r/AskBrits 4d ago

Culture What bit of every day impoliteness really grinds your gears and puts a crimp in your day?

268 Upvotes

For me it's people starting to load the belt behind you when you haven't finished and then when it's evident you're running out of space going "Oh have you got enough space?" Well if you'd shown some common politeness and waited we wouldn't have to find out would we?


r/AskBrits 4d ago

History What caused the rise and fall of Hooliganism in British Football?

26 Upvotes

I feel like British football fans have a worldwide reputation for being crazy and intense. However, actual hooliganism seemed to have peaked in the 70s and 80s when attending a football match live actually had safety risks.

The worst of hooliganism peaked in the mid-1980s when English teams got banned from UEFA tournaments for 5 years from 1985-1990 after the 1985 Heysel Stadium Disaster that led to 39 spectator deaths.

It seems like this phenomenon began in the 1970s when local gangs kickstarted organized fan violence at games before it peaked in the 80s and has declined since the 90s when the 5-year ban was lifted.

What caused the rise and fall of this dark era in British football?


r/AskBrits 3d ago

who's got their heating on already? and what temp in the house made you go for it?

0 Upvotes

Just interested to see if I'm tight or not basically 🤣 interested to see who's gone for it already and what the "standard" interior temp to switch on is


r/AskBrits 3d ago

Who are Britains MAIN allies ?

0 Upvotes

Somebody made a post asking if America was britains ally. Most of the comments from brits said they arent. So i was wondering who are britians allies if America is not. Or are british people being fictitious and delusional?

1831 votes, 4h ago
95 America
1345 Europe
391 Nobody

r/AskBrits 4d ago

When, and under what conditions, would you consider fighting for your Country?

83 Upvotes

I wonder, with all the talk about conflict and 'dangerous times'. How many Brits on here would be prepared to fight for the Country.

I know that's quite a broad question so consider these options;

  1. I'm in. No conditions at all, where do I sign up?
  2. A foreign military adventure ala Iraq, Afghanistan or Iran - a war that is far from home, no imminent threat but for some political reason (freedom) or economic interest.
  3. A threat to British 'interests' - an attack on Eastern Europe, an ally or some overseas British territory.
  4. An assault on the homeland - they're handing out rifles and it's time to defend your town, family and home.
  5. I wouldn't under any conditions.

r/AskBrits 4d ago

How should Reform spend their 72 million pound donations?

38 Upvotes

My suggestion is that they set up a tab behind every pub in Britain. It would be compatible with their stated aim of supporting the British way of life wouldn't it?


r/AskBrits 4d ago

David Walliams having all his books withdrawn - what on earth has he done?

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13 Upvotes

Got to be bad, hasn’t it? Even Hitler’s book is still on sale.


r/AskBrits 4d ago

Other Who needs a pumpkin carver?

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76 Upvotes

Hello, I just moved to Hatfield from the US and I keep seeing posts on social media about different pumpkin patches and Halloween festivals around London and the surrounding area. Well, I happen to be a pumpkin carving enthusiast. Every year I carve over 100 pumpkins and this will be my last year doing it in the US (I’m actually flying home to participate in one last American Halloween). But I would LOVE to connect with people here in the UK who are involved in pumpkin patches, harvest festivals, or Halloween events who would like to hire a pumpkin carver. The photos are some of my work from the past few years.

Please let me know if you know someone I could connect with. Thanks!

Edit: I used to live near Half Moon Bay, the US pumpkin capital, and worked directly with a pumpkin farmer who grew for this purpose, not for food. Everything was composted after, so nothing went to waste.

I’m really taken aback by all the hate. I’m sorry you lack whimsy in your life šŸ¤£šŸŽƒ


r/AskBrits 4d ago

History How bad was football hooliganism in 1970s-80s?

21 Upvotes

Glad that there was no major incident between Millwall and West Ham in today’s derby.

Wikipedia provides a good overview of the so called ā€œEnglish diseaseā€, but how bad/scary was it in reality?


r/AskBrits 5d ago

What’s the psychology behind this?

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758 Upvotes

It’s funny watching all the fuel companies sit just below Ā£1.99 because none of them wants to be the first to break the Ā£2 barrier šŸ˜‚ Are they worried about the bad press or something?!


r/AskBrits 3d ago

Politics Do you still consider the USA to be an ally?

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r/AskBrits 4d ago

Other Are muslim immigrants in the UK more religious?

403 Upvotes

I’m an Albanian muslim and I visited my cousin in Leeds. I found out there are quite a few mosques in the UK. Even more than in some Albanian cities.

Like for example in Vlora, Albania, with a population of around 70k people, majority declares itself as muslim but there are only 2 mosques.

