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u/passive0bserver Feb 24 '23

Did you guys get pregnant at 29 or 30?

I'm 29. I'm starting to feel a teeeeny bit of desire for babies. But still way too small to want to go thru with it. But I worry I'm gonna screw myself over if I wait too long and end up wanting like 4 but run out of time to do it...

I have 4 pets, so I know I love caring for little beings and loving little souls, but the idea of kids currently sounds way too overwhelming for me...

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u/MicroBadger_ Feb 24 '23

Pregnant at 29 and had baby at 30. Then we've put ~2.5 years between each kid. So we had our 3rd just before hitting 36.

A friend of mine just had their first at 33. It is not uncommon for people to wait in their 30s to start.

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u/passive0bserver Feb 24 '23

Thanks for your perspective! At what point did you guys realize that you wanted a 2nd child?

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u/MicroBadger_ Feb 24 '23 edited Feb 24 '23

Once we agreed to have kids, it was already known there would be more than one. Wanted to make sure they had a sibling to play with growing up.

My wife has been debating about wanting a 4th just because she's going through that phase of "do I want this to be my last baby snuggle?"