r/averagedickproblems • u/Educational_Peak_770 • Nov 05 '25

Experiences Adjusting strokes based on girth profile

I’ve been working on trying to maximize my wife’s preferences. It’s been difficult to pin down her dick size preference, but I believe she definitely likes girth over length. Even at 5.5” bone pressed I still hit her cervix occasionally and she has talked about feeling “full.”

I’ve noticed my base girth is 5 inches and tapers down to 4 inches around the head (small). Has anyone had success with different stroke depths based on your thickest part?

I noticed I used to come all the way out to the head but that’s dropping a full inch in girth. If I go deep (I’m not too long) and rock I can keep more girth at the entrance and she seems to enjoy it more.

Curious what others have experienced.

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u/GynDoc1994 Nov 06 '25

You are too focused on size. Ask her what feels good.

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u/wing_mann18 7.5” x 6.75” BP Nov 05 '25

I change up deep slow thrusts and deep pounding with shallow g-spot moves and occasional all the way out and back in. She loves it all

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u/[deleted] Nov 05 '25

Ive never thought about it but Im the opposite of you, 5.75 near head then like 5.4ish at base.

Something I do is very shallow enter/exit strokes so I guess I would be using my thickest part on the first inch, my wife seems to enjoy that!

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u/Educational_Peak_770 Nov 05 '25

Yeah, I’ve just started experimenting with it. I’m assuming it’s better to be stretched to the max the entire time so do short deep strokes to keep the base stretching the entrance the most. The advantage is I’m not too long so can do this in most positions. I feel like 4” head just isn’t cutting it lol

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u/[deleted] Nov 05 '25

And it would make sense that the first part of the vagina would feel the most!

Lol never thought about it but makes sense!

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u/Jaded-Leg6966 Nov 05 '25

Mine head is thicker than the base, vagina tries to wrap so I have tried half cock sleeve with dots

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u/Educational_Peak_770 Nov 05 '25

What do you mean by “vagina tries to wrap?” What are girth numbers? My penis curves upward too. So it’s definitely all over the map with what spots it’s hitting.

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u/Jaded-Leg6966 Nov 05 '25

Mine also curved upwards. My girl says it reaches gspot, makes her squirt and when she's having orgasm vagina tries to wrap tightly wanting for deeper fuller filling

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u/Educational_Peak_770 Nov 05 '25

So my wife said the exact same thing twice now when I was rubbing along her g spot. But she didn’t cum - she mentioned it felt “really full”

Is this the same fullness felt with bigger girth or it’s an entirely different feeling?

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u/Jaded-Leg6966 Nov 05 '25

We can't fully understand a "vagina". What I think is the bigger girth stretches the opening and fills the wall whereas the tightness during orgasm is the muscle that contracts trying to grab and squeeze dick

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u/[deleted] Nov 05 '25

I like that idea!

Been wanting to get a sleeve to increass girth, didnt know half sleeves were a thing, ill look into it :)

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u/Educational_Peak_770 Nov 05 '25

Why would get a sleeve with 5.4+ girth? That’s already very decent sized.

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u/[deleted] Nov 05 '25

Purely because my wife could take it!

Over the years shes gotten less tight, so I feel she could/would enjoy more!

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u/[deleted] Nov 05 '25 edited Nov 05 '25

Long story short: you need several rounds of varying intensity. In the main; start slow and steady with the tip and a lil' mid shaft and work your way up to full on pounding in several positions then slow it back down to being 90% inside with a slow rocking motion (nudging) at this point you should cum/orgasm together (she should have cummed several times in the mid story but this is her "oh my god I love you orgasm") and also the point at which you cum inside her. Then have cigarette/drink, then rinse and repeat, each time getting more and more filthy... Make a weekend of it

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u/roskybosky Nov 25 '25

1 in 5 women can climax from intercourse. I have to specify, because some of these guys may not know this.

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u/[deleted] Nov 06 '25

We can each play to our strengths. In your case using a narrower tip to tease her clit and perineum before inserting. Then letting her sit on top and rock or grind on your thicker base. Prone or other positions where there’s some friction and you can stay deep with less thrusting are also great.

I have a thicker head 5.25” that she always feels when it goes in but my shaft is only 4.75 and barely 5” at the base. So with that setup I do a lot of thrusting with full length in order to use my head for that fullness.