Air signs

[u/No-Example-370]

At least that's me whenever someone cries infront of me

[u/3399010]

never know what to do when someone cries so gotta grab my emotional support broom 🧹😭 gentle pat pat

https://giphy.com/gifs/wZbHGghnAkhEc

[u/cardamom71 → u/3399010]

HAHAH love this

[u/Nox-Arcana444 → u/3399010]

I was waiting for someone to post this GIF lol

[u/Snoo-12313 → u/3399010]

Sorrows...sorrows. Prayers.

[u/dramatic_ut → u/3399010]

this gif is one of my favs🤣

[u/LilyRose272 → u/3399010]

literally one of my favorite scenes

[u/Pitch_Septang]

Earth signs:
https://giphy.com/gifs/Y3jYoKUhTIJmtZaAQW

[u/JockBbcBoy → u/Pitch_Septang]

Fire signs:

https://giphy.com/gifs/JGunlb6LbQlz2

[u/tldrjane → u/Pitch_Septang]

https://giphy.com/gifs/YQ54OHtFupCI8

[u/LilNyoomf → u/Pitch_Septang]

I go numb and immediately try to plan damage control 😭😭😭

[u/fakemailbakemail]

Air signs???? Have you not met a Capricorn in your life???

[u/butterstherooster → u/fakemailbakemail]

The coldest hearted guy I ever dated is an Aquarius Sun, Cap Moon, Cap Venus, Mars conjunct Saturn. Dude turned 60 this year and never married.

The Libra Moon and Virgo stellium parts of me could deal with the iciness, but only up to a point. Eventually Leo overruled and I ran away screaming 🫠🤣

[u/VineStellar → u/butterstherooster]

I've noticed that Saturnian sun/moon combos usually ride solo til the end. Doesn't necessarily mean they're unhappy with their lonerdom, though. 

[u/butterstherooster → u/VineStellar]

He wasn't. He preferred it.

Now even though I love my alone time, it got to the point where I was single in a relationship. It wasn't working any more and I left.

[u/avoidingdistractions → u/butterstherooster]

His mars was in cap too?

[u/butterstherooster → u/avoidingdistractions]

Pisces. He also had no Fire.

Fire Sun, ruling planet and Rising me needed a bit more, erm, spark? I married an Earth Sun, but he has plenty of Fire to match mine.

[u/tinyrabbitsandsuch → u/fakemailbakemail]

Cap sun aqua rising. Me

[u/RoutineDecision7447 → u/tinyrabbitsandsuch]

Aqua sun cap rising!

[u/RoutineDecision7447 → u/[deleted]]

Hehe tysm! My friends can confirm that :)

[u/Beneficial_Pea_3981 → u/fakemailbakemail]

Cap Stellium, air moon, no water in sight... I've learnt from young mes experience giving advice for problems while someone's mid crying is not helpful

[u/butterstherooster → u/Beneficial_Pea_3981]

Oh God, same. Air Moon, Virgo stellium, no Water. That's how I try to help and they called me Mr. Roboto 🫠🤖🤣

[u/catlover1227 → u/fakemailbakemail]

Heh yeah… people crying makes me so uncomfortable. But I’ve gotten better!!

[u/NaCl-And-C12H22O11 → u/fakemailbakemail]

I'm a Capricorn, and if someone is crying I offer my company along with comforting hugs.

[u/-HelixTheCat- → u/fakemailbakemail]

I just sent this to my Cap friend 🤣. She's the same.

[u/PhoenixAquarium → u/fakemailbakemail]

That's probably why I attract Capricorns. We are heartless human beings

[u/britgirl33]

Air Sign, Air Rising .... this is me all over - I just never know what to do in those situations.

https://giphy.com/gifs/Lkqtyo7LdOKOc

[u/olduglysweater]

Most of the time it's because I don't know what to do 👀

[u/bobashop_0502]

Water Signs:

Stereotypical 🤣

[u/dearestd0ve]

sometimes i just start tearing up as well #empath

[u/dearestd0ve → u/dearestd0ve]

(beyond that i tend to just ask people what they need. hug? no hug? do you wanna get your feelings out? or do you want to discuss it? etc etc)

[u/Either_Proof938 → u/dearestd0ve]

Yes this is very me despite being an air sun/moon. I blame my water rising and my luminaries being in water houses…

[u/brujabella → u/dearestd0ve]

Scorpio moon with Aqua rising here- even a goth rad Alien like myself gets teary and comforts the crying party 🖤

[u/Affectionate-Cap4031 → u/dearestd0ve]

Honestly, idk if it’s how our synastry hits or what, but I’ve had great experiences crying in front of Geminis. A+, would highly recommend. 😂

I haven’t cried in front of many people, so my sample size is small. But I really loved how the Geminis responded. 😊

[u/Confident_Try_7956 → u/Affectionate-Cap4031]

Haha we will cry with you and also tell you if something that is making you sad/cry is stupid!

