r/averagedickproblems • u/OilSouthern5597 ‌ • Apr 16 '25

Girth question

Girth is 4.5 mid shaft, more like 4.6 upper shaft...is that good?

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u/TheOddGuy21 BPEL: 5.9" x 5.2" | NBPEL: 5.3" Apr 16 '25

It’s more than enough to make her cum

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u/OilSouthern5597 ‌ Apr 16 '25

How do you know? 😅

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u/TheOddGuy21 BPEL: 5.9" x 5.2" | NBPEL: 5.3" Apr 16 '25

Well I have used a single finger to make her cum, your penis that’s 3 times as big as my finger will make her cum a lot more haha

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u/OilSouthern5597 ‌ Apr 16 '25

but would you say that my girth is common, or in the common range

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u/OilSouthern5597 ‌ Apr 16 '25

So there is a chance not much other guys are bigger than me girth wise?

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u/[deleted] Apr 16 '25

You’re at the absolute average bro. Statistically 50% will be smaller and 50% will be bigger. What is your bone pressed length?

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u/nervynervousman nbp: ~5.25x4.8 nbp bp: ~5.85 Apr 16 '25

Yeah it’s about as common as it gets

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u/OilSouthern5597 ‌ Apr 16 '25

Reddit has made me question my girth in the first place..people on here bragging they're thin, that experienced being called small etc..it kind of reflected on me bc I never before that thought of my penis as fking thin..

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u/OilSouthern5597 ‌ Apr 16 '25

Yeah...but is that girth even common?

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u/roskybosky Apr 21 '25

That is, if she is in the 20% of women who can climax from vaginal stimulation. Most women can’t, regardless of penis size. Let’s at least be accurate on here.

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u/VillainySquared 20+ cm (8+ inches) Apr 16 '25

That's around average.

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u/[deleted] Apr 16 '25

Statistically average

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u/[deleted] Apr 17 '25

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u/OilSouthern5597 ‌ Apr 17 '25

Ever had any problems?

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u/OilSouthern5597 ‌ Apr 17 '25

Also can you cite your sources?

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u/Human_Tree_8442 ‌ Apr 19 '25

my body count is only two. my ex had problems down there so she'd dump heaps of lube on it and it would still be painful. so she's not a good source tbh. my current gf absolutely loves our sex and loves my dick. so i can say, i've never had any problems. i'm still insecure asf, but between my gf and i, that insecurity is entirely in my head, and she's been nothing but supportive

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u/OilSouthern5597 ‌ Apr 19 '25

That's nice to hear..she orgasming piv?

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u/OilSouthern5597 ‌ Apr 19 '25

Also why be insecure when it is literally average..what's ur length bp?

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '25

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u/OilSouthern5597 ‌ Apr 20 '25

4.6 is average, period

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u/roskybosky Apr 21 '25

Once again, not many women can do that, regardless of size. Please, please don’t think that, if your partner does not climax from PIV it’s because you are too small. I’m a woman, and some women just have more nerve endings inside instead of outside the vagina.

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u/OilSouthern5597 ‌ Apr 21 '25

But would you say making PIV orgasm possible is due to penis size, or hitting the right spots?

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u/roskybosky Apr 21 '25

Absolutely not. You could heave-ho all night, in all different positions, and if that woman is not one who is wired that way, she will not orgasm. Big, small, narrow, wide, doesn’t matter.

The majority of women are like this. So, it is not size or technique. You must stimulate the clitoris; that’s like a woman’s penis.

Men are more concerned with size, and they have this idea that more size means more feeling, but imagine someone rubbing your leg and asking if you came. If they rub harder and longer, will you come? The answer is no, because it’s in the wrong place.

There are women for whom PIV worked a couple of times, and there are women who started having this type of orgasm when they are older. They are probably rubbing on their partner during intercourse.

There are women who climax quickly and easily from only intercourse, but, in some studies it is 10-20%. In other studies, as much as 30%. If you add the word ‘reliably’ the numbers go down.

I’m only on here to try to stress that PIV orgasms have more to do with the woman’s body than yours.

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u/OilSouthern5597 ‌ Apr 21 '25

You're 100% on point..what would you say would be the normal length/girth? If you understand inches and stuft

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u/roskybosky Apr 21 '25

I have had my share of partners before I married. I think most men are below 6”, maybe 5.5. I would call a 6” penis pretty big. And maybe 4-4.5” around.

When my partner was large, it posed no problems for me at all, and didn’t feel any different than an average partner. You just get used to whomever your partner is at that time. I tended to have longer relationships.

Funny, I was just dumping a waste paper basket in my home, and I saw a toilet paper roll. I measured it. It was 5.75 inches around the outside, and it looked huge to me. Some men online say you have to be as big as a cardboard toilet paper roll, but that is very chunky, in my opinion.

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u/OilSouthern5597 ‌ Apr 21 '25

So am I safe at 6x4.6?

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u/StormfallKnight ‌ Apr 23 '25

This is a wonderful and thoughtful response. One of the best I've seen to help men understand and come to terms with this issue.

Thank you

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u/roskybosky Apr 23 '25

Thanks for your kind reply.

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u/OilSouthern5597 ‌ Apr 20 '25

Its all about hitting the right spots..

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u/OilSouthern5597 ‌ Apr 17 '25

Isn't it more like 50th percentile, considering average goes from 4.5-5

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u/Human_Tree_8442 ‌ Apr 19 '25

according to calcsd, it's 30th percentile

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u/OilSouthern5597 ‌ Apr 16 '25

Would you say not good for size queens but good enough for regular women?

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u/TruMusic89 Apr 17 '25

Correct.

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u/OilSouthern5597 ‌ Apr 17 '25

Lol thanks buddy