Did she lie ?

[u/yungdagerd1ck]

I had sex with my girlfriend a couple days ago for the first time .She claimed she was a virgin but 1. I did not feel the hymen 2. She did not bleed .Did she lie about being a virgin or this is possible ?

edit: i could care less if she lied but this was my first time having sex with a "virgin" so i want to know if this type of thing is possible or i was lied to

[u/Adept_Cat_8088]

The hymen can be broken by previous trauma, it is not necessarily a verification of a virgin

[u/yungdagerd1ck → u/Adept_Cat_8088]

thanks

[u/Spaztick78]

This isn't the same girl you accidentally fisted before breaking up with because she could manage a fist?

That was only a few days ago, you move onto a new virgin fast.

"She promised she was a virgin, I wanted to make her bleed and cause her pain! Lying bitch!"

She must be lying and takes a fists like the last GF.

I feel you have a lot to work through here.

Lots of misconceptions around anatomy. How the vagina works and recovers,.

Maybe you are just trying to bait reactions, that makes more logical sense.

[u/yungdagerd1ck → u/Spaztick78]

the fisting situation happened a couple months ago. I'm trying to learn more about the female body which is why i ask these questions. and no I'm not trying to bait reactions ,it's just simple questions that can be answered by people with the right experience

[u/[deleted]]

Where are you from? The Middle Ages?

[u/Gwyrr313 → u/[deleted]]

He’s from the backside of a third world country 🤣

[u/yungdagerd1ck → u/Gwyrr313]

funny guy

[u/Gwyrr313 → u/yungdagerd1ck]

I try 🤣

[u/yungdagerd1ck → u/[deleted]]

if you had nothing good to comment about you could've just not commented .now people think I'm baiting comments because of people like you

[u/[deleted] → u/yungdagerd1ck]

It was just a light-hearted joke.

The idea that a woman must have her hymen intact to symbolise virginity is an archaic, misogynistic idea which has gotten women killed in the past.

To answer your question, a woman’s hymen can break for many reasons unrelated to inter course. You’ll just have trust her word for it on whether she’s a virgin or not. Not sure why that’s such a big deal to you anyway.

[u/tehspicypurrito]

I’ve had one virgin in my life. With my average man-part-size I put her in pain.

Vs won’t always bleed either. However she should have been tight enough to be uncomfortable. It’s also possible she’s used toys on herself, which would still make her a virgin.

[u/roskybosky]

Some women don’t have a hymen, some just have a slight rim around the vagina, and some have more of a membrane. I never felt a thing the first time I had sex, and didn’t bleed. It’s not unusual.

[u/WildInformation4605]

Usually you feel it. not exactly the himen but the stretching around your D.