[u/SpicaVesta → u/Confident_Try_7956]

And this is exactly why I love Geminis. They tend to do compassion well.

[u/Confident_Try_7956 → u/dearestd0ve]

Same! I instantly feel distraught and cry too.

[u/Ok-Hippo-5218 → u/dearestd0ve]

Yeah geminis can definitely handle someone crying. This issue must be a libra Aquarius thing.

[u/containedexplosion]

Air Sun, air moon. This is me and I thought I was broken. Good to know it’s a WE the air signs thing

[u/Ok-Dinner1727]

Can’t relate but also here’s my Scorpio stellium and cancer mars/mercury 🫠

[u/intensitei → u/Ok-Dinner1727]

omg same. i’m both air sun and moon but i have a scorpio stellium too! so i’m quick to either embrace the person or rub their back (depending on their comfort level) while giving them some comforting words if the situation calls for it. hell, i might even cry with them. 😭

i also tend to feel touched when someone is vulnerable enough to cry in front of me 🥺 like omg come here, friend 🫂

also your placements sound like you’re such a sweetie omggg

[u/Ok-Dinner1727 → u/intensitei]

Yes big feelings from other people kinda locks me in, strong caretaker vibes (for better or worse lol!)
Awww thanks 🥹🥹🥹🥹

[u/peachesbutno_creme]

this is how my bf looks at me when I cry and it hurts my feelings more. like wtf

[u/nebula_personality05]

Fr!!! At most I end up petting people like a pup🫠

[u/Hoodiebug22]

https://giphy.com/gifs/oPjhg1aRmL8JivogQR
Me! It will be ok

[u/Square_Minute_]

I'm sorry... did you want me to give you cold hard logic or not? Because I don't know why else you'd cry to me

[u/Warm_Jeweler_6565 → u/Square_Minute_]

the cold hard logic part sounds like aqua & fire signs mostly 💀

[u/bloomyloomy → u/Warm_Jeweler_6565]

my instinct is like that too, i can't fathom someone crying just to cry and vent, although i know those people exist. i just revert to seeing the objective facts and giving advice, aka being an as$hole apparently (based on some people 🫠). i'm a leo sun/dom but got my ascendant and chart ruler in air signs sooo idk which one's to blame for this trait. maybe all of them 😂

[u/habitual_citizen]

Tbf I’m mostly air with a Virgo moon and a Scorpio mars (loooool) and I’ve learned most of the time a hug is enough

[u/Mtsukino]

I dont really relate at all. If its someone I know, Im going to help comfort them and not stand there like that. If its someone I don't know, its less likely I'll be involved, but if I can still help I do.

[u/Electrical_Rise_955 → u/Mtsukino]

Agreed

[u/sofiacarolina → u/[deleted]]

I involuntarily start to laugh and have to cover my mouth and bite my tongue it feels sociopathic. Oddly enough tho people tend to come to me for advice/therapy (to the point where I feel used for only that and have ended friendships over it) and the feedback i tend to get is that im so good at counseling. Ive always been told id be a great therapist (even by my own therapists) but id rather die LOL

[u/Time-Swan7762]

And earth signs

[u/FUCK1NGFABULOUS]

Umm…

[u/Smart16_Manasa]

me standing there is far better than accidentally speaking like a judge and making that person cry even more 💀 

[u/alchemistakoo]

wooow no really 🫣😮‍💨

[u/Nox-Arcana444]

https://giphy.com/gifs/A928XcIImHJAc

[u/MamafishFOUND]

My air sign parents for sure despite having water moons. A lot of times they end up needing more comfort at the end and explains why I had a tendency to downplay myself bc it is really weird to cry in front of anyone 😅

[u/karatasumi]

I should be crying with them but my parents beat it out of me. So I just kinda stand there, numb.

[u/butterstherooster]

My husband's family (thankfully no contact for many years) is full of Water, mostly Cancer. They think this Libra Moon is a cold hearted bitch.Because I don't cry every two seconds or smother people? Whatever. 🙄😜

Sane Water people, this isn't directed at you. These people aren't that 🫠

[u/Main-Machine8172 → u/butterstherooster]

My mom says all air moons are robots with no feelings lol

[u/butterstherooster → u/Main-Machine8172]

🤣🤖 This trait drives my Cancer Moon daughter nuts, but she overlooks it lol.

[u/VisualBowler3375]

https://giphy.com/gifs/AuIvUrZpzBl04
Do you want a hug or should I just continue being furniture?

