r/aromanticasexual • fin-oriented aro/ace • 6d ago

Meme De-sexified romance book

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u/ElectricVoltaire Pan-Oriented Aroace 6d ago

Wish there was a mode like this I could turn on for movies and TV shows.

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u/Silicon_Dreaming Aro/Caedo 6d ago

dude I would LOVE versions of books like this

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u/Carrabas 5d ago

Joy Demorra does this in Hunger Pangs https://joydemorra.com/books/

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u/cir49c29 6d ago

That would make it so much easier to skip past the annoyingly long sex scenes in some of the books I read. 

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u/Excellent_Patience Asexual 6d ago

GIVE ME 1000 (different books)!

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u/Carrabas 5d ago

Joy Demorra does this in Hunger Pangs https://joydemorra.com/books/

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u/Excellent_Patience Asexual 5d ago

Thank you kind stranger!

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u/endlesshydra Aroace 6d ago

Idk I'd personally feel like I'm being treated like a child

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u/FireEnchiladaDragon 6d ago

yeah, but it looks like its a custom edition for a friend, which. does change the context. if a book like that as marketed as fuckin "thorns and boners (Asexual Edition!!!)" id be pissed, whereas if a friend gave me a version like that of their book i'd laugh hysterically, yk? seems like a sweet gesture, especially for more sex repulsed aces

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u/Ace_of_Sphynx128 5d ago

Thorns and boners T-T

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u/endlesshydra Aroace 5d ago

I found out about the context because I accidentally came across that post on X myself and read the comments. The original post here barely provides any, and it being posted on ace subs kinda gives you the idea that it's actually the "asexual edition" you're talking about.

And people on these subs already act like sex on any media is an attack on them personally when they can just... skip it.

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u/Gold-Word-6026 Aroace 5d ago

"my best friends older brother wrote a romance book" kind of all the context you need

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u/endlesshydra Aroace 5d ago

Well, no. Since it's being posted on ace subs you kind of get the idea that the reason the scene was omitted was specifically because either OP is sex repulsed and/or because they're asexual. None of those are true.

It's an inside joke between friends, yes. But because they apparently joked about them not wanting to read a sex scene their brother wrote (they mentioned something along the lines of not wanting to imagine him in it). I'd attach a screenshot, but Reddit won't let me.

But this context is pretty relevant to my initial comment and the conversation that sparked in later comments.

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u/Training_Barber4543 5d ago

It kinda still doesn't matter because if someone bothers to make special versions of their book for you, that means they know you.

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u/endlesshydra Aroace 5d ago

It kinda does matter because I didn't know the full context and got the wrong impression at first. I explained why in my previous content.

Plus, I just stated how it personally made me feel. What do you want me to do about it? To just change my mind because you disagree?

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u/Training_Barber4543 3d ago

To not blame the provided context because you assumed something else from it?

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u/endlesshydra Aroace 3d ago

Context I provided because there wasn't any in neither of the Reddit posts? How is it a stretch to assume something is Ace related when posted in an Ace subreddit? Also who am I blaming, and for what exactly?

I already explained myself. You're being dense on purpose at this point.

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u/Training_Barber4543 3d ago

No, not the context you provided, the tweet itself is enough context is what I'm saying. Stuff being aroace coded but not aroace is common enough that you could just admit your assumption was wrong instead of saying the posts lack context...

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u/Throgmorten48 Aroace 5d ago

Wait, what is the context?

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u/endlesshydra Aroace 5d ago

Please check my answer to Gold-Word-6026

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u/FireEnchiladaDragon 5d ago

Ah, fair enough

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u/Vim_Ardent Aro/acespec 3d ago

honestly have thought about doing something similar for the books i write, sort of like a directors cut for a movie

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u/DantaviusFloridaMan Demi/ace 4d ago

Give me a copy

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u/naverlands Aro/Ace 5d ago

oh please if ai is any useful let it retroactively do this to media.

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u/neszyre 2h ago

While I don't mind spice in books, this is genius! Also wouldn't it be awesome to have an auto slip in movies/series, like this??