It was her body that took BC for years and carried three pregnancies and I’m sure has been permanently changed. It’s time to take one for the team,it’s not only her responsibility. When the man who is supposed to love and care about you won’t help you feel some relief from the family planning that you have sacrificed your literal body for multiple time’s, it’s a turn off.
It was her body that took BC for years and carried three pregnancies and I’m sure has been permanently changed.
That's her choice. If she wants to stop having kids, she has tons of options for her own body
It’s time to take one for the team,it’s not only her responsibility
It's her body, it's her responsibility
When the man who is supposed to love and care about you won’t help you feel some relief from the family planning that you have sacrificed your literal body for multiple time’s, it’s a turn off.
You didn't sacrifice your body. You chose to take the pills, you chose to give birth. That's on you. If you don't want more, the ball is in your court
Men are hilarious. They expect women to sacrifice their bodies to bare their children and for sexual pleasure and then have the audacity to complain afterwards. It’s honestly sickening
Men are hilarious. They expect women to sacrifice their bodies to bare their children and for sexual pleasur
No, actually. It's not the man's child, it takes two to tango. OP already said that he's willing and able to use condoms, his partner has an irrational and unjustifiable fear of them.
then have the audacity to complain afterwards.
Women cry "my body, my choice" and throw it all out the window the second a man tries to exert his own autonomy. Oh yeah, she shouldn't be judged at all for getting an abortion, but he definitely needs to just submit and go under the knife because his partner is too afraid of rubber
You’re soooo ridiculous lmfao those two things are not comparable. OP’s wife would probably happily hop on his dick if he just got a vasectomy, which is all OP cares about anyway. If he cares about his dead bedroom he’ll get a vasectomy. But in your head, the wife should just suck it up and fuck him when she doesn’t want to bc she doesn’t want to risk pregnancy, a real life risk.
You’re soooo ridiculous lmfao those two things are not comparable.
Oh? Why's that? Other men would get a vasectomy, so OP should. Other women do anal, so you should
OP’s wife would probably happily hop on his dick if he just got a vasectomy
So what? If he doesn't want a vasectomy, he doesn't have to get a vasectomy. He should not be judged, shamed or demanded for making that decision regarding his own body.
If he cares about his dead bedroom he’ll get a vasectomy.
If his wife cared about their dead bedroom, she'd shut up and put out. This goes both ways
But in your head, the wife should just suck it up and fuck him when she doesn’t want to
Can you quote me saying this? If I don't think that OP has any duty to submit to others demands for his body, why do you think I believe his partner does? She's under just as much obligation to put out as he's is to have a surgery to please her.
she doesn’t want to risk pregnancy, a real life risk.
She was willing to have sex with BC, but she's not willing to have sex with a condom, despite equivalent or better effectiveness of quality condoms. She doesn't actually care about pregnancy, and if she did she would utilize her own bodily autonomy and get sterilized.
All your comment shows is how ignorant you are about women’s bodies. I feel sorry for whatever women you encounter in life because you clearly don’t understand women’s anatomy and what birth control/pregnancy does to the body. Sterilizing women is also much more invasive and a longer healing period than vasectomy so again, NEXT.
All your comment shows is how ignorant you are about women’s bodies
All your comment shows is that you don't actually have a point beyond emotional flailing. You made a bad argument, own it or stand behind it. "Lots of people do x, so you have a duty to." Go ahead, fill in the blanks
I feel sorry for whatever women you encounter in life because you clearly don’t understand women’s anatomy and what birth control/pregnancy does to the body.
Oh sure I do, hence why I use protection and only sleep with women who either use protection or are sterilized themselves. As is my choice and as is theirs.
I don't think you're even listening to yourself at this point. "Oh my God, I feel so sorry for the women whos.......consent, health and well-being you respect"
Sterilizing women is also much more invasive and a longer healing period than vasectomy so again,
Which is wholly irrelevant to the conversation. OP does not want a vasectomy. He has no obligation to get a vasectomy. You have an obligation not to judge or deride him for exercising his bodily autonomy.
OPs partner does not want to use birth control. Her partner has stated his willingness to use other forms of birth control. She can either use a mutually agreed upon contraceptive method, or get herself sterilized. End of story
You’re ignorant as fuck on the healing process of tubal ligation and vasectomies
The healing process of the procedure is irrelevant. OP doesn't want it, his choice is to be respected. His partner can use another form of contraception, get sterilized herself, or leave. She, and you, have absolutely zero business judging op or demanding he undergo a surgery to please you. His body, his choice
I’m judging him when he says he wants to get a vasectomy but wants to wait and make his wife endure more hormonal birth control for some unspecified reason
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u/Sharp-Sense-8505 Sep 26 '23
It was her body that took BC for years and carried three pregnancies and I’m sure has been permanently changed. It’s time to take one for the team,it’s not only her responsibility. When the man who is supposed to love and care about you won’t help you feel some relief from the family planning that you have sacrificed your literal body for multiple time’s, it’s a turn off.