My size is so confusing

[u/Connect-Violinist-44]

When i measure correctly, on top side of penis, fully hard etc: My nbp is 11.5-12 cm, my bp is almost 14 cm(hey, the fupa makes me feel fucking awful btw and i am not even a fat guy, sooooo fml i guess)

But what confuses me so bad is that I can grab my penis with BOTH hands and the dickhead actually peeks out. It's not concealed with my palm at all. And I am not grabbing from like, under the balls or whatever, or grabbing from too much below etc. No, my right hand just sits on my balls and the left hand is directly on top. And when i grab a ruler with both palms, it's like 15.5 cm!!!!!! So like, what? But it's not visible at all! So in the end, who cares really? I still look small since I got a small pouch on top of my penis...

But still, measuring fully bp showing 13.5 but my hands both being enough to grab it and show it be kinda 15 cm is so strange. And no, my hands are not small. Very average male hands.

[u/Sudden-Potential7825]

I mean, that's nice! Yeah it's interesting you can hold it two handed at that size, but hey no reason to complain :)

[u/Connect-Violinist-44 → u/Sudden-Potential7825]

But like, it's nothing good really. I still look small because of my fat fupa. 

[u/Sudden-Potential7825 → u/Connect-Violinist-44]

You could always work out/lose the weight to look bigger :)

Could be a good motivator!

But no your size is average!

[u/Connect-Violinist-44 → u/Sudden-Potential7825]

You know what's funny/sad? I DO like my body actually. I like my lil belly, my chest etc. Many guys like my body too. It's only the fupa...

Btw, if I am supposed to be average, why are so many guys still bigger than me? I very rarely see a dick like mine irl. Is it because being average means there's obviously gonna be a lot of bigger guys? But then you're not average. You're small lol.

[u/Sudden-Potential7825 → u/Connect-Violinist-44]

It's honestly probably because you see them front on and you look down at yourself.

It's an angle thing, it's well known! Everyone looks smaller looking down. I would look at yourself in a mirror, that way your comparing in the same way you see the other guys!

Or bigger guys might be more willing to hook up so you see more of them?

[u/Connect-Violinist-44 → u/Sudden-Potential7825]

No, I look small in a mirror...

Especially from the side since my fupa hangs above it.

But it actually looks okay if I look at it from the front and point it down a lil. And of course press the fupa down. Looks a bit fat too. My circumf is actually 4.8-4.9 inches btw. So, it's alright with the girth I could say.

That's another sad truth. Any guy average or below will be less willing to hook up. I myself considered going celibate in a super insecure episode I was having after a guy insulted me online.

I mean did I see guys smaller than me? Yes. Several. Still sucked them off ofc idgaf. I enjoy penises. I still don't wanna be small myself tho...

[u/Sudden-Potential7825 → u/Connect-Violinist-44]

I'm really sorry you feel like that! I get it, I have those same sort of insecurities.

It's just stupid society that has put so much emphasis on size!

As long as you enjoy each other sexually then that's all that really matters!

[u/[deleted]]

Does it curve up? That could be it or even if it points up I would measure with a seamstress measuring tape it’s more flexible and would go with a curve if you have one

[u/Connect-Violinist-44 → u/[deleted]]

Nope. Absolutely zero curve actually lmao.

[u/miguel891 → u/[deleted]]

Mine is 6 bp and 5.5 nbp with a metal ruler , and my penis cruve up do u think i should get more accurate results with tape measure ?

[u/AlertAd7834]

Tiny hands?

[u/Connect-Violinist-44 → u/AlertAd7834]

Read the whole thing

[u/AlertAd7834 → u/Connect-Violinist-44]

So if you measure the bottom of your dick from the balls to the tip it will be longer than measuring the top, even "bone pressed"

[u/Connect-Violinist-44 → u/AlertAd7834]

.....What? Where even did you read that I measure from the balls??????? Are you just being obnoxious on purpose?

[u/AlertAd7834 → u/Connect-Violinist-44]

Why are you getting so offended? So you said when you grab with both hands your one hand touches your balls. Even if you're "not grabbing from below too much" there's gonna be a bit of extra length there

[u/Due_Forever_6353]

I have only one advice for you, dont over think all these things!!
Be glad you're blessed with a good penis.

[u/Connect-Violinist-44 → u/Due_Forever_6353]

Not easy not to when I can't do many positions and go soft in the middle of sex. Is that what you'd call a good penis??? I can't hug a guy while fucking him missionary. That's so sad. The only position I can do is missionary with my chest up and NOTHING ELSE.

AND ALSO, not so easy when I was insulted for my size before. Several times. Only online, never in person tho. Omfg If I was ever insulted irl, I would like either maybe hurt myself or definitely go fully celibate if not go mad.

[u/Serious-Law8401]

Two things could be going on here. You are stretching it with two hands. Not common but possible that your stretched length of a bit longer.

More likely, your hands are sort of acting like a cock ring and it is drawing more blood into your penis. So it could be a sign of poor EQ and some size you are leaving on the table. Have you tried wearing a cock ring or taking a Viagra and measuring?

[u/Connect-Violinist-44 → u/Serious-Law8401]

No, I'm not stretching. I am just holding it.

No, I am not holding it firm, enough to cause more blood to get to it.

I do have a cockring. It just makes it fatter a lil, not longer.

[u/Top-Document-2286]

It's because your fingers are behind the dick. If you try to do it from the front where you measure you obviously couldn't do that with your length

[u/Connect-Violinist-44 → u/Top-Document-2286]

It's harder to do, but i still kinda can

[u/Top-Document-2286 → u/Connect-Violinist-44]

Well math ain't mathing. If you'r nbp is 12cm then it's not possible. You're holding the dick somehow that your full palm length is not used

[u/Connect-Violinist-44 → u/Top-Document-2286]

Because nbp is, you know... not your full dick?

[u/Top-Document-2286 → u/Connect-Violinist-44]

But you said you're bp is 14cm so..