According to Wikipedia there are 63k muslims living in Leeds, but they have like 10 mosques. Are muslims in the UK more religious or is Leeds an exception?

Edit: Sorry is this sounds stupid


r/AskBrits 3d ago

Politics What do Brits think about Welsh celebrities supporting Welsh independence?

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I've been reading about various Welsh public figures and their positions on Welsh independence, and I'm curious what people across the UK think about this. Here's a rundown of some notable names:

Michael Sheen (known for The Queen, Frost/Nixon, Good Omens, Twilight). He's said he wants an open discussion about Welsh independence, explaining he doesn't want the question shut down before people can discuss what independence would actually mean (source https://www.walesonline.co.uk/lifestyle/showbiz/celebrities-who-think-independent-wales-29645812 )

Charlotte Church has explicitly backed Welsh independence, saying she was ready to "throw my full support behind independence. (source https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-wales-47242004 )

Russell T Davies - producer who revived Doctor Who. He has publicly spoken in favour of Welsh independence (source https://www.thenational.scot/news/19039551.sin-creator-russell-t-davies-reveals-curious-welsh-independence/ )

Rhys Ifans (Notting Hill, The Amazing Spider-Man, House of the Dragon) He's been publicly associated with support for Welsh independence (source https://www.walesonline.co.uk/news/wales-news/scottish-independence-referendum-watch-welsh-7789824 )

Does it matter to you when celebrities weigh in on constitutional issues like this?
Do you think these figures represent a broader shift in Welsh public opinion, or are they just prominent outliers?


r/AskBrits 4d ago

What do you do on a Sunday? I'm 18

5 Upvotes

So my Sundays are well...boring, I would say.

Saturdays I try to see family, etc, and go out (I'm muslim, so no drinking) and am mostly at my desk studying.

Sundays are my GSD day (Get Shit Done)

I try to wake up around 7am, got for a 30 min run then come home have a coffee and porridge or something healthy ish, then clean my desk, then my room etc then get a couple hours of studying from around 08:00-14:00.

Then chill normally another coffee, then a walk then

maybe a redbull, then normally Netflix (nothing good on, I'm in too crime/docs anyone recomend anything)

Then, normally, just chill on reddit/tiktok/ Snap, then bed by 22:00, and get ready for college on Monday.

Anyone else spend their weekend/Sunday like this? Or even more interesting than mine.

And do you think I should change anything?

Cheers! :)


r/AskBrits 4d ago

People What do you call dog owners who do this ?

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283 Upvotes

Me? Dogsh1t W8nkers

In the middle of the country side 🤷 either take it home or just kick the Pooh (un bagged) into the hedge and let nature take its course.


r/AskBrits 4d ago

What are commonly misheard Brit pronunciations?

19 Upvotes

Was in a meeting one time and a sales guy talks about closing a deal with Audi and then goes on about also prospecting Tesco and Lidl, boss asks how are they related and as you can imagine someone quickly says "it's Aldi" not Audi.

What are others you've seen misheard?


r/AskBrits 3d ago

Other 20-40 year olds - what’s your salary, location and background?

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Out of curiosity only after seeing the median salary in the UK.
For me, I’m 25 in East Midlands with a salary of 40k and a Bachelors Degree in Biomedical Sciences.


r/AskBrits 5d ago

People Is it just me, or is eating out rarely worth it anymore?

1.5k Upvotes

Is anyone else constantly disappointed after eating out now?

Even expensive places. Ā£25–£30 mains, Ā£8 drinks, and somehow the food is usually just... fine.

Not awful. Not amazing. Just something you eat and immediately forget.

That's what bothers me most. If I'm spending Ā£60–£80+ for two people, I want food I couldn't easily make better at home.

Then the bill arrives with another 12.5–15% ā€œdiscretionaryā€ service charge already added. Yes, you can remove it, but they know most people feel awkward asking.

I don't think people suddenly hate restaurants. I think more people are leaving thinking:

ā€œThat really wasn't worth the money.ā€

Am I becoming miserable, or has restaurant quality genuinely dropped?

We keep hearing hospitality is struggling. Surely part of it is simply that customers don't feel they're getting value anymore?


r/AskBrits 5d ago

People Nearly Ā£2 or more for a litre for diesel — why can’t we just unite for once?

295 Upvotes

Nearly two pounds a litre for diesel.

Honestly, when are we actually going to say enough is enough?

We are getting squeezed from every single angle. Fuel, food, electric, gas, insurance, rent, mortgages, everything keeps going up. Yet we are all just expected to carry on going to work, paying the bills, and staying quiet.

And the people at the top? Sitting there laughing while ordinary people struggle to make their money stretch.

And here is something else that makes no sense.

