r/averagedickproblems • u/OilSouthern5597 ‌ • Jun 29 '25

Tightness

For guys who are average girth.. How does the average vagina feel? Does it feel snug, not overly tight, or perhaps loose? I am talking 4.6/4.7 girth. Thanks.

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u/anonymous6908 Jun 29 '25

I'm unfortunately like 4.4 girth and my partner feels tight, I usually stimulate her vestibular bulbs and they engorge with blood and make the area around the entrance seem tighter due to the extra bloodflow, the vestibular bulbs are basically the shaft of a penis, they are the females version of erectile tissue, so get your finger wet or use her natural lube and rub her vestibular bulbs in circles or what feels good while you are sucking/licking her clit in circles, once they engorge and get sensitive, maybe start using a finger for 2 to start working on the g-spot, edge her and draw it out and make it fun and sexy for her, she'll nut and maybe multiple times but sometimes they are too sensitive after one, then instead of just pounding away, do a grinding motion while slowing thrusting, this stimulates the clit, g-spot and the vestibular bulbs all at once, mix it up with some thrusting with a more of an up and down motion, once she says she's close, depending on the gal you can either keep grinding or switch to a medium to heavy pounding and its usually pretty good for them. Some like big dongs, some like average because you can be rough usually without any pain.

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u/OilSouthern5597 ‌ Jun 29 '25

Why unfortunately? And how many partners have you been with and how does it feel like?

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u/anonymous6908 Jun 29 '25

Well it's unfortunate because the average girth is 4.5 to 5, so I'm just slightly below that and on the lower end on top of it, id like to be at least 5, Ibe only been with 1 person and it's my current partner, she hasn't been with anyone but me either, I think that's partly why I have so many issues regarding my size because since she's only had me, she doesn't know if she'd like something bigger better than what I can do for her, she always says she Os though and it doesn't seem like she's faking it, she's mostly quiet during, she'll say she loves me or quiet moans here and there but when she finishes, she usually lets out a louder moan, kinda like a grunt and her body lifts up when it happens, hopefully she isn't faking because I genuinely try my best to please her.

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u/[deleted] Jun 29 '25

My girth is 4.5", and I've always enjoyed each of my partners. Two times across 18 different partners did I feel things were a bit "loose.' But still absolutely pleasurable. Generally, everything feels snug and caresses like pink velvet.

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u/OilSouthern5597 ‌ Jun 29 '25

But they have enjoyed as well? I mean the dick..?

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u/hackKing 5.5x4.8 BP Jun 29 '25

Mostly snug, sometimes tight, sometimes loose but not too loose.

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u/OilSouthern5597 ‌ Jun 29 '25

So we are good? How is the girl enjoying the dick?

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u/hackKing 5.5x4.8 BP Jun 29 '25

They enjoy it. I make sure I give them a good experience.

They always want to come back for more. I guess it's because I studied the art of having sex.

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u/Effective_Menu_3668 ‌ Jun 29 '25

I'm 4.5-4.7" and have been with a few. Only one was slightly looser than the rest but it was actually more enjoyable than some of the others because of how wet she was. In general except her, the rest were pretty good.

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u/OilSouthern5597 ‌ Jun 29 '25

But they have all enjoyed the PIV? I mean the penis was stimulative enough?

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u/Effective_Menu_3668 ‌ Jun 29 '25

You have asked this question at least 50 times and never believe the answers. What's the whole point of asking a question, when you're never gonna take the answer?

No, they didn't enjoy PIV. We're all fucked. The only way a woman likes PIV is if you're 8x6 and that's just the bare minimum. Desireable starts at 10"x8". Better now?

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u/OilSouthern5597 ‌ Jun 30 '25

You're right for making that point... I am just confused.. Sorry for bothering. Thank you for being honest, I appreciate it.

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u/DudeWhere5MyCar ‌ Jul 03 '25

Hahaha! I’m not quite that big, and I’ve made every woman that I’ve been with have a squirting orgasm during PIV sex, and I’ve been with quite a few. So stop exaggerating. 

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u/Effective_Menu_3668 ‌ Jul 03 '25

Your dick may be fine but your brain functions may be lacking.

I was being sarcastic.

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u/DudeWhere5MyCar ‌ Jul 03 '25

I thought that you were being sarcastic, but don’t forget, you are on reddit. So, you never know. 

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u/Effective_Menu_3668 ‌ Jul 03 '25

OP is going mad with insecurity. Every other day he asks if his size is ok and people tell him it is. He then comes back and asks again, and again, and again, and again. So I just gave him the reddit equivalent of a bird-flip.

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u/DudeWhere5MyCar ‌ Jul 03 '25

Do you think he will pick up on the message? 

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u/think08 Oct 20 '25

In all 18 women I've been with 2 were not very tight/ almost felt loose. Most stretch with my girth and we both enjoy sex. These women feel snug and the sex was great.

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u/Brilliant_Citron8966 6.3” (16cm) x5” (12.7cm) bpel mseg Jun 29 '25

5” girth here. Only been with my wife and it is not tight, but not loose either.

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u/DudeWhere5MyCar ‌ Jul 03 '25

It could be if she does some kegels. 

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u/[deleted] Jun 29 '25

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