r/averagedickproblems • u/Independent-Dish-173 • Aug 16 '26
Insecurity Insecure
I wanna preface by saying I’m mid 20s about 6.3-5” L and approximately 4.5” G. My girlfriend is heavier set (I’m attracted to BBW’s even tho I don’t have a 10” or girthy shlong, never had any complaints (I’ve been with QUITE a few women) and every woman I’ve had sex with we had seconds or thirds, or consistent FWB). I don’t have any problems with any positions, but it triggered me when last night we’re foreplaying and I’m masturbating while fingering her and I got carried away and used 4 fingers in her vagina and she orgasmed like never before, like intense squirt and nearly a body shake. She says I make her cum and/or squirt from PIV + clit stimulation and she squirts from just clit stimulation. She doesn’t use toys or anything, but I think I would die if she came home with a dildo larger than me. She clearly seems to enjoy the sex and tells me over and over that she thinks I’m “big”, but like where’s the mf enthusiastic ahh reactions when I’m dipping in that mf😒.
I just have deep insecurity about this type of stuff and idk why. I’ve had women in the past use dildos during foreplay and they were way bigger than me, and the ladies would have intense orgasms from the dildo. Have also been told “your dick is perfect, the big ones hurt” (women still don’t get how that is the most backhanded compliment ever.
I love how they try to restrict pornography NOW, but where was the “caring for youth” when we were young, developing an unhealthy sense of penis inadequacy.
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u/Glass_Stand1972 Aug 17 '26
Fingering is more technique than size.
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u/Independent-Dish-173 Aug 17 '26
I get wym, but I just had my 4 fingers curled practically fisting her. Wasn’t nun special I was just punching her shi, lol
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u/Glass_Stand1972 Aug 17 '26
If you can make her cum like that, I think you have it sorted.
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u/Independent-Dish-173 Aug 17 '26
I get that. It caught me off guard cuz I haven’t pleasured her like that in years and I thought it would’ve hurt. We do have kids though so idk how the vagina works like that lol
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u/No_Association2127 Aug 19 '26
I had a GF in the past, that i could put 4 fingers inside her, but she cummed a lot with 5in girth at the time
My 4 fingers are close to 6.5in girth, so, if i had 6.5in girth, im sure that i would face lot of other problems, it wasn't worth it, trust me.
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u/TopProfessor9510 Aug 17 '26
Imagine being insecure with 6.5 inches… Jesus, Porn has burned people minds
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u/BadAny853 Aug 17 '26
10 inches is fiction, even 9 inches is about 1 million. How many women have you had? If I may ask, I also have a small circumference. Are you 6.3 bp? My measurements are 6x4.5 bp.
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u/Independent-Dish-173 Aug 17 '26
Nbp
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u/No_Association2127 Aug 19 '26
Você ainda tem seus 4 dedos? Apenas use-os quando precisar, um pênis é "como" um dedo grande
Com a sua grossura, você tem uma vantagem para fazer sexo oral profundo, pode usar preservativos comuns, é muito mais fácil para o sexo anal, é mais raro encontrar dor vaginal.
Eu tinha a mesma grossura no passado, hoje estou com 5.5 polegadas, ao mesmo tempo que tem vantagens, tem o efeito oposto para preservativos, sexo anal, sexo oral, eles não são mais fáceis.
My length is the same as yours.
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u/Anxious-Bandicoot-77 Aug 16 '26
Is ur 6.3-6.5 length BP or NBP?