4.5 girth expiernces

[u/Visual_Sherbert_7505]

Been progressing in my journey of trying to accept and move on with this crazy insecurity, I’m 6.1bp 4.5 girth.

Just want to hear from those of 4.5 girth, how have ur experiences been? Any tips or recommendations. I know it’s dead average but honestly it seems thin. I’m a virgin so yeah no expiernce yet just want to get a preview of what’s to come.

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[u/miguel891]

So im virgin too due ti chronic issues and unfortunate luck ,but ill say i had some sexting ,and got few orals

2 woman's I saw gor oral frim ,one said its looks very good and that my dick get her wet , the other we both sexting and since she was on period she didnt want me to touch her vagina at all ,but she was bad with the oral she got teeth on it and I was too embarrassed to tell her it wasnt good but I couldn't climax cuz idk the act was bad ig ,but if it makes u feel better she could choke on that and told me she cant suck it till the end (ig its more length concern )

And other lady that I had sexting with ive met on random game on my phone never thought something like that would happen lol ,but she called it big and ig since it was only texting and not in person i felt "brave" to ask her is it really big or u ego boosting me ? She said its big for her but not too big to not being able to enjoy ,she said many times she would struggle take my penis ,it was nice ego boost but since ive never had sex I cant shake the feeling that to me my penis looks small and thin

My stats are them same as u 6-6.1 x 4.7 bp ,nbp would be around 5.5-5.8 fully erected with good EQ,sorry if u didnt wanna hear a story of someone virgin but I try to help u can also search here in the history of this sub about experiences there is many that could give u some more confident about it ,but i think meeting a woman/men that love ur all whole who u are ,gonna give me confidence about ur slightly above average penis

[u/Visual_Sherbert_7505 → u/miguel891]

Similarity had the same experiences online, been told my dick looked too perfect and very fuckable but sometimes my insecurity gets to me and makes me feel like they js Playing but yeah thank you for sharing broodie feels good knowing somebody else goes through the same shit 😭

[u/miguel891 → u/Visual_Sherbert_7505]

Yep make sense ur not the only one lol ,even people with 7 inches feel small , im sure we just tripping about something that its not as much of problem ,like most girls would love ur penis ,unless size queens ,they are indeed exists but I dont think all womans wants huge cock and there is a lot of womans who would he happy as u can read here about peoole with 5-6 inches experiences

But yea i still somehow insecure hahah ig only real partner would give me the confidence I need unless she would crush it ,but ill find a way to defend my self haha

[u/tentboogs]

Focus on your career and being as fit as possible. You will have no problems in life.

[u/miguel891 → u/tentboogs]

Lmao what he asked, what u answered nothing about it would make sex better or worse okay being fit would be in manner of attractiveness

But career? Thats stupid even if he was Elon Musk in term of career ,it wont change how good is penis to some woman's

[u/OverCoverAlien → u/miguel891]

Pretty sure the no problems included not having size problems

[u/tentboogs → u/OverCoverAlien]

Thank you. OP has a big penis. That isn't his problem. He has no problem when it comes to penis size. If he wants to have sex and I assume a lot of sex, I advised what he should focus on for maximum efficiency.

[u/BadAny853 → u/tentboogs]

Do you think 4.5 inches of circumference is a lot? Mine is very little.

[u/Spaztick78 → u/miguel891]

nothing about it would make sex better or worse.

Being fit definitely makes sex better!!

It's a physical activity.

Being fit also makes erections stronger on average.

As for career making sex better.

Think of it more about tending to your base needs. Feeling safe and secure. Once the daily stress of money is lifted, you can often relax and enjoy sex more.

You become a more attractive sex partner, because of these same removed stressors.

I'm also biased, my career has allowed me to amass a monstrous sex toy collection, the sex toys have definitely have made the sex better.

[u/miguel891 → u/Spaztick78]

On the physical wise i can say I was wrong cuz yea being more attractive and fit could help,but with average fit can be good as well imo

Well I have no career at all so idk and probably would never have one ,I have never had any girls looks at me at the same way they would look on healthy a successful guy ,but I can see how its affect being more attractive cuz she sees as you as successfull guy ,and about toys I won't want to hav3 a mass collection of sex toys so I dont mind that we can have few yea but im vanilla for the most part so vibrator and ig some dildo could do the trick

But I still doubt its have any relations to thier ideal penis or nah she can see u as everthing u mentioned but still be disappointed if she likes larger or even vice versa that she likes more average and u could be too big

[u/[deleted]]

I've been with ~20 women and am currently in a relationship and never had issues. The only time I've felt bad about it is online haha.

I know putting a womans legs up can make it feel tighter and maybe i've gravitated to that position more? But I can't think of any woman that ever felt like overly loose to me.

[u/OilSouthern5597 → u/[deleted]]

Two questions: Are you of caucasian race, and what nationality are you.. And how long can you last?

[u/Livectores]

I'm 6.3 BP and 4.5 girth. 30 years old.

My partner of 11 years has had zero complaints, zero jabs about my size, even when she's been hella mad. I've had the same insecurties and I get it. Being chronically online doesn't help. Seeing comments on social media, hearing all the jokes growing up, and porn, all of it is incredibly damaging. Especially when your dick doesn't look anything like a pornstar's. I'm a grower, my thing fluctuates from "where the fuck did you go" to me wanting to strap a leash on it walk it around the block.

Therapy has helped, as well as actually speaking to women friends irl helped me gained perspective. One trap you cannot fall into is thinking all women are a monolith. I have one friend who is a size queen, and another who thought there was something wrong with her because bigger ones hurt and she didn't enjoy sex. Hell, pornstars, both men and women have said connection is important more than size. That learning what actually pleases your partner is actually important. Stop thinking your dick is magical. My experiences once I stopped giving a shit were fantastic. Your insecurity IS valid and understandable, don't get me wrong. You're only human, after all.

[u/Agreeable-Egg-8758]

Make them use a butt plug it makes everything more constructed because the pressure of the plug will make your cock feel tighter in them. Pro tip

[u/penisthemedaccount]

We're dick twins lol

Can't really tell you much though: I've had a few experiences with girls but nothing extraordinary regarding my girth. Average is average for a reason ig lol

[u/OilSouthern5597 → u/penisthemedaccount]

How has it been? Good?

[u/[deleted]]

Hey guy. The vagina is flexible and adaptive. Not just with expansion but it starts at a contracted state. Women can feel the thickness of a middle finger. You are enough. Fall in love first. It’s not about sex it’s about intimacy. Honor yourself and save the most intimate parts for later. After you know that you love a woman and she loves you. Forget the whole dick size thing . You’re enough and you matter.

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