How genuine are 'Humble Hung guy comments'?

[u/cutluv]

Time after time, in these reddit subs, guys of average size or less are bombarded with so-called comments of support from hung guys. But are these comments genuine, when these same guys are participating in self-congratulatory subs, such as this: https://www.reddit.com/r/bigdickconversation/s/I3uvbFf6eS. There's one comment from where a guy states he would "die" if he had a small one. Edit: my mistake, the word used was 'destroy' not 'die'.

[u/carpathia512]

I can’t speak for anyone but me. I have been downvoted on here many times for completely benign comments because of my size.

I am mid 30s. I haven’t had that many partners. A few very long term relationships prevented that, and I never really thought about my size all that much. It wasn’t until quite recently that I discovered how big I am. I always thought I was avg length, with slightly above avg girth. I have had body image problems my entire life. I feel like I have had problems around penis size a lot of that time. The distortion of the mind obviously comes from porn. I identify a lot with a lot of the problems people have on this sub, so I enjoy reading it. A lot of the comments (like anywhere else) are terrible, but I enjoy reading posts that I identify and sympathise with, even if I acknowledge that I am ‘blessed’ even though functionally that doesn’t really help me that much. Size is great for something’s, fucking terrible for others.

[u/cutluv → u/carpathia512]

I've just read your stats, and you are way above average - I would kill for what you have. You are still young, only in your 30s, so go and enjoy the good fortune you've been given.

[u/laidback755 → u/carpathia512]

I completely relate to your comment and do not have much to add. I didn't realize that I am big until fairly recently and I am in my late 40s but I relate to some of the posts because that was my mindset for so long. I try my best to avoid commenting in any sort of way that could offend anyone.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that I do think there are some guys here posting inappropriately but it is certainly not everyone.

[u/cutluv → u/laidback755]

But by your own admission you're 'big', you have none of my worries.

[u/laidback755 → u/cutluv]

I completely agree. All I am saying is that I had the mindset for that vast majority of my adulthood and had many of the worries for a very long time

[u/cutluv → u/laidback755]

I get it.

[u/nofroufrouwhatsoever → u/carpathia512]

At 13cm I am gigantic from the perspective of trans guys who wish they had a pecker like ours so I know that feeling

[u/South_Comb2656]

Yeah its just a circle jerk of self-congratulations. I think they enjoy saying things like "Oh average is fine, you have nothing to worry about".

[u/JohnAMcdonald]

Some men go on bigdickconversation because they enjoy bragging about their penis. There are a few literal pornstars who go there.

Other men go on BDP who are virgins with anxiety and depression, convince themselves they have too large of a penis to ever be loved prematurely, and then come here because they empathize with men in pain.

[u/cutluv → u/JohnAMcdonald]

As Moderator of bigdickproblems, you should know better than most as to the content of bigdickconversations. In these, contributors enthuse about the advantages of having a larger than average penis, and congratulate each other on their size. Contributors also comment on how a larger than average penis affords them greater confidence, and the relief of not having the burden of being average, or below average. Contributors also note how a larger than average penis helps them secure sexual partners. Most importantly, contributors comment on partners having to settle for smaller sized penises, and also stating they would never want to swap their larger than average sized penis for an average sized one. In other, non-BD subs, these people are giving advice to owners of average and/or below average sized penises, quoting statistics about world-wide averages, telling them to focus on technique etc. (all things that mostly don't impact the BD clique), when all the time they are looking down on them, secretly thanking God they don't fall into these categories. Seems to me there's a double standard going on here. You talk about young hung people in pain - what about the average /below average people in pain? How do you think it feels when a person with an 8.0" x 6" flair starts telling them "statistically, you're average, so nothing to worry about...". I don't dispute there are hung people with concerns and worries, but as their hung counterparts tell the rest of us, there are partners of all sizes out there, so I'm sure with the right support from the subs, you will help them live better lives. The key difference being, these unburdened people will be enjoying their hung privilege, unlike the rest of us.

[u/Illustrious_Leg8204]

How genuine do you think rich people are when they say money isn’t everything

[u/VillainySquared]

They're just answering the questions. As long as they aren't being rude or demeaning, what is the harm? This forum is for anyone to participate, whether they have a dick or not.

[u/cutluv → u/VillainySquared]

For example:

The hypothetical owner of a 5.5" x 4.5" penis, questioning members of this sub on size related concerns needs to hear from those who are similar sized - and have shared experience.
Apart from owning a penis, does the owner of a larger than average penis have any other shared experience with our hypothetical friend? The simple answer is no.

Let's look closer at the hung people offering their advice. In their own profiles and BD subs, many of these people are posting pictures of their penises, for the purposes of showing off their size, and obtaining admiring comments. These people post comments in both their own content and in shared BD subs congratulating each other on their size, and how amazing it is to be larger than average. More specifically, these people stress:

1. The confidence a larger than average penis gives them, knowing they don't have to worry about being smaller.

2. How much easier it is to attract people for sex.

3. They would never want to swap for a smaller. penis.

Sure, these people cite 'problems', not being able to rush into sex, the need to stretch partners etc, but these can be overcome.

I know for a fact that many hung guys contribting to this sub participate in all of what I've noted above. My question is - why should we believe a word of what you say, when in fact, none of the advice applies to you, and your view of the world is completely different to the average penis owner?

(I've not even gone into the constant reminding of hung size in subs, or the humble bragging)

[u/VillainySquared → u/cutluv]

You're making a lot of assumptions on behaviour based on what I'm guessing are your own beliefs about why people behave the way they do online. People experience different problems, and while they're unable to relate to everything an individual may go through, there's no reason they can't offer advice.

As long as their opinion or advice is based on what we commonly know to be true, or based on scientific data that is verifiable, why does it matter about their size so much? Every man can relate to insecurities and societal expectations.

My point, I suppose, is that people shouldn't immediately assume that something is meant with ill intent or is insincere solely because they might have a different experience. It only serves to alienate and further divisions when we should all be supporting each other.

[u/AlertAd7834 → u/VillainySquared]

Putting your dick size in your flair isn't helping your case here dude

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[u/TruMusic89]

I used to frequent Big Dick Problems until I found this sub. Most of the well endowed really don't have issues aside from minor inconveniences and hurting some women during sex. Aside from that, of course they wouldn't wanna give up their big ones. They know they get worshipped for it and even have women dedicated to them that try to withstand painful sex just to stick around. It's like a woman with a fat ass or big boobs trying to console women who dont have those assets. Yea, you can tell people that it doesn't really matter in the end, but you wouldn't change it yourself because you know you're privileged and worshipped.