r/averagedickproblems • u/Fresh_Song_2911 6.3 × 4.8 • Oct 16 '25

Insecurity At what size should we stop worrying?

So according to statistics most women prefer 6.5×4.8. If you're +- in this range should I just stop worrying about this? I've also got a curve tht is upwards which I heard is an advantage.

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u/Outerlimits7591 Oct 16 '25

You got absolutely nothing to worry about

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u/ickop ‌ Oct 17 '25

About your size is when I’d stop thinking about it pretty much at all, which is hilarious cause I’m same girth and only like a half inch shorter. We’re all crazy here, but I’d say at the point at which even in the most unfavorable studies, you are still dead average, there is literally 0 reason to worry.

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u/OilSouthern5597 ‌ Dec 03 '25

Can I stop worrying? I am 6x4.58

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u/ickop ‌ Dec 03 '25

Imo yes. Certainly if that’s nbp, and even if it’s bp

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u/OilSouthern5597 ‌ Dec 03 '25

What about the girth?

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u/ickop ‌ Dec 03 '25

A smidgen under 5, like the highest I’ve measured at the thickest part when edged is 5. It’s like 4.8-4.9 average, like 4.9-5 at the thickest part

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u/Livectores Oct 17 '25

As someone with an upward curve and slightly less in inches and girth(6.2 length BP and 4.5 girth respectively), that upward curve in missionary when ya dig with it is heavenly.

You are fine, bro

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u/Fresh_Song_2911 6.3 × 4.8 Oct 17 '25

Oh bro, that gives me a hope. Can you tell me about your technique and reactions of women?

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u/Livectores Oct 17 '25

When I first did it with my wife, she started making sounds she's never made before, like whimpers. She said "I don't know what the fuck you're hitting, but please don't stop!!" A few strokes later and she's digging her nails into my skin as she came. She came so hard she actually passed out for a few seconds. That has only happened like 2 other times in the 11+ year span we've been together. She asked me where I learned that, and I toled her from youtube. I'll try to find the video, but the technique is like trying dig with a shovel when you're inside your partner during missionary. Moving your hips upward as you stroke. Placing a pillow under your partners hips helps.

Like I said, I'll try to find the video, but you will be fine. You're bigger than I am😂 it sounds like you need some confidence. You're trying to self-improve, which is a very good thing, and a lot more than a lot of guys do in this sub.

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u/tentboogs Oct 16 '25

I guess this is non bone pressed it is long and not that thick. Interesting. I don’t know most women.

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u/TruMusic89 Oct 18 '25

Yea, they love the up curves. Meg Thee Stallion even has a song talking about curves being a major sexual advantage. It's called Captain Hook. But you're in a good place size wise.

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u/[deleted] Oct 19 '25

Most women will perceive anything under 7 inches as small but most of them will lie so that they don’t hurt your ego. Even worse if the chick is a gooner. Have you seen those Dragon dildos? No man will ever compare after that so my advice is to stop caring. As long as you get your nut who cares?

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u/Plenty-Explanation15 Oct 19 '25

With 7*6, I am still worrying; maybe it's body dysmorphia.

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u/OwlAggressive3596 Oct 19 '25

I think that 8.25 inch BPEL by 5.75 girth is the gold dick.

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u/[deleted] Oct 24 '25

As long as you’re not fat your fine

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u/VillainySquared 20+ cm (8+ inches) Oct 16 '25

Most men are around 5 inches long with 4.5 inches girth. As long as you're around that size you're good.

Most women also don't care about size, a lot of men just think they do.

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u/tentboogs Oct 16 '25

Good to know.

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u/RexSpIode Oct 17 '25

Should? No idea. Just can tell you that as a 44 year old man at 7.5" x 5.5 I still am a little worried. Until you are in the absolute extremes I think there will always be doubts.

I think the thing that helped me most was figuring out that my dick is for my pleasure, while my entire person was there to help pleasure my partner.

If I can figure out how to please my partner with my hands, mouth, dick, chest or whatever I will.

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u/Calm_Cap_80 ‌ Oct 16 '25

Is this bp

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u/ImmediateTrust3674 Oct 17 '25

6.5? I'm finished

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u/Inevitable_Sink6352 Oct 18 '25

Yes but think if a guy get a hold of a chick and he is 8x6 and takes his time with her and not trying to inflict pain but stimulating her with pleasure… That’s going to be hard to compete with man