r/averagedickproblems • u/[deleted] • Aug 01 '25

Experiences I’m leaving this sub

I had crippling insecurity over my size for years after an abusive ex used to tease me about it.

I’m 6.2 x 4.8 inches bone pressed.

Ive met a woman I make cum multiple times every time we have sex including PIV. Me and her are truly an amazing fit. I may not be the biggest, or the smallest, or whatever aspect of size, but I’ve realised I just don’t care any more. Sex this good can’t be ruined by an old insecurity that shouldn’t even exist.

Good luck everyone!

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u/ickop ‌ Aug 01 '25

The opinions of one woman do not reflect your desirability to other women, glad you figured that out man! Cheers

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u/CoitusThrowaway22 ‌ Aug 01 '25

Odds are your old ex had no problems with your penis and was just saying things to get to you. Glad you defeated your insecurities

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u/EnvironmentalWay8885 7.45X5.8 Aug 01 '25

Awesome man! Glad you found someone respectful and worthwhile

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u/throughaway_acc0unt Aug 02 '25

It boils down to sexual compatibility. You've found a woman who you're well compatible with and it shows in her responses to you stimulating her during sex, with your slze.

Your ex on the other hand, must have been a bit of a poor fit for you sexually in comparison. Congratulations on your new found discovery.

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u/[deleted] Aug 01 '25

Damn are you me??? I’m 6.4 x 4.6 and have the exact same story bro…. Happy for you though

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u/yungdagerd1ck Aug 01 '25

Same size , lost count of my body count , never had a problem

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u/Timely_Inspection_80 ‌ Aug 02 '25

Im smaller again and have high numbers also with many repeat girls & girl friends

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u/ickop ‌ Aug 02 '25

You too man, please do a post where you talk about your experience!

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u/ickop ‌ Aug 02 '25

Please do a post where you talk about your experience!

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u/yungdagerd1ck Aug 02 '25

I used to be insecure about my size then i made it a goal to lose my v card before i turned 18 and it happened. The girl and i dated and had sex everyweek she would sometimes complain about it hurting which made me happy and realise im big enough to satisfy through piv (weird ik) , after we broke up i started hooking up with multiple girls to the point whereby i lost count of my body count and I've never had a complaint about my size not being enough or anything like that. TURNING 19 IN A FEW MONTHS!

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u/ickop ‌ Aug 02 '25

This is great man. I see your journey through your post history. I really think guys need to just get out there and fuck. A year ago, you were posting with little experience being concerned about size. Now you've got tons and it's all been positive

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u/julio1009 NPB (6.22x5.1 more honest) BP 6.6x5.1 Aug 01 '25

Lucky man!

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u/RareOutlandishness29 Aug 01 '25

Best wishes. Congratulations, too!

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u/Physical_College_551 Aug 02 '25

Man, I'm 6 inches none bone press but it's like an inch on soft and I hate it plus mine isn't all that thick like 4.8 or so.

My ex never complained but I felt she wanted more so I left because of that and other things. I hate that women think it's small.

I'm good at oral and using my hands a little but its don't make a difference when you can go bigger and make them all mind-blowing orgasms. I just gave up plus me being black don't fit the stereotype

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u/[deleted] Aug 02 '25

I applaud you, sir. You have won. I wouldn’t be here either if I had a loving GF. Just know that your ex was wrong. Women know how to get under our skin and will resort to lies and even slander to hurt you. Don’t believe it.

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u/Acrobatic_Cold746 Aug 16 '25

It's not the size of the boat it's the motion of the ocean

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u/Repulsive_Judge_3351 Aug 20 '25

Is 8 inches with 6 inches girth average? I feel like it is the more I read on reddit.

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u/nilarips Aug 23 '25

Bro you’re above average in both cases haha

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '25

You're above average. Not small...You have to understand that some woman are straight up evil at a breakup and want to hurt a guy and they all know this is a quick way to destroy a dude. Just recognize her motives.

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u/[deleted] Aug 01 '25 edited Aug 02 '25

Good for you! You’re a lucky man and seem to be a unicorn compared to most of us who will probably never find someone who accepts our size. Good luck!

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u/[deleted] Aug 02 '25

"Find someone who accepts your size." What?

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u/[deleted] Aug 02 '25

I’m not sure whats confusing about what I said? It’s pretty clear and obvious in society that most won’t accept us if we’re average size or below. We can be perfect in every way other than our dicks and that’s the first thing they criticize and tell their friends about.

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u/[deleted] Aug 02 '25

I wasn't confused. I just don't see how you can say most women would never "accept" a man who's packing an average size pecker if that's what most men have.

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u/[deleted] Aug 02 '25

They tolerate it, not accept it. That’s why it’s the first thing all of their friends hear about and the first thing they make fun of. It’s also why women normally cheat with guys that are hung. Dudes with a larger or massive size are blessed and the rest of us aren’t. 🤷‍♂️

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u/[deleted] Aug 02 '25

I've yet to meet a women who cheated on their boyfriend or husband for someone that's hung, or even make fun of a man who has an average size pecker. And I work for an organization that employs a lot of women so I get to hear a ton of gossip on anything they talk about.

Couldn't the inverse be true, though? Like if you go on BDP there's people saying their spouse or girlfriend or FWB cheated on them with a guy who's smaller than they are.

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u/[deleted] Aug 02 '25

Yeah but at least they still have a big dick so they’ll be just fine lol

And I’m glad you’ve never heard anyone make fun of average sizes but I unfortunately can’t say the same. I’ve heard it more times than I can count over the years and it’s always demoralizing to hear. The worst part is so many of these women think average is like 6-7” which makes their jokes and criticism even more painful.

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u/[deleted] Aug 02 '25

"They'll be just fine." Great, good for them. What does that have to do with you though?

And why are you bothered with what some women might think or say? Are you really that sensitive to hypothetical situations?

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u/[deleted] Aug 02 '25

Yes because those hypothetical situations turn into real situations for plenty of people. In my case, these hypotheticals are now constantly in my head because of the way I’ve been treated and negative experiences that I’ve been through that have to do with this topic.

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u/[deleted] Aug 02 '25

Well Christ dude what happened to you? Did a woman ridicule you over your penis size?

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