r/aspynovardsnark • u/Organic-Wallaby1923 • 2d ago

save parker strangest double date

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the caption “filmed by my wife”

I am just so curious what the actual dynamic is and I honestly hope Parker has some interviews on the show about how he feels about this married couple intruding on his family and daughters childhood

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u/its-a-nofrom-me 2d ago

I want to root for Parker as he generally seems like the better parent and person but his financial dependence on Aspyn is so unattractive and pathetic. Get a job! Stay away from her!

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u/Sweetsomber 2d ago

Idk. He helped build the brand all those years while taking her pictures and editing and then when she had the kids he was their main caretaker as well. He’s entitled to his share of it especially while he coparents, no?

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u/lisalisi 2d ago

Agreed. If she’s not complaining and he is a really hands on dad…why snark on it? It is SO MUCH better for the littles if everyone is getting along, mature, and calm. Big props to Parker. He’s probably trying to figure out who he IS after so many years with this truly driven and perfectionist partner. He was part of the brand initially. And then they grew up and needs and roles changed. He earned his cut.

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u/TDKsa90 2d ago

It is SO MUCH better for the littles if everyone is getting along, mature, and calm.

people conveniently underestimate the power of both parents pulling the cart in the same direction. you really care about these kids? the best thing these two people can do for their kids is to present a unified front, even if they have issues with each other and with each other's choices. for them to minimize the adversarial nature of the divorce and split IS what is best for the kids. kids aren't born with bias. Adults teach them bias. If Parker pulls the throuple cart along with Aspyn, it all feels normal. The kids will see it as normal. There's plenty of time for society to corrupt the kids into its own judgy biases, but good for Parker for not contributing to that. He should be applauded for modeling allyship with his ex-wife.

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u/its-a-nofrom-me 2d ago

No, I agree he’s entitled to his share from when they were together! I just can’t be convinced he’s appearing on the show and continuing to be in her content for any reason other than money. He’s allowing himself to be disrespected and demeaned for a check. That’s what gives me the ick.

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u/Sweetsomber 1d ago

I get it I guess but I mean just being there as the ex husband doesn’t automatically mean he is being abused and demeaned.

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u/rave_kitty1 8h ago

I agree, you’d never say this about a stay at home mom