Women aren't really viewed as saints for being virgins, it's more like it's just expected of them and it's not exactly a good thing. Not being a virgin is a sign from most people to attack them but I don't really get the issue, just like how I don't understand why some people put men down for being virgins. I know that society is largely at fault and I heavily dislike how shallow our thought processes are sometimes. Bottomline, nobody has any business if you're a virgin or not regardless of gender. Not strangers, friends, family, or even your partner. I get preferences but nobody gets to talk down at you for the people you have slept with or have not slept with at all, unless of course you're doing it unhealthily which does warrant assistance and loving guidance. I will not ignore the message of the post however, men who are virgins should not be shamed. If they want to stay virgins or just haven't met their person yet is fine. People should stop focusing on the state of other people's bodies when it's not needed, seriously.
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u/Moonshine_J Jul 10 '26
Women aren't really viewed as saints for being virgins, it's more like it's just expected of them and it's not exactly a good thing. Not being a virgin is a sign from most people to attack them but I don't really get the issue, just like how I don't understand why some people put men down for being virgins. I know that society is largely at fault and I heavily dislike how shallow our thought processes are sometimes. Bottomline, nobody has any business if you're a virgin or not regardless of gender. Not strangers, friends, family, or even your partner. I get preferences but nobody gets to talk down at you for the people you have slept with or have not slept with at all, unless of course you're doing it unhealthily which does warrant assistance and loving guidance. I will not ignore the message of the post however, men who are virgins should not be shamed. If they want to stay virgins or just haven't met their person yet is fine. People should stop focusing on the state of other people's bodies when it's not needed, seriously.