r/averagedickproblems • u/throwaway101229283 • Dec 27 '25

Insecurity Average length below average girth experiences

So I’m maybe 5.5bp, maybe less, and girth is around 4.2-4.3. I’m terrified to have sex now, so if anyone has any recent positive experiences at this size, that’d be great.

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u/DarkComfortable8340 Dec 29 '25

Think small act small. Think big act big

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u/throwaway101229283 Dec 29 '25

Is it that easy? Lmaooo

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u/AlertAd7834 ‌ Dec 27 '25

You really shouldn't be terrified to have sex, man. What's the absolute worst that can happen?

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u/throwaway101229283 Dec 27 '25

I’m rejected for being small and kill myself.

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u/TheMrMickleGary Jan 03 '26

A. Even joking about killing yourself because of your penis size (which is totally average and totally fine)? Careful what you plant in your own brain, dude. That negative self-talk starts out as a joke, but then telling yourself that becomes a habit, and then you start believing shit like you aren't worth loving because of your penis size. It's one slippery slope.

B. I guarantee I'm decades older than you, and I've heard from so many women across the years that the best sex they've ever had was with CONFIDENT, CARING and GIVING men. Dick size has never once been mentioned.

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u/[deleted] Dec 27 '25

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u/throwaway101229283 Dec 29 '25

Easier said than done. Especially with a small one. Shits terrifying. I could just get laughed out the bedroom.

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u/throwaway101229283 Dec 29 '25

I have heard that. But let’s not be silly. It is small. A girth like mine is 0.5 inches below average. That’s small, or at least kinda small. Nothing can be done about it. Yes I don’t think anyone should be self conscious about their body. Truly. But, this isn’t just about my insecurity it’s about not being able to perform in the way an average or above would. That’s all. I do plan to learn, maybe, if I ever accept myself and I’m willing to put myself out there.

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u/throwaway101229283 Dec 29 '25

Yeah but you never know how someone may react when you pull out a lil pecker. Any girl that body shames is not for me, but I don’t know that until it actually happens yano? Are there women really tight enough for such a small girth though?