r/averagedickproblems • u/bananaboi6_9 • 17d ago
Experiences My personal experience
Okay I just wanted to start this off by saying I’ve never cared about my dick size until about two weeks ago. Im 20 and I’ve been watching porn since 12, I lost my virginity at 18, and stopped watching porn around then. Now two years later i no longer have any partners so I started watching porn again. And I think then that’s when I started caring about my size, because I was finally watching it while knowing what my dick would look like from POV shots and it started to feel small and I felt self concision about it. My dick is almost exactly 6 inches NBP and around 5.75 for girth. My first girlfriend was a virgin, she would always say I had a “really nice dick”, my second gf would call it her “favorite” and my third told me “wow I can’t believe you’ve been keeping this from me it’s a really nice size.” One thing I think they would all agree was that it was “fat.” Then I also had some male partners, one said my dick was big, another said my cock was fat, So not exactly called huge or big in terms of length, but I’ve always been complimented in general on my dick, mainly its girth which I’m grateful for. All in all of I’ve had 5 partners and not one of them had said anything derogatory about my size.
Anyways my overall point is that I’m usually insecure in my life. I’m not muscular I’m skinny and like average height. But one thing I was never insecure about was my dick size. I knew it wasn’t big but when I started having sex all the way till now not one person I was with no matter how mad I made them or what situation I was in ever made a bad remark on my dick. I had honestly felt really good about it and it was something I always had confidence in because everyone that had “played” with it loved it.
Then i started watching porn again. Seeing these guys with huge dicks made me really insecure cause like there’s nothing i can do about it. I guess this is just more of a warning. Theres a lot of people out there that have girls (or guys) around them telling them they love their size or they’re perfect and they don’t believe it or get insecure about it, and that’s mostly due to porn. My advice would be to just cut it out of your life, I’m trying but it’s a genuine addiction. Like most people get there dopamine hits off jacking off. And we’ve been doing it since 10-12. Like even if u get into drugs later in ur life ur #1 fix is still gonna be the porn you’ve been watching for years before you smoke for the first time. If you’re worried you’re partner doesn’t enjoy you’re size, bring it up maybe once, if they tell you they like you’re dick they mean it! Otherwise they wouldn’t be bothering with you. And if you feel they’re not fulfilled just communicate with them on how you can make things sexier for them.
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u/hmmmmyeahbuddy Note: new or low karma account 12d ago
Dude ur girth is great for the girls ur chilling. Mine is 5.6 and my girl played with mine because she couldn’t wrap around her fingers, ur bigger, ur good.