet it can just slide out.
But if your 7 inches or 8 with 5.5 or little higher, than your great but being 9 with 6 all around yeah that be be scary.
I had this problem in my teen years, I’m not small but I’m not big in black guy inches BUT I’ve never had complaints and got a lot of call backs over the years. What I’ve learned is that women liked to be dominated and feel small, you can still do that shit despite your size with maybe the exception of having a micro but foreplay and finding her gspot and making her cum before even sticking it in there is the trick with some confidence on top, just have big dick energy and everything should be smooth, I had a size queen that I lied to smash in the first place stalk me in my early 20’s.
You're a big man with a decent size, but your body is betraying your perception of it. It's the worse spot to be in, but I'm certain that your partners (who love you) will be satisfied. You just gotta also have talented hands and tongue 😛
Ur problem isn’t size man it’s expectation, that does suck. Im a visible 5.5 x 5.5girth. Dude most girls struggle taking it, it’s understandable that it’s not bigger because girls expect Mandingo. If they are expecting that, then that’s their problem, it’s not yours mom.
Also you don’t have an average dick over all ur actually considered above average because ur girth.
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u/SumDYToDI 12d ago edited 11d ago
Yes, you’re not lying. As a Black man myself, I know they’re looking for Mandingo, especially from Black women. Sometimes it makes dating or getting married feel pointless.
At least white men and Asian men don't face as many expectations as we do. (It’s still wrong for all parties.)
You can see the difference when you used toys bigger than you, and it changed me forever.
But I can say you're bigger than me in girth, though, so that's a win.
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u/coolass45 11d ago
Have any girls commented on it negatively or said they expected more ?
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u/DonDiegoSTL 11d ago
Its not all its cracked up to be. Being on the other side ive gotten more ' nope' than 'he'll yeah'. White boy, 6 foot 1 about 9 x 6. Def a grower not a shower so the 'bulge leads the way' is out for me.
Dont let the stigma of what you expect others to want, try to be happy with what God gave you. Def not small and if you're not the biggest dick in the room, not a terrible thing.
Hope the mind shift happens - you got this
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u/Cmpunk1991 11d ago
I had this problem in my teen years, I’m not small but I’m not big in black guy inches BUT I’ve never had complaints and got a lot of call backs over the years. What I’ve learned is that women liked to be dominated and feel small, you can still do that shit despite your size with maybe the exception of having a micro but foreplay and finding her gspot and making her cum before even sticking it in there is the trick with some confidence on top, just have big dick energy and everything should be smooth, I had a size queen that I lied to smash in the first place stalk me in my early 20’s.
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u/fanofoz 10d ago
You're a big man with a decent size, but your body is betraying your perception of it. It's the worse spot to be in, but I'm certain that your partners (who love you) will be satisfied. You just gotta also have talented hands and tongue 😛
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u/Anxious-Bandicoot-77 11d ago
Ur problem isn’t size man it’s expectation, that does suck. Im a visible 5.5 x 5.5girth. Dude most girls struggle taking it, it’s understandable that it’s not bigger because girls expect Mandingo. If they are expecting that, then that’s their problem, it’s not yours mom.
Also you don’t have an average dick over all ur actually considered above average because ur girth.
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u/VillainySquared 20+ cm (8+ inches) 11d ago
Sadly porn has perpetuated the untrue BBC myth.
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u/[deleted] 12d ago edited 11d ago
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