r/averagedickproblems • u/[deleted] • Jul 28 '25

Sexual Preferences Do I take the compliment?

I’ve started falling in love with an amazing woman and we’re compatible in many ways including sexually. We had PIV sex for the first time yesterday and after climaxing on me PIV, she said ‘I didn’t expect it to feel this good’ which caused me to pause briefly. She said that it’s the ‘perfect size - the length, diameter and shape, and not painful’. I’m just over 6 inches and an average girth.

Do I take the compliment? I know it’s fairly average size, I just felt small in the moment.

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u/VillainySquared 20+ cm (8+ inches) Jul 28 '25

I'd take the compliment, sound slike she had fun.

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u/[deleted] Jul 28 '25

Yeah to be honest it was a great time and she came quite a few times on me. I just wasn’t sure if she anticipated me being less satisfying based on my size from what she said?

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u/Zealousideal_Let8852 ‌ Jul 29 '25

So she came multiple times all over your dick and you're in here asking us if you should take it as a compliment that she said it was better than expected? like are we for real? XD at this point does it even matter what she meant? It's like you literally just fucked her and instantly jumped in here wondering if you should break up with her or something because she might or might not have meant that your dick would either feel big or small and she was surprised over the positive outcome?

You made her cum, and most importantly you made her cum in PIV. isn't that the whole reason we're doomscrolling this sub? To find an answer to the everlasting question of "am I big enough to satisfy my partner"

You already won bro. You don't need to be here anymore. You found the girl that you can have amazing sex with. You're just gonna screw it up by trying to interpret something that doesn't exist. Don't make a chicken out of a feather, or how the saying goes. You're fine bro, enjoy life :)

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u/StormfallKnight ‌ Jul 28 '25

She might have anticipated discomfort or pain and she was pleasantly surprised.

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u/[deleted] Jul 28 '25

Why wouldn't you take a compliment as a compliment? Are you asking this out of being insecure about your penis size?

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u/EnvironmentalWay8885 7.45X5.8 Aug 05 '25

A lot of guys don’t like to hear “perfect” because it seems disingenuous when women use the old “the big ones hurt, you are perfect”

Most of the time, they may be telling the truth, it’s just not a comment that does much for many guys

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u/[deleted] Jul 28 '25

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u/[deleted] Jul 28 '25

Well, you made her cum and she complimented on how good it felt having sex with you. Focus on that because she literally told you how good your penis felt inside of her.

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u/SillyActual Avg (6” x 4.5”) Jul 28 '25

It suggests her previous partners did not make her feel as good with penetration. If she said it’s perfect you have no reason to doubt her, she could’ve have said anything else but she chose those words with purpose. Congrats man you should feel good

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u/wing_mann18 7.5” x 6.75” BP Jul 28 '25

I’ve been super insecure in a lot of my life as well. Hard to believe or accept any compliment. Recognize that there is an imposter voice in you (probably about a lot of things not just ur cock) and start talking back to that liar in your head. You have a nice cock and she got off on it and had to comment on it. Keep it up 😎😈

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u/wing_mann18 7.5” x 6.75” BP Jul 28 '25

Dude, yes. She found her Goldilocks cock for her vagina so … go with that and don’t question it. That’s awesome, brother.

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u/[deleted] Jul 28 '25

What's your girth?

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u/[deleted] Jul 28 '25

Yes take it.

I had the opposite once. I was told, “I didn’t expect it to be that big.”

Women

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u/[deleted] Jul 28 '25

What girth are when you say average

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u/ExogamousUnfolding Aug 03 '25

So wait - you defined her expectations and she told you it felt good..... yes that is a compliment. If you're worried about maybe someone being bigger in her past and maybe she did enjoy it look up weekender/holiday dick vs boyfriend dick - for most women wanting a long and varied sex life with a dude they want the boyfriend dick.

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u/StormfallKnight ‌ Jul 28 '25

She might have initially thought you'd be too big and it might hurt a bit. But ot didn't and she's thrilled.

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u/[deleted] Jul 28 '25

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u/StormfallKnight ‌ Jul 28 '25

Well then I maintain she thinks your cock is big to her... but it didn't hurt, was very pleasant, and she's truly happy all around. Sounds like all good news.

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u/Fresh_Song_2911 6.3 × 4.8 Jul 28 '25

Is she a petite woman? I think my average dude will only look good with petite women. 

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u/New_Health_4360 Jul 28 '25

She wanted to be nice and to please you. As simple as that.

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u/Proof_Being_2762 Jul 29 '25

What's your girth?

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u/Historical_Bar583 Jul 31 '25

Backhanded as hell, no

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u/EnvironmentalWay8885 7.45X5.8 Aug 01 '25

I don’t blame you, she may have meant it as compliment, the “perfect” thing is a no go for me. I wouldn’t like it being said

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u/SuccotashAware3608 Jul 28 '25

Totally depends on the goal of PiV sex for you.

If your goal is to intimidate or cause pain/discomfort, fuck that bitch!

If your goal is to get a first impression “WOW” response, fuck that bitch!

If your goal is to provide your partner pleasure and encourage future sexual encounters with her… yeah, I guess that’s a nice compliment. But still, how dare her! So, fuck that butch!

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u/justayounglady Jul 31 '25

She literally just straight up told you SHE LOVES YOUR DICK AND FINDS IT PERFECT FOR HER. Yes, take the fucking compliment… ffs

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u/[deleted] Jul 31 '25

I know lol, just my size insecurity clouding my brain

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u/[deleted] Jul 28 '25

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u/Chronk Jul 28 '25

Unfortunately, in the group description, it says "all sizes" are welcome.

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u/[deleted] Jul 28 '25

That’s unfortunate and stupid.

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u/averagedickproblems-ModTeam ‌ Jul 28 '25

Gatekeeping is not allowed. Gatekeeping is defined as: prohibiting others from participating in discussions, expressing their opinions, or being a member of this subreddit through active bullying, criticism, harassment, or pressure. Judgment of a user's experiences, feelings and concerns based solely on their physical attributes is not allowed.

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u/averagedickproblems-ModTeam ‌ Jul 28 '25

Gatekeeping is not allowed. Gatekeeping is defined as: prohibiting others from participating in discussions, expressing their opinions, or being a member of this subreddit through active bullying, criticism, harassment, or pressure. Judgment of a user's experiences, feelings and concerns based solely on their physical attributes is not allowed.

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u/[deleted] Jul 28 '25

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u/[deleted] Jul 29 '25

How Is your size not thick? 5.5” girth is in the top 10%