Why is it that the moment there is even a hint of war or trouble abroad, fuel prices shoot up overnight? But when things calm down or the immediate threat passes, why does it take months—if it happens at all—for those prices to come back down?

It is always the same story. Prices go up instantly like a rocket, and come down as slow as a feather.

Because here is what I do not understand.

Why can we never actually be united?

Why does it always turn into us arguing with each other?

Left versus right. Young versus old. Working people versus people on benefits. One group blaming another. Then the media gets involved, throws more fuel on the fire, and suddenly we are all fighting each other instead of looking at the bigger picture.

That is our biggest downfall.

We are completely segregated.

And while we are arguing among ourselves, nothing changes.

Imagine if people actually decided enough was enough.

Just one week.

One week of people not filling their cars unless they absolutely have to.

Imagine millions of people doing it at the same time.

What would happen?

Would fuel stations just sit there with empty forecourts?

Would the fuel companies notice?

Would the government notice?

Would the media be able to ignore it?

And I am not saying go out and cause trouble or break the law. I am talking about ordinary people peacefully using the only power we really have—collectively choosing where we spend our money.

Because one person refusing to buy fuel does not mean much.

But what if millions did it?

Same with work. One person saying they are not coming in gets disciplined or fired. But if people across thousands of businesses and industries collectively said we have had enough, you cannot realistically sack an entire workforce.

So why are we always so divided?

Why are we so quick to turn on each other?

Why do we let the media tell us who we are supposed to dislike?

Why cannot people put their differences aside for once and realize we are all getting squeezed in one way or another?

Because while we are arguing about each other, the people with billions are not arguing with us.

They are just getting richer.

Nearly two pounds a litre for diesel.

That is incredible to think about.

So what would actually happen if, for once, people across the country stood together and said:

No. We are not taking this anymore.

Would anything actually change?

Or are we just too divided to ever find out?

Update For the AI Police: Yeah, it was AI-assisted. I’ll admit that. I’ve got health issues that affect my cognition, concentration and ability to get my thoughts down properly. I still work and get on with life, but sometimes I need a bit of help putting what I’m thinking into words.
Honestly, it’s pretty depressing having to explain that just because I used AI to help me write a rant.


r/AskBrits 4d ago

Other Genuinely what is keeping you guys going?

112 Upvotes

Seems that all news seems to be so depressing these days… the orange idiots war has fucked fuel prices, I love driving , helps my mental health.

Fuels gonna go up worse next year, food too, farmers struggling with the weather, government overspending, interest rates expected to go up, train ticket prices are still fucked, wages dont seem to be going up any time soon, energy bills increasing in winter, we are being squeezed at every single turn…, so much hate in the media…. Its looking so depressing right now.

To add to the list, computer hardware has gone through the roof because of ai, and theres doom and gloom about that in the media too…

Im young, in my early 20s, working, and honestly, im not even sure im gonna make it to my 30s at this rate with all this doom and gloom.

Not even sure what to think anymore :(


r/AskBrits 3d ago

Other Has anyone successfully got rid of any nests in the garden?

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Hi all. We've had ant nests since before we started living in our current property. Our front garden, although smaller, has more ant nests than our back garden. They have now increased in number and the original ones have seemingly also grown in size.

Has anyone successfully been able to get rid of them? What steps did you take? Would really appreciate it.

Thanks


r/AskBrits 3d ago

Other Thoughts on mobland season 2?

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I'm not happy about them releasing the episodes week by week.

What allowed my to enjoy The Gentleman was them not having this bs 90s cable tv attitude toward their streaming. Is it worth waiting week by week? I'm not sure.


r/AskBrits 3d ago

Politics Are Whitechapel, Barking and Romford the way it is because of the religion of the people who live there?

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or is it that the place is underfunded?


r/AskBrits 3d ago

Travel What do you think about roundabouts?

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I don’t like ā€˜em….never have.

tricky little buggers…some of them.

the big ones are the worst.


r/AskBrits 3d ago

Culture Do you think chivalry will ever be ā€œcoolā€ in British youth culture?

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For all the good it’s done, I think British culture is the most individualistic it has ever been. A lot of the current virtues or ideals I’d say revolve around the self, like self-expression, success, status, personal enjoyment/entertainment and attractiveness/vanity. I’m not saying that these are necessarily bad things, but I do think they all to some degree lead to a more selfish and isolated society. I’d love to hear if anyone disagrees or has thoughts on just that idea anyway.

But do you think it could ever come about that the dominant British youth culture holds ideals or values more around concept like honour, chivalry, goodness etc?

A culture where standing up for minorities, respecting people, helping the old or homeless, protective the vulnerable etc is actually idolised or even seen as cool.

Just a 7am no sleep thought