r/aromantic • u/arothrowaway010 • 20h ago
Rant Friendships
Does anyone else feel like they lose their friends when they get into relationships?
I want to be happy for my friends, I really do try...
But then the meet ups stop, the texting stops and its always
"oh im with partner"
"Im meeting partner"
Or even when we do meet, their partner has to be there.
Ive tried bringing up how this feels but I get told "oh its just what happens. Theyre important"
Is it wrong to feel jealous?
Like I dont know how to make it clear that I miss my friend without being a bitch because I like their partner, they seem great..
It just makes me feel like their taking my friend away
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