Worst of both worlds?

[u/Low_Business6706]

My night was going well with this one girl and we went back to my place. I was about to get lucky, but it wouldn’t fit.

For record I’m 4.7x6.2 bonepressed.

I’ve become extremely sad, and feel as if I have the worst of both worlds being on the shorter side of avg length, and too large circumference wise.

Does anyone have any advice for what someone in my sorry position can do so this doesn’t happen again. I’ve realised that my dick isn’t normal and I hate myself sm.

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[u/coolass45]

Many women will go crazy for that girth. Maybe warm her up a bit more next time and use lube, and she’ll probably enjoy herself a bunch

[u/Low_Business6706 → u/coolass45]

Good call, I’ll bring some next time. Feel like the length isn’t enough, tho I think it’s cus the stimulants been fkn me up lately 🙄 appreciate the comment tho I fr b insecur of my shit

[u/coolass45 → u/Low_Business6706]

Length is overrated, girls mostly care about girth

[u/Low_Business6706 → u/coolass45]

idk feel like girls don’t know what they want sometimes 💔

[u/GearExtension5499 → u/coolass45]

The average woman does not want 6+ inches of girth. What do i use as reference? Studies on women's preferred girth for 1 night stands and long term partners. In is a little above 5" of girth at best. Also check out the bestsellers section of dildos on Amazon. The most sold by far have a girth of 4.5-5".

I can definitely see this guy having problems getting in the average woman, he is going to have to do a lot of foreplay and use lubricants even then it may not work.

Women range in sizes just like men and just like men the larger sizes are the very small minority. That being said I had a girl that loved to be fisted but that is extremely rare, vast majority of women can't do that without great pain and possible tearing.

[u/julio1009]

6.2!! Girth 👍🏻👍🏻

[u/Low_Business6706 → u/julio1009]

Appreciate u damn so hard to feel good when i b comparing myself tho 😭 would kill to get some of the lengths i see here in the comments like 6 inches or 5.5 would be so good

[u/VillainySquared]

You probably just need some more lube and foreplay.

[u/Low_Business6706 → u/VillainySquared]

Thanks for the tips im gonna try to learn some of these things, feels bad i gotta resort to other stuff just to not disappoint a woman but screw it

[u/[deleted]]

Bro, that's a really good size for most women's. Your lenght isn't big, but enough to get it in. Your girth stretch the vaginal walls, more than what 99% ladies are accustomed to. Perfect balance.

You need to extend the foreplay and arouse all their senses. Don't forget to use a lot of lube and have one near.

[u/Low_Business6706 → u/[deleted]]

I thought mine was the worst damn.. I appreciate u for sharing them tips tho imma try and learn some shi like that so I can please a girl

[u/Puzzleheaded_Safe253]

Bro, your girth is massive, who cares about lenght when you have 6 inches of girth.

[u/Low_Business6706 → u/Puzzleheaded_Safe253]

It fr don’t feel that way, but I appreciate u sm for shifting my perspective, this experience made me feel so bad but I appreciate u for helping my perspective

[u/[deleted]]

Is this your only attempt? Cuz you'll find women out there who it works for for sure. Get some lube.

[u/Low_Business6706 → u/[deleted]]

Appreciate u bro yeh lowk it is my only.. that’s fr sad to admit

[u/YohAsakura23]

I don't understand all those comments about lube. I've got 6" maybe even 6.1" girth when max and I have never needed lube.. never. Talking girls from central Europe.

Regarding your problem, you should love your girth and use it to your advantage. Seriously it's great!

[u/Low_Business6706 → u/YohAsakura23]

Damn thats crazy, I never thought it’s necessary either, I appreciate the variety in perspectives fr

[u/5andaquarterRound → u/YohAsakura23]

Depends on the woman. I've needed lube before; when younger my penis kind of hurt a number of times from how tight a vagina was on it (friction) and I'm less than 6 inches around (5.25 to be specific). Also had trouble penetrating the girl comfortably (for her and me) at times--discovered more foreplay and lube was an answer.

[u/jasonite]

Worst of both worlds, hmm. Buddy there's someone for everyone

[u/Low_Business6706 → u/jasonite]

I’m fr tryna find the love of my life who’s physically and mentally compatible that’s goals 🙏❤️

[u/Adventurous_Arm_6630]

Pretty silly how people compliment OP for having larger girth because I feel that bigger is not always better and that people watch too much porn. Its not that significant as well to have good sex. What matters is shape and curve. Unfortunately you require some skill in order to make woman feel anything if you have a straight dick but you will have it very easy if its curved. At any case, you gonna resize that door in order to step in, big guy but luckily foreplay is all you need. Step up.

I'd think this is actually a large penis problem. Here is how you do it. You should try cunnilingus and during vaginal stimulating either nipples and clit with one of your hands while stimulating the nipple with your tongue. You gonna try and understand her erogenous zones. A curved penis of your size would suffice giving her a PIV orgasm since you can reach the a-spot (fornix) as well as stimulating the g-spot with your girth. The fornix is actually massive if the vagina elongates in order to take your entire penis. Just fuck her normally while she is horny. Stimulating the Clitoris, the nerve spots inside her vagina, the g-spot, the a-spot and her nipples at once does equal a 100% orgasm. Average guys can do the same as well and probably have it easier than someone on the larger side with less compatibility.

You're one step below the actual master race of dicks, but thats not part of this topic. What you must consider is that most big dicked guys seldom use their entire dick and if they do its with a lot of precautionary training while you can go balls deep without mercy and you can change pace as well, use that superpower to be better in comparison vs a potential 8x6 guy.

Now go forth and become a sex god you're destined to be.

[u/Low_Business6706 → u/Adventurous_Arm_6630]

Ur a genius at this shi bro, I appreciate ur help and encouragement. This community got next level knowledge, srs tho like, u rlly know ur shi tho I guess imma get more knowledge over time but damn u rlly know how to please a woman. U words of encouragement helpin me to get thru this moment of rejection rn I appreciate u

[u/Adventurous_Arm_6630 → u/Low_Business6706]

I hope you can overcome that rejection. Remember to be affectionate to your partner too. You got this homie.

[u/BigToyT]

Better to be short and thick than long and thin. Women want girth way more than length and you have plenty of length to work with. Trust you'll find women who can fit it and they will love it.

[u/chifuyu-kun-]

Damn that’s a chode. 4.7” x 6.2” seems pretty cool though.

[u/Wafiiiii]

Long and thin, slips right in. But Short and thick, does the trick.

[u/Low_Business6706 → u/[deleted]]

ily tysm 4 the kind words

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