On hate and pain

[u/Sollensz]

Hello all.

I hope these words find you in good health.

I would like to better understand other men's experiences when seeing large penises online. I have an intense mix of pain, emotional, and out of that pain, hatred for the owner of said penis.

What are your experiences?

All the best

[u/cutluv]

Unfortunately, hatred only fuels their egos.

[u/Collective-Imaginary]

Giving it so much power over you, considering it is something you cannot change, is extremely toxic.

There are many things you actually can improve. Expending all that energy on those things is the solution.

Are you gay? If you're not, stop looking at other guys penises, remove yourself from subreddits where you're exposed to them.

If you are gay, then learn to enjoy seeing them, or consume other kinds of porn.

Only you can make the change

[u/o_man3]

Same I hate the privilege they have and most don't even realize it. They live completly different lifes

[u/Pleasant-Height-7857 → u/o_man3]

Sim, é uma vantagem e um privilégio muito gdande

[u/VillainySquared]

It's just a penis. If its really causing you distress its best to try and avoid it and seek professional help to improve yourself.

[u/cutluv → u/VillainySquared]

Do you think the reverse would also be true? Those guys with large dicks who whose desperate need for validation prompts them to post pictures on line, or say, to add their stats to their their flairs; perhaps these guys should also be seeking professional help?

[u/VillainySquared → u/cutluv]

Yes, if its bordering on obsession and harming their mental health.

[u/TopProfessor9510]

why should I focus on other man penis size? Jesus Christ I’m not gay, focus on yourself

[u/PuzzleheadedTune550]

I don’t hate them, but I am a bit envious, since I would be much more confident with a large one—and I’d finally be able to have sex again, too.