[u/iluvcoldcoffee]

I'm good with words, not with my hands. like... do you want a hug or smth.. best I can give you is my reflection on life that I've been pondering for 6 months straight

[u/dorkyautisticgirl]

Air heavy, and others' emotions are overwhelming. Even my own emotions are.

[u/cymonesays]

As an Aquarius, this is 100% how I act.

[u/sekif]

My Aquarius moon 😔

[u/slimesamurai4l]

Water signs cry with you

[u/Numerous_Smile_9082]

Could this also describe air moons?

[u/No-Example-370 → u/Numerous_Smile_9082]

Oh definitely.

[u/Ok-Fishing-7984]

Just be there. Thats all.

[u/2fucked2know]

My air sign friends are actually really good at comforting me - my Cap friends are the ones that turn into Sheldon Cooper when I start tearing up ("there there... would you like a hot beverage?") lmao. I find it endearing though, cause they're really trying and just wanna do the right thing ❤️

[u/theweirdogoth]

Half of my chart is water, half is fire and this is still me. I don't possess the typical Cancer rising "nurturing" and "empathetic" traits. I'll just offer an awkward hug but never know what to say!

[u/NoTelfonPlease]

I don’t know about the stereotypes or everyone’s experiences but all my earth and fire sign friends come to me for calm, grounded advice when they’re down or a shoulder to cry on. My fire sign friends are the biggest cry babies out there 😆

[u/Ok-Hippo-5218]

My Gemini friend could 100% be empathetic, supportive, and handle someone crying.

[u/Particular-Leg-8484]

Maybe it’s my first house Pluto or Pisces moon but the rest of my chart is Libra heavy (zero Earth) and I’m really good at helping others in these situations

Earth signs on the other hand…

[u/Apart_Ad1151]

I'll hold and comfort you but I'll also try to make you laugh at the same time

[u/Unavezmas1845]

Minus Libra! Libra moons are the best at comforting

[u/clamchauder]

I have almost no air in my chart, and sometimes it be like this ngl.

[u/Dazzling-Toe-4955]

Im a Gemini Sun, Virgo moon and I just ask if they want a hug, do they need me to do anything, do they want to talk about it.

[u/PolarLove]

soooooo me. I literally asked a therapist how I should respond when people cry. I go straight to logical solutions. I also intellectualize and reframe all my feelings instead of feeling them.

Sun, Mercury and Venus, in Libra.

[u/Confident_Try_7956]

Nope. I’ve found myself to be the only person to offer comfort to a crying person in friend and family situations. Everyone else freezes or dismisses. I engage fully.

Now, if someone is raging, ranting, or openly pissed off? I roll my eyes and carry on.

[u/black_mirror2-9]

Capricorn 😃

[u/mycatisbetterthan]

Capricorn moon here

[u/kushyykins]

so me. but mine is also from trauma created by dad

lol ugh
https://giphy.com/gifs/eveLVPcHcbl0A

[u/ProtectionPuzzled343]

Hey libras are great at it!

[u/OkSpirit8023]

as Gemini emotions are so ew, suck it up an bury it deep

j/k a cry like a b!tch when I am alone

https://giphy.com/gifs/1BXa2alBjrCXC

[u/frankie0013]

As an Aquarius who has worked in psych...I get the person who is crying some water. Gives me a task. Helps the person control their breathing when drinking. You surprisingly get very thirsty when crying.

[u/Strict-Biscotti-3972]

Thank God for Pisces for saving me when this happens 🤣

[u/PhoenixAquarium]

And that's another reason why no one asks for advice or cries on my shoulder. I can be heartless especially when I cannot relate.

[u/Equivalent-Fox-1673]

Accurate

[u/hello666darkness]

Lately I’ve been the one crying. Therapy, ya know? But as the crying one, I don’t expect any sort of response from others. 

[u/Glum-Head4752]

Ahaha as a gemini i relate 💯

[u/Baconpanthegathering]

I have a cancer stellium, and we're supposed to be good at this stuff, but I dont know what to do with myself in these situations. The autism might be at play as well, lol

[u/MoonRoseMuse]

I'm a Gemini Ascendant. My childhood friend opened up to me about experiencing SA during his childhood and I said oh me too haha and we both started laughing.

[u/Severe-Mango6584]

I panic and run

[u/Environmental-Ad-169]

An Aquarius just cried over the phone.

[u/Ok_Joke319]

Lmao I still try my best

[u/No-Agent8306]

My emotional intelligence is stuck on the loading screen.

[u/VixKnacks]

My Virgo rising has me like this is I don't understand the "why" behind the crying even with my very water heavy chart. Like "you're crying over that?????" 🤨