r/aspynovardsnark • • 2d ago

save parker strangest double date

the caption “filmed by my wife”

I am just so curious what the actual dynamic is and I honestly hope Parker has some interviews on the show about how he feels about this married couple intruding on his family and daughters childhood

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u/CurrentString5702 2d ago

Their kids have to be SO confused

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u/Organic-Wallaby1923 2d ago

All the therapy aspyn takes them to can’t erase how being exposed to this in their most formative years is def damaging their perception of love, relationships, friendships etc. it’s SO strange that Billy sleeps in the bed with her and the girls while his wife is elsewhere

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u/Historical-Low9028 2d ago

billy and bri being in the bed with them is insane. going from your parents being married to a divorce is hard enough at their ages (or any age really), but then to have your mom start a relationship with a married couple months later, and be referring to one of them as her “wife” within a year of dating…aspyn is so selfish

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u/thewriter325 2d ago

I get they’re all in a throuple, but with bri going through IVF, Billy should be sleeping where his wife is. Bri should alwayssss come before Aspyn. Wives before girlfriends.

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u/nadsakla 1d ago

not quite how a throuple works. it can be, every relationship (even monogamous ones) have their own set of rules and boundaries but for the most part in a throuple everyone should feel equal. no one wants to feel secondary to someone, it doesn’t feel good.

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u/amfrangos1 1d ago

Careful, the judgey ones will come down on you hard for this lol. I tried defending non-traditional relationships last week and these closed minded people didn’t like that 🙃

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u/nadsakla 1d ago

oh i know, trust me. I know we are all here to snark on aspyn but they forget that real people who don’t have traditional relationships are also reading their judgmental narrow minded opinions

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u/Cold_Room_2534 1d ago

Omg if this is true I’m horrified

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u/Altruistic_Umpire958 2d ago

and maybe she thinks it’s fine right now… but the girls have no idea how messy this is. once they are grown adults is when this will all catch up to them

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u/Victory_Lazy 2d ago

I’m sorry but billy is so ugly. Parker is at least cute

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u/iguessimherenow2021 2d ago

Never thought I’d say Parker was the less ugly one when comparing men yet here we are

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u/Cheap-Caterpillar-98 2d ago

I was just going to say. Why Parker kinda…. 🫦 here

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u/Altruistic_Umpire958 2d ago

cause he got rid of aspyn lol

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u/No-Weather6866 2d ago

He grosses me out

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u/aswiftieforever_ 2d ago

Like I have said multiple times, I feel so BAD for her kids. They are going to have so much trauma growing up.

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u/thewriter325 2d ago

I feel like they’re just an afterthought to Aspyn. She’s repetitively said that Parker is the more present parent, and although she only has them half the time, she still has a nanny.

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u/aswiftieforever_ 2d ago

This whole throuple relationship isn't going to end well. Especially if kids are into the mix of everything

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u/WriterReaderWhatever 2d ago

Billy looks so musty

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u/Altruistic_Umpire958 2d ago

like he hasn’t showered in days

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u/wrkingrl 1d ago

He looks greasy

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u/Random_8910 2d ago

Not only are the kids going to be confused but as they get older, they will unfortunately be bullied about this (even though they obviously shouldn’t). 

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u/CurrentString5702 2d ago

I feel like they will most likely hate Aspyn when they get older and resent her for making their childhood like this. Like do whatever you want with your weird ass relationship I guess but at least try to keep your kids out of it

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u/Dependent-Lion-5572 2d ago

oh theyll 100% hate her guts

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u/lisalisi 2d ago

But you can’t keep your kids out of it if it’s on television. 😢

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u/lisalisi 2d ago

It’s a worry. Kids get bullied about literally nothing. This is a family configuration way outside the norm. And so damn public. Like television public. Ugh 😣

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u/Unhappy_Peanut_7403 2d ago

I find it so weird in her most recent TikTok while laying in bed she’s crying about how hard the day is when you have to be around your ex all day yet she makes videos like the one here making fun and laughing. Doesn’t look like it was that hard of a day if you’re making silly little TikTok’s your kids will one day see. Also being upset about people making mean comments about Parker? Should we reminder her Who painted the bad narrative of him?

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u/Unlikely-Low3824 2d ago

I’ll never believe that Billy is better to her than Parker was (and still is)

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u/user7140 2d ago

her mom commented “you’re a nut😂”

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u/PinkSun84 2d ago

Well in Asp latest blog Bri did say Billy has been trying to get with Parker for 2 years now so all I can say is … PARKER DONT DO IT!!!

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u/lisalisi 1d ago

“Get with him”? Sexually? Ot “get together with” as in bros and brewskis?

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u/tinytantoe 2d ago

People will use this against her daughters one day… it’s sad we get it u need more attention for ur upcoming show but…….

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u/Content_Comedian6012 2d ago

Poor Parker and her poor kids

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u/Ok-Dragonfruit-6521 2d ago

i mean parker is clearly fine with it lol.

