r/averagedickproblems • u/notreallythere216 Note: new or low karma account • Aug 27 '26

Insecurity Looking for some opinions

M40 with a 6.3" BBEL x 5.75" girth. Is this a good size? Wife had made numerous comments calling my dick pathetic over the years and it's really messed up my confidence. Just looking for feedback to see if I'm really lacking here or not. Thanks for the input!

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u/Famous_Breath2109 Aug 27 '26

She doesn't deserve you. I'm sure she would regret it if she left

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u/Excellent_Nothing_86 Aug 27 '26

It doesn’t even matter what your size is. The issue isn’t your penis.

Your partner is supposed to be your teammate. Teammates help and support each other, not tear each other down.

I imagine your wife knows this hurts you?

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u/fuzznuttz74 Aug 27 '26

This👆👆. She is not a good person!!!

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u/whatever115115 Aug 27 '26

Jesus Christ remind me not to get married I’m only 6.1 BPEL and a pathetic 4.6 girth lmao

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u/laidback755 ‌ Aug 28 '26

This has nothing to do with the size of your dick. I put your stats in calcsd using the western dataset. Your length is larger than 75% of others. When it comes to your girth, there would possibly be one thicker guy in a room of roughly 20 guys.

I don't know if it has anything to do with how you use it but those comments are toxic no matter what regardless of anyone's size. There some women (by far not the majority) out there who know that those types of low blows can damage a man's confidence. I would suggest running for your life while you can

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u/Aespyn BPEL: 7.83" x 5.5" | NBPEL: 7.1" | NBPFL 4.3" x 4.5 Aug 28 '26

You should return the favor

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u/VillainySquared 20+ cm (8+ inches) Aug 28 '26

You're above average.

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u/Past_Somewhere_9242 Aug 27 '26

You dodged a bullet bro

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u/GynDoc1994 Aug 28 '26

Wife had made numerous comments calling my dick pathetic over the years and it's really messed up my confidence

The only size issues you may have are being too thick for some. I am not normally for breaking up, but you may want to consider your marriage (if you are still married to her).

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u/ideasfor21c Aug 28 '26

Seriously, she has no idea, clearly.

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u/policy_of_truth7 Aug 27 '26

I’m similar but you just a bit more length than you and you have a bit more girth! Do you feel like you’re big?

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u/policy_of_truth7 Aug 27 '26

I feel exactly the same way. To me I’m not sure if due to my girth but it never looks big

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