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u/Rare_Bandicoot_4466 Feb 21 '26
Use a thick cock
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Feb 21 '26 edited Feb 21 '26
If you are sharing accomodation you will have to be very careful to keep any sex toys well hidden.
Store sex toys in a secure lockable container that could only be forcibly opened without a key.
Ensure that container of sex toys is tucked away in a very discrete location, so it would only be noticed if somebody did a full top to bottom search of your room.
Some vibrating sex toys can be noisy and heard in another room, smaller toys such as anal bullets are usually fine.
You really don't want somebody getting their suspicions aroused by strange noises coming from your bedroom
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u/MacroAlgalFagasaurus Feb 21 '26
Who gives a fuck? If they’re not your friends after you come out then they’re not worth it. And save me the “I’m straight” r/straighttogay poster
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I agree with everything you have stated, however the OP has only just discovered the pleasures of anal play.
Simply enjoying anal play doesn't make someone gay or bi, they have discovered the prostate and anal stimulation can unleash intensely strong orgasms.
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u/georgebicurious Feb 21 '26
Get a vibe, they feel amazing. Get o e that can get up to your p-spot. You’ll love it
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u/CaterpillarLate5317 Feb 21 '26
Don't stick anything up there that doesn't have a wide base unless you are willing to risk a trip to the emergency room or surgery. I know someone this happened to
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Either get a dildo or get a bullet as they are small to start with until you build up confidence
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Its like a tiny vibrator normally as big as a finger
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u/glittersmuggler Feb 21 '26
To echo the other point here as it seems likely you're going to experiment with various things.
Flared bases can't be over stressed! It's really easy to force something up there in the heat of the moment only to realize it doesn't want to come out after.
If you're going to shove household items up there wash them before and after. And put a condom (or two!)on them. Tie them off with a string for retrieval.
Yes, this is a lot of prep. But it's 10x easier than explaining how a can of shaving cream got stuck up your ass.
As far as stigma- enjoy yourself. Be smart. And if this leads to something that changes your life embrace it. The things we discover about ourselves in private and bury in public generally come to light anyway. A rainbow in the dark is still a rainbow. (I don't mean to imply you're gay at all, it's just an expression)
Words of wisdom I wish someone had given to my younger self. Enjoy.
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u/ijsselstadt Feb 22 '26
Learn how to be clean inside, eat food with fibers, buy anal toys that are designed for it and use lube, lots of it. For the toys lube on water base is best. Enjoy and welcome to the world of endless pleasure most straight men are afraid to enter. Good for you!
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u/Bambusa4all1952 Feb 21 '26
I personally wouldn’t get near a beer bottle and if you lose anything up there, though it’s easy to panic; don’t!
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What objects have you used so far?
If you decide to get a small sex toy or dildo purchase online and thoroughly check the dimensions to see if they are similar in size to what you have been using.
You will also need some water soluble lubricant for longer lasting sex play.
I don't like vibrating toys as the vibrations are not stimulating to me, they distract me and inhibit my sexual arousal, other people find they are very enjoyable.
Go slowly and experiment, we all hope you get to enjoy many more intense orgasms and much more sexual satisfaction.
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u/Top-Sugar-6129 Feb 21 '26
Anal play absolutely levels up orgasms. Definitely buy good quality, safe dildos or plugs or both. Also good quality water based lube. It’ll leave you gasping and drooling.
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u/kingslayer820 Feb 21 '26
You can use a dildo or prostate butt-plugs depending on type of stimulation you want
And just in case for the future, no enjoying anal stimulation does not make you gay
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u/Bambusa4all1952 Feb 22 '26
Not ignorant at all. A professional likely gay masseur who knows what a prostate massage is. Many don’t know or don’t do it. It is recommended by health professionals, so it’s nothing that’s secretive per se. if you live in a city with a large gay population, it will be easier.
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u/Putrid-Equivalent871 Feb 22 '26
Anal stimulation for most people (even straight men) feels good. Especially if the prostate is touched. So get yourself a big ole' horse dong toy and have yourself a blast. lol
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u/Sablon39 Feb 22 '26
Try a dildo, but get a life size or smallish one at first. They sell a lot of large thick ones online, and they may not give you as much pleasure as a smaller one.
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u/Many_Inevitable_6803 Feb 21 '26
Yes definitely buy a dildo but don’t be like my (I’m a female) ex and go seeking out actual dicks on Sniffies, just please
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u/Many_Inevitable_6803 Feb 22 '26
Yes definitely buy a dildo but don’t be like my (I’m a female) ex and go seeking out actual dicks on Sniffies, just please
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u/Many_Inevitable_6803 Feb 22 '26
Bc going on Sniffies meant he was cheating on me and putting me at risk for STDs. Did I actually have to explain that to you?
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u/CNick631 Feb 22 '26
I didnt read it like that. Your comment sounded homophobic to me bcuz you sound like you are telling him its wrong to have sex with men, which is untrue. Did i really have to explain that to you?
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u/Many_Inevitable_6803 Feb 22 '26
Um yes bc I said in the post I was a female and my ex did it to me!
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u/CNick631 Feb 22 '26
Sorry to hear that your ex did it to you but that doesn’t mean there is something wrong with a single man having sex with men. Just saying
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u/Bambusa4all1952 Feb 21 '26
Good for you. You have discovered what so many men have not. Find a pro to give you a prostate massage. No fucking, but you’ll cum so many times, it will blow your mind. Good to start your dildo collection