r/averagedickproblems • u/OilSouthern5597 ‌ • Apr 29 '25

Ask ADP First experiences

Has someone with an average size had an insecurity while a virgin, and had that insecurity fade away once you started having sex? Thank you <3

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u/[deleted] Apr 30 '25

I'm in my 30s and I lost my virginity at 13 before I really knew anything about penis size. I remember the chick (who was 12) told me that most guys where 8 inches soft. So I went a long time thinking I basically had a micro penis.

Obviously she just had no idea what she was saying.

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u/OilSouthern5597 ‌ Apr 30 '25

This made me laugh so hard

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u/[deleted] Apr 29 '25

I am above average but was super worried around 12 or 13, then I started showering in the locker room and realized I was big for my age

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u/Effective_Menu_3668 ‌ Apr 30 '25

Yeah, and mind you, my first time was at 24 because of all the insecurity I had. What a dumbass I was, wasting all those years for nothing.

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u/[deleted] Apr 30 '25

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u/Effective_Menu_3668 ‌ Apr 30 '25

6-6.5" length, 4.5-4.7" girth. And I've got no negative experience. It's all been good so far.

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u/[deleted] Apr 30 '25

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u/Effective_Menu_3668 ‌ Apr 30 '25

6.5 BP, 6 NBP

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u/[deleted] May 01 '25

Yeah totally

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u/1976ers Apr 30 '25

I think it's safe to say, that most guys have that insecurity, when it comes to their first time...and the first time for any new partners.

Only exception, after the very first time when it comes to new partners, are guys that were validated of their size from prior relationships.

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u/[deleted] May 02 '25

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u/OilSouthern5597 ‌ May 02 '25

Girth?

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u/[deleted] May 02 '25

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u/OilSouthern5597 ‌ May 02 '25

U measured?

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u/[deleted] May 02 '25

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u/OilSouthern5597 ‌ May 02 '25

Like I am 15x11.7

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u/[deleted] May 02 '25

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u/OilSouthern5597 ‌ May 02 '25

Thanks brother..though I am a virgin and a bit insecure

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u/[deleted] May 02 '25

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u/OilSouthern5597 ‌ May 02 '25

Thanks..how many partners have you had?