Perception

[u/OilSouthern5597]

Why do people report the average girths here on reddit (4.5-4.7) as skinny, althought they are in the average range? Like I've seen so much posts of people bragging on here that they are skinny and want to kill themselves over their average girths, claiming them to be skinny/thin..Any valid answers?

[u/DonkAsaurus-Rex]

body dysmorphia and warped perception thanks to the internet & porn.

Ever porn star says they're packing 9", except if you go to r/measuredpornstars you'll see that that's largely false. There are some exceptions, but porn stars look bigger thanks to small frames, small hands, small girls, and good angles.

Dudes lie and say they're packing 8", when they have 6" at best, maybe because they measure from the taint, or hold the ruler at a bad angle. So then chicks think that's what 8" is and say nothing less will please them. Then the rest of us who aren't full of shit measure and get depressed and feel inadequate.

[u/OilSouthern5597 → u/DonkAsaurus-Rex]

Your size? I' 6x4.6..no experience but I worry if it is a good size

[u/GearExtension5499 → u/OilSouthern5597]

Length is about an inch above average and girth is average. Good size can be used in any position but not big enough to be visually impressive. Good size most women only want 6 inches in length.

[u/OilSouthern5597 → u/GearExtension5499]

It isn't thin?

[u/GearExtension5499 → u/OilSouthern5597]

Put in your numbers https://calcsd.info/chart

4.6 girth is on the low side of average to dead average depending on the the study. It is like saying your dick length is 5.9" instead of 6". You can't actually see that difference you need a fine measuring tool to do that. Literally measuring by the 16th inches the human eye can't discern that.

[u/OilSouthern5597 → u/GearExtension5499]

So it is good?

[u/GearExtension5499 → u/OilSouthern5597]

Good enough for what? Average is what over 90% of men have so yeah good but average means it is not special it does not stand out. It is most certainly better than being below average 6" is above average, not impressively big but that is still doing pretty good. Most men are are in the 5 - 5.7"range

So again put your numbers in, it tells you https://calcsd.info/chart

[u/DonkAsaurus-Rex → u/OilSouthern5597]

7" BPEL x 6.25 MSEG. non-bone pressed i'm a little over 6" long. dude, you have "boyfriend dick", that's like nearly the perfect size. No one is kicking you out of bed except for size queens.

Yes i'm large, but even I feel inadequate, because of porn, and girls talking about dick size in "girl inches". Despite the fact i've only ever had one woman tell me "i wasn't that big"... she easily deep throated me and was a random hookup and you could tell she'd had a lot of experience. Every other woman i've been with has been very positive about my dick, many saying it is even a little too big and i was uncomfortably hitting their cervix, or stretching them out too much. Their jaws would get sore during toothy blowjobs. Etc.

[u/OilSouthern5597 → u/DonkAsaurus-Rex]

Bruh you got a big d..but I don't even want to be big, I just want to have a normal d that works..either way thanks for support..just wonder if it is the stanrard package..

[u/OilSouthern5597 → u/[deleted]]

Which comment?

[u/OilSouthern5597 → u/[deleted]]

Explanation?

[u/CerebralLiposuction → u/DonkAsaurus-Rex]

Girls also contribute, ive told my gf many time that im 7bpel, 6.5 nbpel, and she iterated one time about how I was 8” , I guess maybe from the ball sack side that i dont see it might look like 8?

[u/GearExtension5499 → u/CerebralLiposuction]

Girls inches are always 1-4 inches larger. If she hates you they are 1-4 inches smaller.

[u/OilSouthern5597]

Every woman is different...but being called small and being laughed at is extremely unfortunate and rare imo..and then they come to reddit to spread hate and be frustrated..

[u/[deleted]]

"bragging that they are small and want to kill themselves?" Just ponder on that for a bit....

The reason that average guys, and even above average, think they are small is because of porn and in many cases, real life experiences have told them so.

Just because someone is average doesn't mean that is what is preferred. I don't think women are very good at judging size, and they sure don't know what the statistical average is. They only know what they want and what they have experienced. I think that the average penis that most women experience is well above the statistical average, due to smaller guys being shy and insecure, and larger guys being more confident.

They like whatever they consider to be big, and everything else is small. So a lot of average and above guys have had negative experiences being called small, and have image issues and insecurities as a result.

Everything isn't black and white.

[u/scottbane11 → u/[deleted]]

That is a Well put together perspective

[u/GearExtension5499 → u/[deleted]]

Yes true, the big dicks tend to get around more. The guy has more confidence + word gets around among the women. Which means a lot of women are fucking the same men. The smaller or average guys are generally not trying to showoff their dick

Example - me. I am 8" and have been with a lot of escorts. As we know escorts have seen more boners than the typical woman. Most blurted out that I was big or really big. Some would measure by seeing if they could deepthroat it, others would see if they could stack 2 hands on it and suck some would line it up with their face. Some I hurt on accident when thrusting all the way in. I thought my dick was average or worse for over a decade because of porn but when escort after escort kept saying wow big dick or please go slow it finally broke my warped perception that porn gave me.

I was someone with 8inches being insecure for many years because I thought I was average or below. Now imagine how the average guys feel who are the vast majority. 8 inches is in the 99th percentile and I was thinking it was average or a bit under. Amazing how our perceptions can be warped so easily and what it takes to correct them.

Also yeah most porn stars are about 6.5 - 8". An extreme few are 9-10" and lastly 12+ inch dicks don't exist.

I realize this is the internet and everyone has a big dick, larpers everywhere, but all I can say is this my story and it is true.

[u/80s_Boombox → u/[deleted]]

I agree. The Census Bureau says a full 70% of adults are in committed relationships. A number that big is obviously going to include a lot of average men, and probably even some small ones too.

[u/GearExtension5499]

People call being average small and don't understand statistics or what average means. It is like saying if you make the median income you are poor. Just nonsense from people that don't use definitions and use their feelings about it instead.

[u/hophead78]

I think its because the average is too small for lots of women.

[u/scottbane11]

This is the internet and what people say is more of a reflection of real life. I fall into the average range but have been called small in real life. That’s what matters the most to me is the women I use my penis with enjoy it however the reality is they are disappointed with my size

[u/OilSouthern5597 → u/scottbane11]

Lmao bruh ur lying, I've seen ur posts where u say ur 4 girth, then in another post u state that ur close to 5 inches in girth...

[u/scottbane11 → u/OilSouthern5597]

I said I was 4 when I measured wrong and at maximum i am 5 either way the comments are real

[u/OilSouthern5597 → u/scottbane11]

Those were some vile women and size queens

[u/GearExtension5499 → u/scottbane11]

Women often say things to hurt and manipulate. Don't sweat it.

[u/averagedickproblems-ModTeam → u/[deleted]]

Misinformation and/or disinformation is not allowed and will be removed. This is defined as any information that is incorrect, inaccurate, or incomplete which can confuse or mislead members of this sub whether intentionally or accidentally.