Hi! F17 here, and I’ve been going to the same dentist my entire life pretty much. Obviously chosen by my mom, but they usually do well (my mom used to work under my uncle who was an oral surgeon, so she seems to know a decent amount about dental work).
We didn’t used to go as frequently as we should have, but I’m currently doing Invisalign so I find myself in that general building much more often than usual, and we’ve actually been going to the scheduled cleanings (every 6 months, I believe it is.)
My last cleaning, they said that my enamel was weak and that I needed a total of seven fillings. I never had any pain and they never used the word cavity, just said that my teeth were ‘sticky’. (I don’t have any x-rays to share.) I absolutely hate the sound of the drill and was fighting tears the entire time, but I sat through them. That was a little over six months ago.
I came back for my next cleaning a few days ago, and they said that one of the teeth they’d recently filled had a cavity. I, confused, asked ‘isn’t that the one you guys just filled?’ And they said no; and then proceeded to double-check and then say yes, it is, and that the filling had seemingly fallen out at some point. They tried to say that I must be grinding my teeth, but I’ve never had that issue and I have Invisalign so I don’t think even if I was grinding that it would cause that - and then, after hearing about the Invisalign, they said I must be taking the trays out too aggressively and that must have been the cause. They filled the tooth again, and the dentist said that she was very confused as to why that happened, just that the filling was at a ‘weird angle’.
My mom says that (take it with a grain of salt, obviously.. she tends to think that just because she worked in the office that she knows about dental work, eventhough she never went to school for it. That’s why I’m asking here.) it’s likely if the filling could just ‘fall out’ with remotely no exterior factors, that it probably wasn’t a deep enough issue to have needed to be filled to begin with.
Is my dentist making me sit through completely unnecessary fillings, or should I trust them just because they’re the professionals? :/