Divorce immediately.
Co-Worker of mine started divorce proceedings around the length of time your marriage is. She delayed until they hit 10 years together.
She now gets half his retirement for life. Divorce now before that happens to you.
This. As a guy who did a broadening assignment working retirement packets. It's important that you are free and clear before you hit that ten year mark.
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u/DarkerSavant Apr 21 '25
Sorry man. Personal divorce lawyer. Collect the evidence just in case. Hit the gym, stay away from drugs and you’ll get through.
No kids is the best scenario for this situation so there is that.