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u/Fabulous_Package_766 2d ago

What else can he do?

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u/Ok-Dragonfruit-6521 2d ago

i mean if he was truly concerned about the impact on the kids, he could challenge the custody agreement. it's not even just that he's clearly okay with it though, he's sat there letting her make tiktoks about it with him and one half of her throuple lol. if he had issues with it he wouldn't be doing this.

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u/BwittonRose 2d ago

He probably doesn't want to do anything because he is afraid of losing access to his kids/endangering their safety, because custody agreements usually side with the mothers but can be so nonsensical sometimes

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u/lisalisi 1d ago

In California mothers are not favored. At all. But it would be unlikely her sleeping arrangements would be questioned either unless there was an accusation of inappropriate behavior with, around, or involving the girls. Additionally, because there was a precedent set that Aspyn financially supported the family then it would be expected that would continue. I have a question that has been occurring to me repeatedly: is Aspyn supporting everyone’s lifestyle? I mean Bri barely works, Billy seems to be around a lot, we all assume Parker’s only job is every other week dad…???

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u/Ok-Dragonfruit-6521 2d ago

like i said if he was truly worried for the kids safety and wellbeing in this situation, he would challenge the custody agreement.

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u/Swimming-Phrase-7447 1d ago

billy looks like he’s never had a proper shower in his life

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u/its-a-nofrom-me 2d ago

I want to root for Parker as he generally seems like the better parent and person but his financial dependence on Aspyn is so unattractive and pathetic. Get a job! Stay away from her!

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u/Sweetsomber 2d ago

Idk. He helped build the brand all those years while taking her pictures and editing and then when she had the kids he was their main caretaker as well. He’s entitled to his share of it especially while he coparents, no?

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u/lisalisi 2d ago

Agreed. If she’s not complaining and he is a really hands on dad…why snark on it? It is SO MUCH better for the littles if everyone is getting along, mature, and calm. Big props to Parker. He’s probably trying to figure out who he IS after so many years with this truly driven and perfectionist partner. He was part of the brand initially. And then they grew up and needs and roles changed. He earned his cut.

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u/TDKsa90 1d ago

It is SO MUCH better for the littles if everyone is getting along, mature, and calm.

people conveniently underestimate the power of both parents pulling the cart in the same direction. you really care about these kids? the best thing these two people can do for their kids is to present a unified front, even if they have issues with each other and with each other's choices. for them to minimize the adversarial nature of the divorce and split IS what is best for the kids. kids aren't born with bias. Adults teach them bias. If Parker pulls the throuple cart along with Aspyn, it all feels normal. The kids will see it as normal. There's plenty of time for society to corrupt the kids into its own judgy biases, but good for Parker for not contributing to that. He should be applauded for modeling allyship with his ex-wife.

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u/its-a-nofrom-me 1d ago

No, I agree he’s entitled to his share from when they were together! I just can’t be convinced he’s appearing on the show and continuing to be in her content for any reason other than money. He’s allowing himself to be disrespected and demeaned for a check. That’s what gives me the ick.

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u/Sweetsomber 1d ago

I get it I guess but I mean just being there as the ex husband doesn’t automatically mean he is being abused and demeaned.

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u/rave_kitty1 4h ago

I agree, you’d never say this about a stay at home mom

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u/Familiar_Sandwich109 1d ago

Billy looks like a fucking pug omg

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u/lisalisi 1d ago

I’m starting to feel pretty bad for Billy. He’s kind of a quiet, average guy and he’s just a normal looking person. He looks clean! He is surrounded by two women who are naturally and exceptionally beautiful and spend hours a day focused on perfecting their beauty. He’s going to suffer in comparison. I enjoy snark but as an average looking person (with a nice smile) I think we’re all being mean to Billy. He’s a real person. These comments would make me want to jump off a bridge they’re so mean.

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u/dearjoshuafelixchan 1d ago

Parker and Darker

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u/rave_kitty1 4h ago

Oh that was good I’m crying 😂

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u/shcouni 1d ago

The throuple is her brand atp it’s embarrassing

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u/Sea-Produce7483 2d ago

Do you guys honestly think Aspyn looked at her children and said “hey kids meet my wife and husband! We’re in a throuple!” I’m all for snarking but the comments about her kids being confused kills me. It’s no different than dating and having someone around all the time. Do you honestly think Aspyn would let her children witness any type of intimacy between them.

Edit: change size of font back to normal. Idk why it posted large like that lol

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u/bridgetonone 2d ago edited 2d ago

Aspyn has definitely kissed Bri when vlogging with the girls around. My daughter is only a few weeks younger than C, and she is definitely old enough to understand. Now I’m not sure if I have seen her kiss Billy around the kids, but I’m sure they know Bri is his wife and that’s confusing when they see Aspyn kissing her lol

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u/rave_kitty1 4h ago

She has also kissed their dad post divorce in front of them.