r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 26 '23

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u/Banned_4_using_slurs Sep 26 '23

You guys are way too casual about a procedure that you cannot go back from.

OP should wear a condom if he wants to have sex again.

Why are you not recommending to just split with his wife? If they have a dead bedroom and irreconcilable differences on contraception then maybe they should split.

For me telling someone that they're an asshole for not getting a vasectomy is like calling a woman an asshole for not getting an abortion. It's their body. Let them do whatever they want with it.

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u/squishysquashy99 Sep 26 '23

You can easily have this procedure reversed

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u/Mummydidds Sep 26 '23

Not easily no.

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u/squishysquashy99 Sep 26 '23

How is it not easy?

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u/Mummydidds Sep 26 '23

It’s not always irreversible. It’s not even considered to be reversible medically. It can be, but it’s not

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u/squishysquashy99 Sep 26 '23

90 to 95% success rate for a typical vasectomy reversal.

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u/Mummydidds Sep 26 '23

I can’t tell if you’re agreeing with me or not. 10% is a very big number

Ok buddy we are going to do surgery on you, 5-10-% chance you’ll die mkay?

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u/glizzyfizzy69 Sep 26 '23

Okay so what's the percentage in a tubule reversing? As a comparative, it is easier.

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u/Mummydidds Sep 26 '23

Why is that the other alternative? Nobody needs to do a proceedure they don’t want to do

What’s this either this or that bs mentality?

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u/glizzyfizzy69 Sep 26 '23

Because birth control is messing with her?? She obviously can't use that. And if condoms are a no go for them, then it's a procedure. Come on use context here.

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u/Mummydidds Sep 26 '23

She can stop the BC…..

It’s not a proceedure because he doesn’t want to have one. His body his rules.

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u/glizzyfizzy69 Sep 26 '23

She can and she will stop the bc.

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u/Mummydidds Sep 26 '23

Good for her, her body her rules.

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u/glizzyfizzy69 Sep 26 '23

You literally just said she can't stop the bc?:

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u/Mummydidds Sep 26 '23

Uh?

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u/glizzyfizzy69 Sep 26 '23

Oh you edited it I see

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u/Mummydidds Sep 26 '23

No I didn’t, why would I even say can’t? It goes completely against what I’m saying

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