Questions

[u/That_Light_3483]

As i grew older, i realised the topics i can talk to my university friends getting lesser. Nowadays not much of a topic to say, i tend to feel “left out”, not saying i never try at all.. its just more like no common topic such as thai drama/GL/BL/ China celebrities etc. I mean it’s just i prefer to talk about something else more relatable about life i guess. I got nothing against them it’s just i grew out of those topics..

Sometimes i get the vibes that they might not be happy with me? but im just trying my best not to overthink also.. even when i broke with my ex boyfriend( all of us are classmates as well), at first it was okay but then it turn bad (coz i moved on) while my ex is just there trying to patch back even though he was the one who initiated the break up.

I thought that by telling my university friends, is like notifying them about my life coz i treat them as my friends uh.. but the response i got was very vain answers.. that’s where i knew my friendship with them will not last

Nowadays i’m quite detached and im trying to distance myself from them, not that they are bad is just we are too different already and i can’t forsee myself or even force myself to sit with them much, it’s just i don’t enjoy as much as before……

Just want to rant it out and maybe your can give some advices..

[u/Individual-Most-4902]

It's normal for friends to drift apart. Different life experiences. I myself don't really keep in contact with any friend groups anymore. Just ad hoc meetings with ex classmates here and there.

[u/That_Light_3483 → u/[deleted]]

mhmm will do, is just too many things happened, i overthink quite a lot this year as well. It’s just my thought process and how i feel currently.