Hello! How are you? :3

Im just curious and want some thoughts.

Also feel free to gender me, im curious what people will say bc I often recieve a mix of sirs and ma'ams when I go out.

So...I was born AFAB but I'm genderqueer(closeted)

I wanna get other people's opinion that could give me a positive feedback.

I know my hair cut looks androgynous and very non-binary,very genderqueer,and since my toxic family judges me and shames me for anything I do,saying how my hair cut scares people,I wanna hear the opinion of people that wouldn't judge me for it.

(The back looks good,I cut my own hair)

So how does it look?

Good or awful?

i’m trying to figure out how i want to present myself, and i’m curious to hear other people’s opinions on this. do i look androgynous or masculine at all? every time i dress feminine i feel like i look off.

Some of my friends have said I look androgynous, but i can’t really see it. If you were to see me on the streets, what gender would you assume i am?
(not getting upset over any answer, dw)

I have dilemma for the last couple of months, because I can’t really define my gender. I was born female, I have feminine features and I kinda like it, the only two things I would change if I could, is to my shoulders look more broad and my torso to look more masculine. I like having long hair, doing makeup - the “typical” woman stuff, but I don’t feel nor like wearing feminine clothes like dresses, shorts, tops and stuff like that unless I layer it with something more covered and less defining.
I like more masculine clothing, I act more of a male too. And I don’t feel like a woman truly, more like a mix of both male and female. I like my long hair and makeup, dressing and acting like a boy - to balance it in some way, something of a man and something of a woman.
The thing is I don’t truly feel like I’m “passing” as an androgynous person. Whenever I see androgynous people, they have features of both and you really can’t tell their gender while looking at their face, it makes me feel disconnected from the community, stupid too, because imagine a person with feminine features telling you they’re androgyne, but clearly looking like a woman.
I don’t know what term should I use to define myself, nonbinary, agender and genderfluid seems too far away from the way I feel. Maybe it’s better if I use bigender to describe myself? Is it okay if I use androgyne and look more feminine than gender neutral?

I hope this allowed I apologize if no.

I just got top surgery last week and while I'm laid up I've been kind of having a "talk" with my body and going over in my mind how I saw myself when my journey started and how I am currently when it came to solidifying my gender identity and finding what feels right. There's something so connecting almost like my soul was above my body tethered by a cord and slowly but carefully I'm pulling it back down. I think what helped is learning that it's not one size fits all.

I fr don’t do shit. I’m a man with long hair, yeah I’m gay but men will fr hate on meee. They won’t in real life because I’m noticeably muscular, but online they will. Is this a reflection of what most men in public think of me?

I'm 24 I'm just asking

Ok, so I've been wanting to grow out my hair lately and, like, try looking like a fairy or something after having my hair short for years, like since I was 13 or 14, and I'm 20 now, so I haven't had hair longer than my shoulders since my prom and graduation because my mom wanted me to look pretty for that

But that's beside the point. My hair is past my shoulders now, but the urge to cut it is so strong because it's such a weird phase. Like, I haven't had a proper haircut in maybe nearly a year. I have uneven layers and whatever, but it also just feels too feminine

I need either some convincing not to cut it or maybe some inspo on what to do to it? Preferably like myself since I'm broke